Awesome Ways To Give A Girl Mind-Blowing Orgasm

 

 

How to make her orgasm quickly in an effective way? If your gal has orgasm difficulty during intercourse, you are not alone. According to surveys done for The Hite Report, only 26% of women are able to reach orgasm through intercourse alone. In the following paragraphs, I will talk about the ways you can help your girl to reach orgasm easily.

How to make her orgasm easily?

 

There are 2 basic ways to get a girl have an orgasm: stimulating her clitoris and stimulating her g-spot. Of these 2 ways, stimulating her clitoris to get her achieve a clitoral orgasm is the easier option for most women.

 

This is because the clitoris is a primary source of her erotic stimulation. Most of the nerve endings which can give a woman the most awesome sensation that triggers her orgasm(s) are located in the clitoral region.

 

The clitoris is the biological equivalent of the male sexual organ. It is located where the top of the inner vaginal lips meet. In its normal state, there is a small hood of skin over the clitoris, but when a girl becomes sexually aroused, blood fills up the clitoral region causing the clitoris to swell and appear ‘erected’. If this erogenous zone is being neglected, it will be difficult for your girl to achieve an orgasm.

 

HOW TO GIVE A GIRL CLITORAL STIMULATION?

 

(1)   Keep your hands clean

 

This is necessary because if your hands are dirty, you may inadvertently infect your girl when you put your fingers inside her. Therefore, you also need to make sure you trim your fingernails to prevent any dirt accumulating there and also to cut down the chances of your sharp nails hurting her most delicate parts. Initially your girl may not be very wet, so in order to reduce friction a little, it is better to apply some lubricant (preferably natural oil-based) on your fingers.

 

(2)   Get her in the mood

 

Most women need some warming-up time to get their senses aroused and the vagina lubricated and ready for penetration. Every little touch, glance and kiss starting from the moment you hope to have sex with her will gradually draw your girl closer to you as the night goes on. It is best not to go for the direct assault at the area between her legs.

 

You light the spark inside her, by massaging her back, stroking her hair, fondling her breasts, using your fingers to draw circles around her nipples before you gently pinch and rub them against your palm. As your hands travel slowly down along her body, you choose the indirect route by massaging the outer parts of her vulva, and her inner thighs.

 

You use your hands to gently rub on the area around her clitoris. Using your palm, you cup the entire vulva area and gently apply a little squeezing pressure. When you sense she is quite close to orgasm, you can move your fingers directly over her clitoris but this time you can apply a little bit more pressure as you stimulate her. You keep doing this until she has at least one mind-blowing orgasm.

 

Of course, instead of using your hands only, you can also use your tongue to lick her clitoris and the surrounding area. Most women love to receive oral sex but are shy to ask for it. You can add in a little bit of fun by improvising your mouth into a vibrator. You breathe in deeply, seal your lips and press them tightly against her vulva and then you exhale. After doing this a few times, you may run out of breath, therefore it is a good idea to have a battery-operated vibrator to standby and continue with the clitoral stimulation.

 

(3)   The Sexual Positions That Maximize Clitoral Pleasure

 

Some positions are better for stimulating the clitoris than others. Most of the rear entry or doggie style positions can provide easy access to her clitoris. You can control the pace to slow down a bit if you want to last longer and she needs more clitoral stimulation. The woman-on-top positions (facing you and not facing you) allow your girl to brush her clitoris against you. If she faces you, she can lean backward to allow you to stimulate her clitoris.

 

In the normal missionary position, you can make some modifications to allow higher chances of your “little brother” brushing against her clitoris as you penetrate her. After you enter her, she will wrap her legs around your waist. You will lean forward and position your pelvis slightly higher than hers. The shaft of your “little brother” should be firmly pressed against her clitoris. Instead of you doing the thrusting, she will thrust upwards while you rock slightly backwards. You synchronize your rocking with her thrusting until she reaches orgasm. This should provide the perfect amount of clitoral stimulation for her.

 

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The Things A Girl Loves In Bed

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How to please a woman? How do you turn a girl on? Here are a few things you can do to get her want you.

 

(1)   Pay attention to your personal hygiene

 

Unless she likes your natural odor, you should have a shower but you get intimate with her. This includes brushing your teeth and rinsing your mouth to get rid of any lingering smell that comes from the food you eat. Trim your finger nails and get your hands clean if you intend to insert your fingers inside her.

