How to Make a Love Potion that Really Works in Getting the Spark Back in Sex?

 

How to Make a Love Potion that Really Works in Getting the Spark Back in Sex? Getting the spark back in sex can not only improve your relationship and lift your mood, it’s been shown to lower blood pressure, boost immunity, improve heart health, and lead you to a longer life. Read on here to find out how you can make a love potion that really works in getting the spark back in sex.
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Shrouded in mystery and steeped in legend, love potions have been scattered throughout human history for centuries. But in modern times, just as many remedies have been disproved and tossed aside, we’ve learned that there is merit to some.

 

It turns there are odors that can work wonders upon the human mind and body when it comes to getting the spark back in sex, and certain herbs that can help things like blood flow, therefore helping arousal.

 

Sadly with our busy, stressful, lives it can be more than difficult to engage in passionate activities, but keeping up a healthy sex life should always be on the docket.

 

Getting the spark back in sex can not only improve your relationship and lift your mood, it’s been shown to lower blood pressure, boost immunity, improve heart health, and lead you to a longer life.

 

So the next time you find yourself lacking in the passion department, brew up this “love potion” and get ready for a merry time.

 

Why Jasmine: It’s distinct, sweet, odor induces euphoria in both men and women, and has been used to spark passion for, quite literally, centuries.

 

Why Rose: We all know women tend to think too much – we’re just not as straightforward as guys when it comes to this stuff. The sensual smell of rose can lower arousal blocking anxiety, which can spike when it comes to sex.

 

Why Vanilla: There is an old Mexican legend about a fertility goddess who could not marry the mortal man she loved. Instead of becoming bitter, she transformed herself into the vanilla plant to give happiness and pleasure to all lovers.

 

Its warm scent (and taste) is welcoming, subtly sensual, and relaxing-and we all know that relaxation is a must when it comes to truly enjoying sex.

 

Why Cinnamon: The cinnamon creates a fine balance with the more soothing scents of rose, jasmine, and vanilla. While those help relax you, the cinnamon ensures that you still get a burst of fiery passion and energy.

 

If you indulge in cinnamon regularly, it can increase sex drive over time. It works so well because it can lower high blood sugar, which restricts blood flow down south for both men and women.

 

You will need…

 

-2 teaspoons of dried jasmine flowers
-1 tablespoon of dried rose petals
-Vanilla pod split, or ¼ teaspoon vanilla extract
-1-2 cinnamon sticks
-1 cup of fresh water
-A pot or sauce pan
-A strainer

 

Directions

 

Pour 1 cup of fresh water into a saucepan. You can add more or less, with the former resulting in a stronger ‘potion’ and the latter a weaker tasting one.

 

Add to the water 2 teaspoons of dried jasmine flowers, 1 tablespoon of dried rose petals, a vanilla pod split lengthwise or ¼ teaspoon of vanilla extract, and 1-2 cinnamon sticks. Give the mixture a little stir to incorporate everything, and then simmer for 3-5 minutes.

 

Remove from heat and strain immediately. Allow this to cool and then bottle it. Add sparkling water and serve chilled on a hot day, or pour into mugs and reheat, sipping slowly. You can also use it fresh. In the fridge it will keep for a week in tightly lidded container.

 

Passion makes the world go round, but even the best of lovers can find themselves needing something for getting the spark back in sex. If you find yourself a bit “stuck”, the arousing, sensual smells and the little kick of cinnamon spice in this love potion will have the passion brewing in no time.

 

If you want to get more ideas on how to make a love potion for getting the spark back in sex, click and watch Video 1, Video 2 and Video 3

 

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It contains 215+ effective home remedies and covers everything you will need to protect your family and save money every month.

 

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How To Improve A Woman’s Chances Of Having An Orgasm

 

 

 

 

 

I came across this at a sexuality forum. A guy and his girlfriend have been having sex for over 5 months and she never had an orgasm. She never seems to be in the mood to do it. She only said that if the environment was right maybe it would be possible for her to achieve orgasm. She claimed to love her boyfriend and sex didn’t really bother her. The guy would like to know how to make a girl orgasm and how to increase her sex drive.

