Oral Sex – How To Spice It Up

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Are you looking for ways to spice up oral sex? Figuring out how to enhance the pleasure of oral sex is not difficult. All you need is an open mind and a little creativity. You can bring in sex toys which can add an element of surprise and pleasure during oral sex. Think about it. Going down on her is always great, but imagine how much better it would be with the help of a vibrator or dildo to enhance her pleasure? And, that is what it is all about – enhancing her pleasure! Remember, being creative is the way to get her to higher and higher levels of orgasmic bliss.


Here is how to use sex toys to give your lover amazing orgasm during oral sex.


Discuss With Your Partner


Communication is the key to understand what your partner likes so that both of you will be in a win-win situation. You will feel good if you see her in orgasmic state and she will derive awesome pleasure from the toys add in to the oral session. You can accompany your partner to an adult toy store and let her pick out some of the things she will like to use during cunnilingus. If she is not so keen on the idea of using sex toys during the oral session, give her a little bit of time to get her warmed up to the idea first.


Communication doesn’t stop inside the bedroom. When you are performing oral on your partner, you need to read her body language. Moans are a good thing. Heavy breathing is a good thing. If she is lying there like a piece of wood, then you need to change your activities. You can also simply ask her what she likes as well. She shouldn’t have a problem sharing the information. Especially if she knows you are willing to use that information to get her off.


Variety And Creativity


Using oral sex toys and learning to get your girl off in general, is an ongoing process. It is always a good idea to spice things up and giving her wholesome fun and pleasure by using a variety of toys to stimulate the various parts of her body simultaneously.


For example, you can stimulate her clitoris with the vibrator or bullet toy, while licking on the nearby areas. You can also switch it up. Slide the toy inside her while you apply your tongue and lips to her clitoris. You could even go as far as stimulating her butt with the bullet while giving her pleasure with another toy on her clitoris.


The tongue vibrator is a wonderful choice that you can consider in the oral sex toy realm. You can also use a chin strap-on and/or chest harness to give her pleasure in a way that she has never experienced before. To give her extra pleasure, you can use flavored lubricant. Flavors range from chocolate to cinnamon or shockingly sour. One of the best is the cinnamon warming lube which warms when it is blown. It is also one of the more tasty varieties of lubricant.


Be creative by looking for new ways to use the toys to stimulate her. For example, you can use a massager as a vibrator too. You can choose a combination of maneuvers that are tailored to her pleasure in order to help her reach orgasm. It is up to you to keep an exploring mind while in the bedroom with her. Keeping that open mind will help you figure out how to better please your woman.


Foreplay Is Still Necessary


Though certain types of sex toys are designed to stimulate a specific part of the body, it is always a good idea to introduce the toy slowly during cunnilingus. It is never good to rely solely on a toy when you are performing oral sex on your partner. The vibration produce by some toys can be too powerful for her to take it initially. Too much stimulation too soon will cause a woman discomfort. First, make out and caress her body. Next, manually stimulate her clitoris and/or give her cunnilingus. Keep doing this until she lubricates.


When she is “hot”, then it is time to bring in the toy. Even then, you should start with using the toy to stimulate the surrounding areas (inner thighs, outer and inner vaginal lips and the base of the vagina) before moving to the clitoris or g-spot. If you are using the vibrator, start with low speed before you accelerate the speed when she is highly aroused. Once she reaches this stage, you can bring the toy to stimulate directly on her hot spots. The key to giving great oral sex is moving slowly and building anticipation.


Oral sex is a limitless way to give and receive pleasures. There are wide range of toys that allow for extra stimulation, as well as others to assist with oral sex and lubrication. It is important to find which products work the best for you and your partner and then build on those products.


Go to Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Endless Pleasure for inspiration, ideas and tools to have the most pleasuring oral sex that both you and your partner want.




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Oral Sex – Get Into These Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm

Make Her Beg You For More!

Do you want to know how you can give her great oral sex? She blows me and it is awesome but you are not sure if you are pleasuring her in the right way down there. Do you want to know what you can do to make her orgasm fast when eating her out? Do you want to know any more positions you can try, besides the normal missionary when you are giving her oral? Read below.


Take Your Time


Never go straight for her clitoris. Many women prefer to be aroused before you even head to that area. Get her warm up first. Kiss her deeply, nibble her ear and her neck and make your way down to her breasts. Lick and suck her nipples gently before you head even further south. You want to get her warmed up enough that she is craving your tongue before you ever touch her with it.

Compliment Her Goods

Now move your mouth down onto her stomach. Lick and kiss her navel and run your mouth and lips all over her stomach, round and round in circles. Work down towards her vulva but, at this stage, do not touch it – either with hands or mouth.


Some studies have shown that women who are more comfortable with their genitals not only more open to receiving oral sex, but they enjoy it more, they orgasm more, and they are just more sex positive all around. So, tell her how much you love the way she looks, tastes and feels. It will benefit the both of you in the long run.


Oral Sex Positions You Can Use


Woman on top – Lie on your back, keep your feet flat on the bed with your knees bent, and position a pillow underneath your neck and head for support. Have her sit on top of you, puther feet by your head, and rest her head on your bent knees. The advantage of this position is with your mouth right near her vulva, you will have easy access to her most sensitive parts and your hands will be free to do what they please.


Side by side – Both of you will lie on your sides, facing opposite directions. Have her support herself on a bent arm, and then position yourself between her outstretched legs. As you rest your head on her thigh that is closest to the bed, place her upper thigh over the top of your head, so both of your ears are covered by her legs. This position also gives you access to the entire vulva and it’s mighty comfortable, which means it’s easy to maintain for long periods of time.


Bending forward – As your partner stands in front of you, bend her over with her legs shoulder-width apart and have her place her hands around her ankles. Kneel behind her (add a pillow under your knees if needed) and help keep her stable by placing your hands on her hips. This is a very easy position for you to hold, and it allows you to manually stimulate her clitoris.


Against The Edge of Bed – You get her to lie down with her hips on the edge of the bed, her feet flat on the floor. You position between her thighs to kiss and rub her vulva and clitoris. As she becomes more excited, she can pull her thighs back to her chest, but still keeping them apart so that you can have access to her open vulva. This is an exceptionally good position for the woman who likes her man to insert his tongue into her vagina.


Against The Wall Or Table – With her back against the wall, you will position your mouth between her legs. Or you can get her to lean against the table, which is in many ways more comfortable for you because you can bend down less.


Doggy Style – Put pillows under her hips to prop her up. In this position, it is much easier for your girl to relax and reach orgasm, and it doesn’t take much to gain access to most of her vulva if she merely tilts her hips back and puts her head right down as far as she can. This position is great for you, as you too can use the pillows to prop yourself up. Plus, it allows for a fuller range of motion for both parties. A minor variation of this position is (without pillows) you lie on your back, sliding up underneath her clitoris and you give her oral in this position.


Sitting Position   You get her to sit on a couch or chair and spread her legs wide apart.  You will have access to her entire genital area. She can further help herself by using her fingers to spread the vaginal lips. To be at the right level with her vulva, you can sit on a stool. In this position, you can have absolute flexibility in using both your mouth and hands to pleasure her.


Lying Position – You get her to lie flat on the bed and lift her butt up and throw her legs back toward her head. This enables you to look straight down to her vagina. It will give you great access to pleasure her orally.


Use these tips to blow her mind, to keep her coming back for more. To get more ideas and tips to please a girl and make her want you more, click on Make Her Cum Fast And Hard and/or Lick By Lick.



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