 

(2)   Customize your actions

 

Every woman is different. Some of the things that you can drive a woman wild in bed may irritate another woman. When she makes love with you, you must not give her the impression that you are having sex with another woman.

 

Trying to pleasure a woman is not just about sexual techniques. You have to tailor-made your actions especially for her. Paying attention to her needs builds intimacy. You have to learn to “tune in” to her body – listening to her breathing, feeling the change in the temperature of her skin and the way her muscle tone changes. You have to observe carefully how she responds to your touch (her body signals) as you let your fingers “do the walking” on her body to detect the location of her erogenous zones. In this way, you will be able to know where to touch and how to touch (the amount of pressure) in order to make her orgasm faster.

 

(3)   Foreplay begins outside the bedroom

 

Just because you strip her down to her baby suit does not mean she will immediately get aroused. Her body does not work like a switch or a tap for you to turn on and off as quickly as you want. To get her in the mood, you have to start “lighting a fire inside her”, then you fan the “flames of her passion” so that by the time you reach the bedroom, she can no longer wait to get wild with you.

 

Remember – a woman’s major sexual organ is not located at the lower part of her body; it is at the upper part of her body, which is her brain. You have to stimulate her brain which means she needs to feel loved and appreciated in order to feel sexy and get aroused. If you treat her badly for no good reasons when outside of the bedroom, you should not expect her to achieve orgasm easily just because you thrust harder and deeper inside her.

 

(4)   Being creative

 

Predictability breeds boredom. If you eat your favorite dish everyday, after a while, it will no longer remain so. The same applies to sex. Before your next lovemaking session, have a good chat with her about trying a few new sexual positions to see if both of you enjoy them. Other ways to spice things up can be making love at different times of the day, different places, making changes to your bedroom to create a more conducive romantic environment, or encourage both to act out each other’s fantasies.

 

(5)   Give her chance to enjoy sex

 

This means at least you have to let her reach orgasm or get her close to climax first, before you finish your job. If you have premature ejaculation problems, you can always train yourself to last longer. At your leisure time, you masturbate until you are about to have an orgasm and then stop. You repeat this several times before finishing off. This self-practice will help to delay your reaction so that you are able to control your ejaculation timing during lovemaking. Until you get that right you can devote a lot of time and effort on foreplay to make her orgasm fast. You can give her an orgasm with oral sex or your fingers, or putting more pressure and pleasure on her erogenous zones.

 

Whatever you do, remember to keep sex fun and always make her feel like a woman being treasured and cherished. What matters a lot is what works for her and what feels good and satisfying for her at any given moment.  With time, you will get to know and understand what your woman likes and if you need help in shortening this discovery process, you can click on Hot Sex and Great Lover

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How To Make A Woman Orgasm

 

The biggest obstacle to a woman having an orgasm is psychological. First, she must feel sexy in order to get turned on. For a woman, achieving orgasm is a gradual process. There is no single best sexual technique that can guarantee a woman’s satisfaction. It requires a slow building up of mood and touch that eventually send her over the edge. A better understanding of female orgasm will be of great help in guiding you on how to give her pleasure in bed.

 

(1)   Give her pleasure not pressure

 

Sometimes it is not due to the fault of you or her. It may be due to some temporary psychological factors. Many women feel so pressurized about not able to reach orgasm after a fairly long foreplay session that they end up faking orgasm. The best way to handle this situation is to tell her it is alright and let her know you just want to give her pleasure irrespective of whether she is going to have an orgasm. What you can do is to explore each other’s body and in the process you will probably be able to discover some possible neglected erotic spots.

 

(2)   Get her in the mood

 

If you want your woman to be uninhibited in the bedroom, you have to help her by setting the mood. Do anything to make her feel good about herself. It will be best to make her feel sexy. Give her sincere compliment on something that she works hard on such as her new hairstyle or the new clothes she just bought. Do not rush into the bedroom. When she is sitting beside you on the sofa watching TV or chatting with you, you can start caressing her and kissing her slowly. You can have a steamy and sensual bath with her, taking turns to scrub each other’s back.

You can offer to give her a massage after her hard day at work. You start massaging her shoulders then her neck and when she relaxes you can get naughty with your hands. Pamper her with some of her favorite tidbits, chocolates, or wine. In the bedroom, use dim lighting, play some sensual music, fill the room with scented candles or perfume, change into her favorite colors curtains or bed sheets. You can also create the mood in other places of your house such as in the living room, kitchen or anywhere you can imagine.