 

If you are facing the same situation, the following ideas should help to start the ball rolling.

 

(1)   Create the right conditions

 

To get a girl to desire you and want to have sex, you have to put her at ease. This will need more time, the right atmosphere, some romance, and lots of other nice sweet little things you do to make her feel good. If she is stressed and is occupied with other problems, sex will not work. She needs to get in the right mood. Therefore you should be helpful as well as supportive and give her a lot of care and appreciation.

 

Making love is a slow process for a woman. You may have to start many hours in advance in order to turn her on effectively. This will require fondness and attention from the man she loves.

 

Women need a much longer foreplay than men. You start by whispering sweet words in her ears. Give her a very specific reason why you find her irresistible such as the curve of her neck or the way she walks. You may also take a long hot shower or bath together which will give you both the chance to touch and rub each other. The lightings in the room should not be glaring. Candles and soft music can help too.

 

Do not fondle the genital area until she is ready. You need to be patient. She may not get an orgasm until after 20 minutes or more. Sometimes it may not work, even if you do everything right. With practice, she will eventually be more responsive to your stimulation.

 

Another good way to get her relaxed is to let her mind wander into fantasy. To reach orgasm, she needs to clear her head and turn off her brain’s fear center. Fantasy is a great way for her to deactivate her fear center. You can help her to relax by constructing an erotic fantasy before things heat up. This can be done by whispering provocative sentences to each other in turn, building a story she can get lost in.

 

(2)   Make her orgasm first

 

Most women will not achieve orgasm through an ordinary genital sexual intercourse. Men are often very tired after their orgasm. Due to this reason, it is best to ensure your woman has an orgasm before you. She will still be excited afterwards and will enjoy your orgasm.

 

Women can easily reach orgasm by proper stimulation of the clitoris, a small lap of skin just over the vagina. You can stimulate her clitoris using your fingers and your tongue. One study found women who experience multiple orgasms usually have the first orgasm after cunnilingus, rather than intercourse or manual pleasures. The tongue is therefore the perfect instrument for stimulating the clitoris. The way to do is to start with cunnilingus and move on to intercourse.

 

There is also a place inside the vagina, which can be stimulated to give her an orgasm, which is the g-spot. It can be a bit difficult to find this region and stimulate it in the right way. This can only be effectively done when she is highly aroused after clitoral stimulation. Women who succeed in getting orgasm this way will usually use the woman-on-top intercourse position. This position gives her lots of options to control the movements to facilitate g-spot stimulation.

 

These are the 2 key things you can do for a woman who never had an orgasm. Her chances of getting an orgasm or even multiple orgasms will be higher if she has a partner who is attentive to her needs.

 

If you are keen to know more about how you can get your girl to enjoy sex with you, you can read on further at Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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For Couples – How To Increase Sex Drive

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You used to have sex three to four times per week. Now it is about one for every ten to twelve days. For some odd reasons, the act of doing anything sexual does not interest you or your lover. The horniness is no longer there and sex drive is declining. It reaches the point where one of you almost has to beg for sex. What more can be done to increase the desire for sex for both of you? You can actually do a lot to boost libido and keep you and your partner happy in the bedroom with the following tips. If they do not help, you may need sex therapy with a professional to make sex work for both of you.

 

(1)   Self-Discovery And Self-Stimulation

 

You need to learn how to identify the pleasant, sensuous and sexy feelings and identify the situations that make you feel this way. You just need to pay attention to what your brain and body are saying to you naturally during the day and night.

 

Maybe you have simply gotten tired of doing the same thing in the bedroom. By experimenting on your own time and at your own pace (by way of masturbation or self-stimulation), you may discover a few erogenous zones, some unusual sensations or new moves that you enjoy.

