Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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How To Get A Girl To Love Sex

 

 

 

 

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She is always in your mind. Thoughts of her make you get hard down there. It takes more than just penetrating and ejaculating when it comes to arousing a woman and making her love the things you do in bed. You need to keep her needs in mind.

 

The only thing that makes a great difference to a woman on how she gets the best sex is to focus on her pleasures. When she is turned on in the right way, her body will be more responsive sexually and her orgasm stronger.

 

Here is a checklist of what you can do to make the special lady of yours to get hot and wet and ensure that she has a real great time too.

 

(1)   Do Your Homework

 

If you want to have wild, passionate sex with a girl and make her love the things you do in bed, you need to make an effort to know what she likes. There are three ways you can go about doing this.

 

The easiest way is to ask. Have a sex debrief with her after the session and ask which part of her body is especially sensitive. If she is too shy to tell you, ask her to hold your hands to guide you to the parts of her body she wants you to pay more attention to.

 

Another way is to observe her. If you can, get her to masturbate in front of you and watch where and how she likes to be touched.

 

When you are on top of her, read her signs. If she seems to be distracted or in pain, slow down and see if it is something you are doing. Perhaps you are moving too aggressively. If her breathing begins to speed up, or she starts to arch herself into you, then you may have already found her personal hot spot.

 

If you can do any of the above three ways, you will feel more proud at accomplishing a good finish and keeping her satisfied.

 

(2)   Give Equal Attention To Other Areas

 

For guys, there are just two parts of a woman’s body that occupies their attention in bed. But if you really want your girl to have a wild time in bed, you should not restrict yourself to just a place or two on her body.

 

The key to giving a woman powerful orgasm is not to neglect the other areas. Make sure you spend enough time (90 to 120 seconds) on every part of her body. Focus on all over her – the back of her neck, kiss her hands, lick her navel, and kiss her inner thighs, her toes and everywhere else.

 

When you are moving towards her breasts, do not just grab and squeeze. Tease her by slowly circling your fingertips around the base of each nipple, then gently pushing down the tip and letting it spring back. Like just about everything, women prefer the indirect and gradual approach to build towards the center of interest and that certainly includes the nipples.

 

(3)   Maintain Your Pace

 

Most women need to focus on the sensations you are providing to achieve the most powerful orgasms. Unexpected interruptions can set you back a step, risk having her to start again and lessening the intensity of her orgasm. Your hands may get tired or you need to catch your breath. If this happens to you, get the help of sex toys to maintain the pace of stimulation.

 

(4)   Make Missionary Position More Pleasuring For Her

 

Rather than frantically thrusting her down there, try slowly tracing the outer edges of her vaginal lips with your fingertips while gently parting the lips. Stretched skin tends to have greater sensitivity, so this should send waves of pleasure to her.

 

In the normal missionary position, it is quite difficult to stimulate the clitoris. To overcome this problem, put pillows or a wedge under her pelvis to prop her up at an angle that can allow you to aim more effectively to hit her g-spot.

 

Getting more sex can be as simple as doing more of what she enjoys in bed and less of what she does not. Remember to focus more on her pleasure and she will reward you by keeping you hard for a long time.

 

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Sex Tips: How To Last Long

 

 

 

 

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It is one of those things that most men fear in bed. Before she cums, you come first. The disappointed look in her eyes is the last thing you want it to happen in her sexual experience. How to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) so that you can last long enough for her to reach orgasm before yours? Let’s find out below!

 

(1)   Pinpoint the underlying causes of your PE

 

The truth is while there are many causes of premature ejaculation which affects every guy differently, they can all be summarized by one main cause, which is the failure to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

 

The main reason that you are not lasting long enough is because you are allowing yourself to experience pleasure, or stimulation, with too high intensity. This high intensity of stimulation is what causes you to ejaculate earlier than you want.

 

To last longer in bed, you need to take control of your stimulation. You need to realize that what you are doing before and during sex can dramatically influence how long you can last. It is only when you understand that this has nothing to do with your age or penis size, it has to do with those every little action you take before and during sex which have some kind of impact on your stimulation, then it becomes easy to make a change.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can help you to last longer

 

Sex positions can have a dramatic effect on how long you last in bed. When it comes to choosing those last longer positions, it is more about having sex in those positions that will not stimulate you too soon or too strong.

 

One great position that makes this possible is the standing up. In this position, you make love either by standing in front or behind your woman and she can be standing or sitting at the edge of a table or bed. The reason this works so well is because when you are standing up, tension and pressure will be directed away from your penis. Part of this tension and pressure will be directed to your legs. This will relieve some of the pressure and stimulation on your penis, helping you to last longer.

 

Another position you can consider is the woman-on-top position. Why this position works? The main reason is because unlike most other positions, this position does not require you to move a lot other than using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones. Lesser movement will mean lesser stimulation on your part and you can get your woman to slow down her movements so that both of you will have higher chances of reaching orgasm at the same time.

 

Another way to help you last longer is when you sense you are quite close to orgasm, you switch into another less stimulating position.

