The Mistakes To Avoid When Giving Oral Sex To Men



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As a guy, I enjoy a great blowjob. It is an amazing form of foreplay for me. It helps me a lot to get an erection quickly, especially at times when my sexual desire is hurt by stress. However, I also have my fair share of unhappy experiences due to some half-hearted and lousy blow jobs. Read on to see if you are committing any of these classic blowjob mistakes and learn the tips to please your man by giving him a blowjob in the right way.


(1)   You use your teeth


Unless you really hate your guy so much that you want to bite him off, do not use your teeth to grip tightly on his manhood. Though it looks hard and stiff as a rod when erected, it is actually as fragile as glass, which needs your tender loving care. Instead, you hide your teeth behind your lips and use your lips to hold and glide along the length of your guy’s sexual organ.


(2)   You give a boring blowjob and treat it like a chore


You can add more fun and pleasure for your guy when giving him blowjob by changing the sensation using your mouth rim, tongue, lips, fingers, hands and breasts – individually or in combinations. Go for the extra mile to pleasure your man, means you should not neglect the rest of his body.


The scrotum (the skin enclosing the testicles) and testicles are particularly sensitive and most men like them to be stimulated. During oral sex, you can gently lick his testicles or hold them in one of your hands. You can also apply pressure to the perineum (the spot between anus and penis) with one or two fingers, as this can also feel good. I particularly find it a great turn on when my girl keeps licking on my anus, which is a commonly neglected erotic spot.


If your man is not circumcised, you can insert your tongue into the foreskin and circle around the tip with it. You can use your fingers to gently massage the tip through the foreskin, alternating with deep tongue licks.


Men can get easily aroused by what they see. To drive him wild, you can touch yourself as you play with him, change the position so that he can get a different viewing angle, or look at him seductively as you glide your mouth and tongue over his penis and testicles.


When giving blowjob, you should adjust the tempo and intensity such as hard and fast, slow and hard or fast and light. When your mouth feels cramped, you can switch to using your lips to rub against the shaft while holding his testicles in your hand.


(3)   You do not find out what he particularly likes


Some women assume that a guy will automatically feel satisfied after receiving a blowjob. They do not ask for feedback to find out their guy’s preferences. You can learn where and what his hot buttons are by asking him to masturbate in front of you or to let him guide your movement and show the rhythm and motion that will drive him crazy with desire.


(4)   You only use your mouth


Giving oral sex does not mean you limit your action to the mouth only. You can use your hands to help in your stimulation effort. Teasing the rest of his body will create major anticipation and appreciation. Use your hands to caress his nipples, inner thighs, buttocks and pubic area as you lick and suck his penis.


Combining oral with manual stimulation is a great way to enhance intensity and increase variety. Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down along the top half of his penis. Try coordinating your movements so that your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison. Or, you can do the same action by using only 2 fingers, the thumb and the middle finger to wrap around the shaft of his penis. These 2 fingers will help to create extra stimulation as they slide further down to the lower end of his penis where your mouth is not able to reach.


There you have it – the fellatio mistakes to avoid and the basic to giving him oral sex. If you need more amazing ideas to spice up your sex life, you can click on Blow By Blow and Oral Kit.

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4 Things Every Man Must Know About Clitoris

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For men, the sexually sensitive zone is quite concentrated on the area below his waist and above his thighs. For women, there is a very broad area which can be considered her pleasure zones. Her breasts, thighs, waist, back of her neck, vagina and even the curves of her body can provide her lots of sexual pleasure when stimulated.


However, if you want to be skilful in your bedroom techniques, there are 2 vital areas of her sexual organ that you need to be aware off: the clitoris and the G-spot. By aiming at these 2 pleasure zones, she will have higher chances of enjoying multiple orgasms. Of these 2 erogenous zones, the clitoris is the easiest to locate and stimulate to get her aroused.


Here are the 4 things every guy needs to know about the clitoris:


(1)   The clitoris is solely devoted for physical pleasure and is the physiological equivalent of the head of the male sexual organ. It is a small protrusion located at just above the opening of the vagina. It is very sensitive to touch because of the rich nerve endings surrounding it. Most women can easily get orgasm by just stimulating the clitoris even without penetration.


(2)   As this area is hypersensitive it is better not to apply too much direct pressure when you start to stimulate it. Focusing too much effort on the clitoris can be quite uncomfortable for some women, so you should aim at just below or just above her clitoris. You can start with a light touch on the clitoris and then move to the surrounding area.


(3)   Sexual stimulation is largely a mental exercise for women and turning her on requires you to stimulate her brain and not just her body. Whispering sweet things in her ear and talking dirty to her, telling her what you plan to do to her and letting her know how turned on you are can be very sexually stimulating to her. Of course, not to skip foreplay. The more she gets aroused, the easier it is for her to reach orgasm.