 

Sex toys such as vibrators, dildos, ben-wa balls, ticklers or restraints can be used as alternatives to hand stimulation and to achieve variety in types of stimulation. This method is also applicable to guys. He can press a vibrator against his body from head to toe to discover on his own which body parts or areas are his hot spots.

 

(2)   Communicate For Better Understanding And For Ways To Spice Things Up

 

Open communication to each other is very important. Exchange with each other what you like and dislike. Be honest if you are experiencing a low sex drive or if you wish your partner has more sexual desire. Be open about your inhibitions and what you think the problem might be.

 

This communication is also a good opportunity for both of you to discuss about how to spice things up, or to add a little novelty into your love life. This can be doing something unusual outside the bedroom too such as going for a hike in the wild or doing bungee jump. For indoor activities, this can be having sex in positions that you have never tried, to make love in places you have never done before, have sex in the middle of the afternoon or in the morning, engaging in some role-playing, adding a few props or costumes, or adding some gels, lotions, massage oils to enhance sensation.

 

(3)   Learn To Relax

 

Too much stress increases the stress hormone cortisol, which causes testosterone (which plays an important role in sexual desire) to plummet. Find a way to tune out for fifteen minutes a day, whether through meditation, yoga, deep breathing exercises (inhale through nose and exhale through mouth for ten times a day), chilling to music, or learning tai-chi. It will be ideal if your partner can join you in these relaxation activities. You can exchange massage with your partner. Massage can improve sexual arousal particularly if you are stressed, worried or angry.

 

(4)   Set The Mood

 

Everything starts from the mind because the brain is the main sexual organ. Reading erotica or watching a sexy soap creates arousing chemical changes in your brain that can increase desire. Search for things that affect your senses pleasurably. Try different stimuli such as aromas and scents, flowers and candles, running water and hot tubs, different types of music, even incense.

 

Experiment with the feel of soft fabrics against your skin, wearing sexy lingerie, buying clothes in colors that appeal to you. Watch movies with erotic or romantic themes. Or experiment with quite lush or exotic restaurants. Trying cooking special dinners for two at home.

 

Spending time each day touching and cuddling each other can boost oxytocin (feel-good hormone) levels and make you feel not only closer to your partner but more relaxed during sex. This simple gesture can also help to reset your brain and body to learn to enjoy sex again.

 

(5)   Exercise Together With Your Partner

 

Sex drive often wanes when you are not feeling good about yourself and your body. Exercise and weight loss can help you to feel good and boost your body image. Aerobic workouts (running, biking, swimming, weight training) help to improve blood flow to sex organs, boost your mood by pumping up the feel-good brain chemicals called endorphins. An increase in testosterone levels about one hour after working out can also leave you feeling sexier. Do avoid overstraining yourself because extreme exercise can actually lower testosterone levels.

 

Have your wife engaged in Kegel exercises by working on her pelvic floor muscles (those which control urine flow). This can help to increase libido and make her more aware of the pleasurable feeling from sex. To do this, have her act as if she is stopping her urine halfway. Have her to squeeze or contract the pelvic muscles and hold there for ten seconds and then release for ten seconds before resuming to the squeeze/hold/release action.  Have her do this for three to four times a day.

 

(6)   Eat Well

 

Eating a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains and lean proteins helps keep you fit and increase your energy and libido. Specifically, you can include food items such as oysters, celery, banana, avocado, nuts, eggs, garlic, scallops, pumpkin seeds, chocolate, licorice and ginger which are thought to boost libido.  Spicy foods such as chili are believed to increase sexual desire by increasing heart rate and causing your body to release endorphins, the same chemicals that your body produces after exercise. Though there is no medical proof that they can increase libido, but they could work because of the placebo effect.

 

(7)   Consult Your Doctor

 

If you have any difficulty in the bedroom (pain, low desire, vaginal dryness), bring it up with your doctor before it derails your love life. Certain medication such as antidepressants, birth control pills can reduce libido. Discuss with your doctor to see if there are any way to alleviate this problem.

 

For more tips to make sex enjoyable for you and your partner, you can click on Loving Couple.

 

 

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