 

(3)   Reduce the amount of friction to the penis tip

 

The tip of the penis (also known as the glans) is the most sensitive part. In the normal thrusting movement, it will be like pushing in as much as you can and pulling out in a way that cause the highly sensitive glans to rub against the entrance of her vagina, which offers you intense stimulation. To minimize the stimulation to your glans, after you push in, you do not pull out too much so that most of the time you are deep inside her. This will avoid getting your glans from being too strongly stimulated by your thrusting.

 

(4)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Instead of piling too much attention and pressure on yourself by trying to time yourself, you can distract from such stress by re-directing your attention on your woman. You slowly down and stimulate one by one her erogenous zones. This will increase the chances of your woman reaching orgasm faster and before you. After she have her first orgasm, her body will be highly sensitive to your stimulation. She will then reach orgasm again very soon and will be sexually satisfied. Under this circumstance, how much time you spend inside her will no longer be an issue. After all, she already gets her orgasm before yours.

 

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How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

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How To Make A Girl Orgasm Over And Over Again

 

 

 

 

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According to several major surveys, only 25% of women have orgasm during intercourse. Why is it so difficult for a woman to reach orgasm during sex? Do you want to learn how to please a woman so that she can achieve orgasm as often as she wants? If you are looking for ways to satisfy and impress her, here are some tips you can use immediately.

 

(1)   Be romantic

 

First of all, you have got to know a woman’s orgasm begins in her mind. This means she will need to be seduced both mentally and physically in order for her to climax. If you are dating a new woman, you get her heart beat faster (and her mind in the mood for orgasm) with thoughtful gestures and pleasant surprises. If you are in a long term relationship with the woman in your life, you treat her like it is your first date.

 

You get her in the mood for passionate lovemaking by showing how much you care for her and how much you want to please her. Surprise her with a home cooked meal or some small gift, or a romantic gesture, then flirt outrageously with her.

 

Set the stage for a passionate encounter with soft lighting and sensual music. Prepare her for the inevitable climax by building up flirtatious touches and sexy strokes on her body everywhere. A woman will feel orgasmic when you are taking charge and knowing what you are doing. Stare straight into your woman’s eyes, pin her down, kiss and stroke her neck, wrists, inner thighs and other erogenous zones until she reaches orgasm. If you want to give your woman the best sex she ever had, you can talk dirty to her at the same time.

 

If you have built the sexual tension correctly, you can give your woman an orgasm easily. To be romantic means putting your woman’s emotional and sexual needs first and using your hands, tongue to make her orgasm before you reach climax. If you can give her the best orgasm, you are also more likely to get them in return.

 

(2)   Stimulate her clitoris

 

This is the key to female sexual arousal because most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. The clitoris is what gives women the most pleasure and the most pain during sex. Therefore the most important thing to remember when stimulating her clitoris is to adopt a balanced approach. Too much stimulation will make her clitoris so sensitive that she will feel uncomfortable. Too little stimulation will never make her orgasm.

 

For most women, it is better to focus attention on the clitoral hood first before direct contact with the clitoris. Once you have stimulated a woman’s clitoris sufficiently, orgasm is sure to ensue. Because every woman is different on what pleasures her the most, it is better to experiment with your partner and find out if she likes her clitoris to be stimulated directly or indirectly.

 

Be sure to mix up your actions by varying not only what part of your hands you use, but also the pressure and speed. Pay close attention to her breathing and body language. Feel free to ask her specific questions such as does she like it faster or slower. If your hands are tired, you can get the help of a vibrator. This will show her that you are willing to go the extra mile to please her.

 

(3)   Give her oral stimulation

 

Use your tongue and lips to bring pleasure to your partner. Many women love the feeling of cunnilingus and adore partners who pay homage to their clitoris in this intimate way. Encourage her to relax and focus on the sensations by blindfolding her and making yummy moans and groans while you go down on her. Instead of going straight for her clitoris, you spend plenty of time on her outer and inner vaginal lips.

 

If you build the proper anticipation she will be pressing your head closer to her body to show you that she is ready for more direct stimulation of her clitoris. Feel free to experiment with the different kind of licks, varying the pleasure and speed, but when you find one movement that sets her off, stick with it and you will be pleasantly rewarded.

 

(4)   Adopt clitoris-friendly positions

 

Women’s clitoris usually does not get much direct stimulation from intercourse but ingenious choosing of sexual positions remedy this. Allow your women to ride on top of you. Make a V with your 2 fingers and place them in such a way that each of your fingers is on either side of your penis as she rides on you. This will stimulate her clitoris and vaginal lips.

 

You can penetrate her from behind and at the same time play with her clitoris using your fingers. You can also use a small vibrator for extra intensity. When you are in the normal missionary position, you can put on a cock ring that vibrates against her clitoris during penetrative sex.

 

If you want your woman to have an orgasm easily, you have to start before the lights go out. Your woman’s orgasm begins right at the moment you tune into her mind and make her feel like a sexiest woman. For more information on how to make this happen, click Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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