(4)   There are 4 ways for you to stimulate her clitoris:


(a)    Fingers


First cut your nails. You start by stroking her thighs and caressing the areas around her clitoris before you rub softly in circular motion on her clitoris.


(b)   Oral


Create a little bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she is about to reach orgasm and gently blowing on it to increase her sensation. You can also use your tongue to lightly lick on the clitoris just like you are licking the cone of the ice-cream.


(c) Sexual organ


You can rub the tip of your ‘little brother’ against her clitoris to get her high. Another way is to get her lay on her back with legs tightly clamp close to her stomach and you slide your ‘small brother’ between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. When you move back and forth in this position, your ‘little brother’ will brush against the vaginal outer lips as well as her clitoris.


(d)   Vibrator


Besides using a battery-powered vibrator, you can wear some kind of stretch rings around your ‘little brother’ which can offer effective stimulation on her clitoris with each thrust.


Now you have the basic ideas to try straight away tonight. It is always desirable if you can be as knowledgeable as possible in pleasuring her. When you are ready to find out more, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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Oral Sex – How To Spice It Up

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Are you looking for ways to spice up oral sex? Figuring out how to enhance the pleasure of oral sex is not difficult. All you need is an open mind and a little creativity. You can bring in sex toys which can add an element of surprise and pleasure during oral sex. Think about it. Going down on her is always great, but imagine how much better it would be with the help of a vibrator or dildo to enhance her pleasure? And, that is what it is all about – enhancing her pleasure! Remember, being creative is the way to get her to higher and higher levels of orgasmic bliss.


Here is how to use sex toys to give your lover amazing orgasm during oral sex.


Discuss With Your Partner


Communication is the key to understand what your partner likes so that both of you will be in a win-win situation. You will feel good if you see her in orgasmic state and she will derive awesome pleasure from the toys add in to the oral session. You can accompany your partner to an adult toy store and let her pick out some of the things she will like to use during cunnilingus. If she is not so keen on the idea of using sex toys during the oral session, give her a little bit of time to get her warmed up to the idea first.


Communication doesn’t stop inside the bedroom. When you are performing oral on your partner, you need to read her body language. Moans are a good thing. Heavy breathing is a good thing. If she is lying there like a piece of wood, then you need to change your activities. You can also simply ask her what she likes as well. She shouldn’t have a problem sharing the information. Especially if she knows you are willing to use that information to get her off.


Variety And Creativity


Using oral sex toys and learning to get your girl off in general, is an ongoing process. It is always a good idea to spice things up and giving her wholesome fun and pleasure by using a variety of toys to stimulate the various parts of her body simultaneously.


For example, you can stimulate her clitoris with the vibrator or bullet toy, while licking on the nearby areas. You can also switch it up. Slide the toy inside her while you apply your tongue and lips to her clitoris. You could even go as far as stimulating her butt with the bullet while giving her pleasure with another toy on her clitoris.


The tongue vibrator is a wonderful choice that you can consider in the oral sex toy realm. You can also use a chin strap-on and/or chest harness to give her pleasure in a way that she has never experienced before. To give her extra pleasure, you can use flavored lubricant. Flavors range from chocolate to cinnamon or shockingly sour. One of the best is the cinnamon warming lube which warms when it is blown. It is also one of the more tasty varieties of lubricant.


Be creative by looking for new ways to use the toys to stimulate her. For example, you can use a massager as a vibrator too. You can choose a combination of maneuvers that are tailored to her pleasure in order to help her reach orgasm. It is up to you to keep an exploring mind while in the bedroom with her. Keeping that open mind will help you figure out how to better please your woman.


Foreplay Is Still Necessary


Though certain types of sex toys are designed to stimulate a specific part of the body, it is always a good idea to introduce the toy slowly during cunnilingus. It is never good to rely solely on a toy when you are performing oral sex on your partner. The vibration produce by some toys can be too powerful for her to take it initially. Too much stimulation too soon will cause a woman discomfort. First, make out and caress her body. Next, manually stimulate her clitoris and/or give her cunnilingus. Keep doing this until she lubricates.


When she is “hot”, then it is time to bring in the toy. Even then, you should start with using the toy to stimulate the surrounding areas (inner thighs, outer and inner vaginal lips and the base of the vagina) before moving to the clitoris or g-spot. If you are using the vibrator, start with low speed before you accelerate the speed when she is highly aroused. Once she reaches this stage, you can bring the toy to stimulate directly on her hot spots. The key to giving great oral sex is moving slowly and building anticipation.


Oral sex is a limitless way to give and receive pleasures. There are wide range of toys that allow for extra stimulation, as well as others to assist with oral sex and lubrication. It is important to find which products work the best for you and your partner and then build on those products.


Go to Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Endless Pleasure for inspiration, ideas and tools to have the most pleasuring oral sex that both you and your partner want.




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