 

(3)   Do not just keep quiet

 

Communication is the key to good sex. Some women who are self-conscious about how they look when naked tend to have difficulties in reaching orgasm. You can make her feel good about herself by complimenting how great she looks and you can make some noises to show her how you are enjoying what you are doing on her.

You can also talk dirty to her which is a turn on for most women. You can tell her about what you like to do to her. Your words will be more effective if you can keep eye contact with her. Besides the content of the dirty talk, the way you say it is equally important. You can choose a low and deep voice, high and squeaky pitch or a breathy whisper to carry your sexy messages across to her.

 

(4)   Give her breasts tender loving care

 

Gently brush the tops, bottoms and sides of her breasts which are actually quite sensitive. Slowly move in towards her nipples. The super sensitive nerves on the nipples are connected to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris and vagina, so pinching or rubbing her nipples will make her get wet.

To tease her, start by stimulating her nipples with your mouth and her clitoris using fingers. After she has gotten aroused, switch to stimulating her nipples with your hands and using your mouth on her clitoris. The different sensations on each of her body parts will bring her to an orgasm that she never experiences before.

 

(5)   Give her clitoral orgasm

 

The easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris, an area which is solely for her to enjoy sensual pleasure. Before she is properly turned on, direct clitoral contact can make her feel uncomfortable. It is best to start with indirect contact. You can add a little variety by trying side-to-side or diagonal strokes. Once her breathing gets heavy which is a signal that she is ready for more stimulation, you can then place your thumb on her clitoris and start to massage it.

 

Most women do not get orgasm through penetration. It is because there are comparatively much lesser nerve endings in the walls of vagina than at the entrance. Therefore no matter how hard and how deep you can ramp in, you will not get her off. Instead, try a grinding motion that can allow your pubic bone to come into contact with her clitoris which will give her the stimulation she wants to get orgasm. It is the main reason why many women favor the woman-on-top position. This position allows them to control the action to get maximum clitoral stimulation by rocking their hips forward to allow contact with the head of the clitoris.

 

(6)   Get to know the tell-tale signs of her having an orgasm

 

When you give her oral sex, do not immediately dive in and reach for her clitoris. Start by kissing her inner thighs and then move your mouth to either side of clitoris including her vaginal lips before gently making the first contact. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. If her hips are digging into your face, it means you can speed things up a bit by licking her clitoris faster. Watch for signs of her near to climax such as the subtle deepening in the color of her vaginal lips due to increased blood flow. You can also put a hand on her stomach to feel the muscular contractions that immediately happen before her orgasm.

 

(7)   Continuity and consistency

 

Women do love and appreciate your effort when you try new things or ways to pleasure her. However once you discover what works on her, do stick with it until she reaches orgasm. Do not stop or change moves midway to orgasm. You can try those new things in the next round or future encounters.

 

(8)   Get her reach orgasm first

 

A woman’s orgasm threshold drops after her first one. It is therefore much easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she has already experienced one. The easiest way to her achieving orgasm before you is to stimulate her clitoris using your fingers, tongue, tip of your “little brother” and a vibrator. Therefore make her orgasm first before you go inside her.

 

There you have it – some of the basics you need to know about female orgasm. They serve as a good starting point to make her enjoy sex with you. There are plenty of other positions and techniques you can try to please her. When you are ready and keen to find out more about these, you can click on Hot Sex and Great Lover.

 

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Sex Tips –How To Get What You Want

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One of the most common problems in a relationship is that men wish very much that their women would initiate sex more often, or at least they would be more responsive to their sexual overtures. The reality is that women want sex just as much, if not more than men. Women are sexual, sensual beasts waiting to be released by a man in just the right way and right condition.

 

When it comes to sex, men are easily stimulated visually and mostly genitally-focused, whereas for women, sex is more of a way in connecting her mind and body with her lover. Therefore in order to get your girl to like or enjoy making love with you, you have to work on making sex an exciting as well as rewarding experience for her. Here are some of the ways to do it.

 

(1)   Start from her mind

 

Though every woman is different, but all the desires and feelings start from the brain, which is the main sex organ. You have to work on her mind to get her hot first in order to make her wet down there. Make sure your girl is in the mood to make love. If she does not seem excited about the notion at the moment then her heart and emotions are not into it for one reason or the other.

 

If she is in a foul mood, ask what is on her mind, and give her time to vent. Showing sympathy will make her feel that you are on her side, which revs up her romantic feelings and increases her desire. Give her a tender kiss, so she feels cared for. Then take one finger and trace her waistline. Make eye contact and slip your finger further down, continuing to kiss as you go.  This sends a sexual signal and transforms your kisses from sweet to lusty.

