How To Get High In Bed For As Long As You Want





Are you having difficulties in trying to get an erection or to stay high? A limp erection can destroy a relationship or complicate it if it is a repetitive occurrence. Your girl friend may assume you have lost interest in her. This can leave you frustrated and both of you may start getting annoyed with each other for no particular reason.


But have no worries because this can happen once in a while to even normal and healthy guys. You are probably getting bored of the routine after a few years, even if you have a very attractive partner. Or, you may have performance anxiety issues and feeling very stressful in trying to give your girl a good time. The brain is your main sexual organ. Almost all the time, an erection is all in your head.


If you are not suffering from any medical conditions and still have difficulties in keeping it hard, the following ways can help you to keep it up and get you high all the time.


(1)   Indulge in your fantasies and talk about them


As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to spice up sex. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy. You can bring your wildest fantasies alive by talking about them with your partner and acting them together.


The way to do is to distract yourself from your little head and use your big head in bed. You can start by talking to her seductively and enticingly by inventing a fantasy in your mind or you can whisper dirty nothings into her ears. Indulging in dirty talk and fantasies can help reignite the pleasure of sex for both of you.


(2)   Think and get kinky


Sometimes, all you need to bring your little brother up is a whole new sexual experience. Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. You can talk about your secret fantasies and fetishes with each other and indulge in them.


You can have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed. You can take turns applying edible body paint on each other. This can make eating in bed so much more tasty. You can role-play with each other by dressing in character or as other person.


Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and light bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think. The world can get dark with blindfolds, but this will open up your sexy imaginative mind. You can mix it all up with some spanking and nibbling or even a handcuff which is a great turn on for bondage sex. Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right place and right time, even pain can be a huge turn on.


You can make out or have sex while someone may be around or watching, like on the rooftop or under the stars on a beach or in public places such as restroom, dark corner of a club, changing room in a clothing store, on a flight, a train or a bus that is making the last trip of the day. You can make out on someone else’s bed when you are attending a house party or when a wedding celebration is going on. You can finger her under a restaurant. But just make sure that the table-cloth is big enough to cover your indecent public act.


(3)   Do not get too focus on your little head


What you should do is to concentrate on satisfying and pleasuring your partner. When you spend too much time pondering over how erect you are, you can kill the fun which will in turn kill your erection. Talk with your partner to explore ways she likes best to please her. During foreplay when you touch her, observe closely her reactions and her body signals which can help you to identify her highly sensitive spots.


Take your time and do not rush. This is because foreplay always helps a guy to hold on longer. You may think there is no point in doing this but by spending 15 minutes on foreplay before penetration, your little brother will have more time to warm up for the act. Also do not masturbate too often. Though this can be good to control premature ejaculation, but this will not be good if you want to keep it hard for a long time.


These are the 3 tips to get you started. For further reading on sexuality matters, you can click How To Keep A Hard Erection . For more kinky sex ideas, you can visit Dirty Harry’s Secrets

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What You Ought To Know About Bondage Sex





Hitting a sexual low key? Do not worry. There is nothing wrong with you. Are you in the mood to try something different or abnormal tonight?


Before you get into some crazy fun, there are some things you should take note.


(1)   Discuss with your partner


It is best to talk about what you are going to do ahead of the time and be sure that it turns you both on. Discuss with your partner to try the different roles and the different kinds of kinky sex like silks, feathers, spanking, etc. You do not have to tell him or her exactly what you are planning. In fact, sometimes surprises are fun. Of course, you should not do anything your partner hates, either.


(2)   Plan ahead


For a start, try to keep things simple. You do not need to spend a lot of money. In the beginning, thick yarn is just as good as ropes or chains. Keep a scissors handy so that you can cut the yarn quickly instead of trying to undo stuck knots. Try out your equipment ahead of time. Make sure it can be easily located when in need. If you are trying on these handcuffs, make sure you know where the key is.


(3)   Play safe


Never cross the line into real pain or hurt. Be sure to agree on a code that mean ‘stop’. If your scene involves gagging your partner, establish another way that the person can say ‘enough’. One way to approach this is to get the gagged partner to hold on a bell or some other object, and drop it if things get to be too much. Never leave a bound or gagged person alone, and never block a person’s breathing passage.


(4)   Trust


You should not try anything weird with someone you don’t know, or just meet at the pub. This is because bondage sex involves some form of surrender which requires the submission partner to be in a very vulnerable state. Never indulge in sadomasochistic or bondage sex play when you are angry with each other or when your relationship is having other problems which could run over into your erotic games.


Here are some abnormal but sexy things you can try on.


(1)   Get some toys ready


You can easily get some spanking toys inexpensively from a large number of sources. Wooden spoons, paint stirrers and rubber or plastic ice scrapers of the kind you use to clear ice from a windshield all make excellent tools.

Next time when you visit a sex toy store, you can look for some remote-controlled vibrators and butt plugs. You can attach a remote-controlled toy on your partner and then you go out to dinner with friends. During the evening, your friends can swap control of the remote controller device, keeping your partner guessing who is playing with the remote controller.


You can get her to wear a dildo vaginally throughout the day even when she sleeps, or the receiving partner get to wear an anal plug as he or she does errands or housework. This makes it impossible for the receiving partner to ignore the penetration, whatever else he or she is doing. This in turn can keep the receiving partner to keep thinking about and consistently crave for sexual stimulation.


(2)   Erotic games


This can be by means of creating a punishment box. Inside this box is a set of cards, each of which has an erotic punishment written on it. If the receiving partner ‘misbehaves’, he or she has to draw out a punishment card at random from the box. Or, you can get your partner to create the ‘punishment’ cards on his/her own preferably when he/she is aroused because people who are aroused will think of devious things that they will not dream of in a normal state of mind.


Of course, the contents of the punishment box will depend on the person involved. Some basic punishments may include not allowing him/her to have an orgasm for the next 2 days, to get spanked or to wear clothespins on his or her nipples for half an hour.


(3)   Looking into fetish


People who have a particular sexual fixation fall under the category of a fetish enthusiast. The object of sexual fixation can be hands, feet, fingernails, lipstick, women’s lingerie, footwear, glasses, braids, ponytails, pigtails, her urine or pregnant women, etc. Put on a pair of ladies underwear or cross dress if you are a guy or get her to ‘shower’ you with her ‘wet love’ (she urinates on you) if you are game for it.


An area where most of us will never end up venturing is the armpit which is praised by fetish enthusiasts worldwide. It may sound weird to you, but some guys claimed that not only they love a woman’s armpit immensely they also prefer that she does not wash the area so as to inhale her natural odor.


These are only a few but there are tons of things you can try. The good thing is, when comes to sex, women love to try new things. If she is apprehensive, take the time to discuss her concerns and be willing to slow down. What is needed here is communication and patience. This is the path to good sex.


You can explore some more new ideas at Dirty Harry’s Secrets to give her the best sex she never dreams of but always want to have. If you are looking for tools to help you to spice up sex, click on Satin And Scented Bondage Kit.

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