 

If she is stressful, distract her from the stress by offering her chocolate (a sexual stimulant for her) and raspberries and strawberries or anything that she finds delicious. Once you sense her mood lightening, put your hand on her shoulder and stroke her upper arm in a soothing gesture. After a few seconds, pull her close and give her one more distraction: a sultry kiss that will lead to more.

 

If she is tired, prop her feet up on your lap and massage her.  This will warm her up to your touch. After a few minutes, slowly knead your way up her legs – first her calf, then her thigh, etc. If all goes well, by the time you reach her upper thigh (a super erotic spot on a woman), she will want more.

 

You can make the massage more interesting by spicing it up according to the prevailing weather condition. In hot weather, roll a cloth consisting of ice-cubes along the backs of her thighs. In cool weather, warm a towel in the microwave for 10 seconds and massage her with it. Turn winter gloves inside out, put them on, and massage her with the soft side.

 

If she is angry and you want action, you are better off just apologizing. If she senses your sincerity, she will probably feel bad for being so worked up. Coyly ask, “How can I make it up to you?” That should lighten the mood and pave the way for you to give her a hug and squeeze her tightly to you. While still holding her, gently lead her to the nearest couch or bed, lays her down on it, and starts kissing up her arm, working your way to her lips.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

To increase her sexual responsiveness, tell her between kisses and as you touch her body that you find her beautiful and sexy, that she turns you on, and that you want to enjoy every part of her body before making love to her.

 

Pay her some specific compliments — tell her you love her warm smile, or her soft skin, or the shape, size and feel of her breasts, or her silky hair, or her melodic voice. And don’t wait for sexual moments to trot out such verbal reinforcements. The more often you can convince her that you find her desirable and attractive, the more often she will desire sex. Some women can be tough to work around – particularly those who are suffering from low self-esteem – but it will be well-worth the effort. If you comment on your partner’s amazing body and she shuts you down by pointing out the extra weight she’s gained, don’t stop trying. Many men give up too easily out of sheer frustration, but sometimes your partner just needs to be validated. To shake it up a bit, try giving her a few compliments that you haven’t uttered before.

 

In public settings whisper into her ear naughty situations or things you want to do with her will get her engines going. Tell her something like, “I’ve been imagining myself undressing you all day.” Or better yet, drive her crazy by saying something like: “Tonight, I’m going to make you have as many orgasms as possible.” Send her 3-4 texts throughout the day telling her what you are going to do to her in the evening. She is bound to be turned on in anticipation with all the things you want to do with her body.

 

Buy her an outfit that will make her feel sexy and help you appreciate her more than you already do. Sneak into her lingerie drawer and check out the sizes of a few of her “garments.” That way, you can ensure that she will look good in it when you rip it off her body (after she’s done doing her little dance for you). Give it to her when you (seemingly) don’t expect sex right then and there. Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies’ room and change into it. “It’s a little naughty, but she has a chance to play back. Not only will she appreciate the fact that you took the time to get her a gift, she will be thrilled that you want to sex her up.

 

(3)   Focus on pleasuring her

 

Once you have your girlfriend or wife in the bedroom, proceed slowly and show more emotion in your lovemaking than usual. Try to make her the center of attention and cater to her needs. Please her first and this will drive her wild and make her want to please you at all costs. Use your finger to gently massage the clitoris in a circular manor, watch how her body reacts to certain movements so you can tell what she likes and dislikes.


Many women who are insecure about their bodies stick to the missionary position because you can’t see their bodies that way. To make her feel comfortable, for a change, you can blindfold yourself, she will do a lot more with you, to you, and for you.

 

Get a liberator wedge or one to two pillows under her pelvis to tilt her lower body at an angle to allow maximum contact between your body and her clitoris. When you are on top, you can place her legs over your shoulders. This shortens her vaginal canal, so your penis feels bigger inside her. When you enter her from behind, you can have her kneel on the edge of the bed with her upper chest touching the mattress. This elongates the vaginal barrel, making it feel tighter. You get a fantastic view, and she will enjoy the nipple stimulation from rubbing the mattress.

 

After you finish, you are still not done. Show her affection after your lovemaking is over. If she likes to cuddle or talk after sex, fulfill her needs. If you do so, she will look forward to the next time, and you soon may find that she will be the one initiating the lovemaking.

 

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