Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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How Can I Get A Girl Wet

 

 

 

 

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Have you been wondering what women want from men? Are you looking for ways to increase female sexual desire? If you want to get lucky on a regular basis with females, you need to find out or learn about the ways and things women like. Once you are able to master these, getting her in the mood will be as easy as flicking the switch. When she is aroused, she will be very responsive to your stimulation even before she is naked. Here are some tips that will get her excited to jump into bed with you.

 

(1)   Make her feel loved

 

Women sexual response works differently from men. They do not get aroused immediately when you touch her breasts, so you need to take time to get her in the mood. First, you need to put her in the right mind-set that you love her, and that even though you want to have sex with her, you need to appreciate her beyond her sexuality. In fact in trying to get your girl horny, it is not just body contacts, but also the way you treat her in your daily life. Thus, the first step is for you to treat her nicely and respect her as someone you love.

 

One of the ways you can do is to give sincere and specific compliments. Compliment her feminine side like her kindness, her caring nature, the way she smiles, or the cute thing she does with her hair. Some of the best aspects to compliment a girl are her eyes, hair, lips, her fragrance and her voice. Here are some examples: “I love the way you smell”, “I love the sound of your voice”.

 

(2)   Set a romantic mood

 

To start on the right note, you can pamper or surprise her with a gift that touches her heart, not necessary to be expensive stuff. Instead, get her something small that is meaningful to her or your relationship in general.

 

A romantic mood can be fostered through the use of candles, lightings, music, or soft sheets. Be sure to choose your music wisely because this can make or break the mood. Make an iPod playlist to run throughout the night, something that can fill the background. The music should vary throughout the evening. Start out soft yet upbeat, no dance or rap, and let it continue to mellow out as the night progresses. You can also slow-dance with your girl to get the juices flowing.

 

(3)   Touch her sensually

 

Start by kissing gently and touching your tongue against hers. Lean closer to her and press her body against yours while kissing. Run your hand through her hair while you put the other hand on her back. Kiss her passionately on the base of the neck. Give a little nibble on her earlobes as well. Run your hands over your woman’s clothes up and around her breasts. Do not touch her breasts yet. You run your hand right along the underside of her breast where it is more sensitive. At this point, your aim is to heat her up gradually.

 

You can touch her naturally by way of giving her a sensual massage. Massage can work like magic for getting a woman horny. You start off by gently massaging her shoulders and hands. Try using some massage oil. Use the oil sparingly and all over her body but not on her private areas. Massage her feet, calves, thighs, back and arms. As you are nearing the end of your massage, pay special attention to her thighs. Sensual massage will turn a woman on every time. While touching her, you can talk dirty to her as this can cause her to feel very sensual too.

 

By now, she should be ready and wanting more of everything from you. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to give her the best sex she ever had? Read on more from Hot Sex and Turn Her On if you want to make sex more exciting.

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Fun Things To Do To Spice Sex Up

 

 

 

 

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Do you miss those days when it was so exciting and romantic to be together? Do you want to turn back the clock to those sexy, curious, early days when both of you started becoming a couple? Sometimes it helps to go back to the sexual basics when you need to break out of a routine or have a fresh start. If you are worried that sex is becoming stale and predictable, it is time to try something new. Here are some spicy ways to help you break out of a sex rut.

 

(1)   Explore and act out each other’s fantasies

 

You can invite your partner to slowly reveal aspects of his/her sexuality. Perhaps you can start in a less intimidating way with both of you writing down each of your secret and craziest desires on a small piece of paper and put it in a box. Think about what turns you on and what you like to have your partner do to you (or you to him). If you are not sure how to get started, you can read about some erotic stories or watch some erotic videos. After doing this, both of you will exchange your “fantasy box” with each other. Both of you will take turn to pick out a fantasy idea from the box and act it out.

 

(2)   Play with props

 

Props are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale and help you get inside an alternative reality while in the bedroom. Honey, peanut butter, whipped cream, ice-cream and hot fudge can be very sensual when eaten or licked off each other’s bodies. You can try things like massage oil or lotion, plastic sheet, blindfold, feather, furry handcuffs, vibrator, edible body paint, edible panties or tattoos, or dress up as someone from a fantasy. If you have fancy over people in uniform, you can get your partner a suit from the second hand store and tell him/her your wildest desires.

 

(3)   Be romantic

 

Make an “I love you” coupon book that each of you can use when you feel like it. Some coupon ideas include: Kiss me here. Wear my favorite ______. Call your partner in the middle of the day and explain what you want to do to him/her later that night.

 

Create an intimate mood by lighting some candles and filling the tub with bubble bath or scented oil, such as lavender oil. Take turns to rub each other all over with your hands or a sponge. Include a water-proof vibrating toy or sponge to enhance sensations.

 

Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate – just her favorite dessert will do. Or, you can pick up her favorite dessert on your way back home. Surprise her with small gifts at times.

 

Being too critical to your loved ones can hurt libido. Therefore find things to compliment each other. All of us like being praised from time to time, but more so, when the compliment comes from someone you love. However, be genuine in your appreciation, as false praise can hurt feelings.

 

Try kissing each other as often as you can. Kiss her the first thing in the morning. Women love simple displays of love and waking up your wife with a kiss, are sure to set her humming for the rest of the day. Spend at least five minutes kissing. This is the only thing that will help you to rediscover the passion and sexuality that your kisses hold.

 

(4)   Explore new activities as a couple

 

Try something different or enjoyable outside the bedroom. The chemical reaction produced by new activities is similar to the feelings you experience at the beginning of a new relationship. You could try dance lessons, tennis lessons, yoga or massage classes, or take cooking or language class together. Choose anything that engages you and teaches you something new that you can share.

 

Sex is more than just penetration. At least to a woman, it is a total engagement both emotionally and physically. Everything starts from our mind. Work on her mind is the first thing to make sex fun again.

 

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Couples Sex – How To Make It Fun

 

 

 

 

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Are you happy with your current love life? Do you usually feel too tired to have sex at the end of the day? Has the idea of being romantic with your partner losing its luster? Face it; sex will not be fun if there is not much substance to it. However, when you make some changes to your normal acts in the bedroom, everything just gets a lot more interesting and exciting. Use these tips from now on to heat up the temperature in your bedroom.

 

(1)   Take your time

 

The importance and key objective of foreplay is to build anticipation. Prolonging the undressing part can heighten the pleasure. As a woman, you can tease your man by letting him sneak a peek at your good stuff – breasts, buttocks, inner thighs – and then quickly cover up again.

 

When you finally get down to removing your panties, you do it painfully slow to keep his blood pressure rising. Once you are naked, you tease him by twisting your body over him in different directions, arching your back, letting your breasts brush against his face and chest. He will be yearning for your touch when you finally press your body against his.

 

For a guy, you should avoid the tendency to go straight for the genitals and breasts. Take things slowly. Concentrate on giving your woman the best kiss she ever had. Start kissing her everywhere (forehead, nose, cheeks, and eyes) but the mouth. This will drive your woman crazy and keep her in anticipation.

 

Hug her tightly without suffocating her. Start with slow open mouth kiss and tongue-contact. Between kisses, you move your head to the other side of her face. Changing direction keeps the kissing fun. Move your hands around and explore her whole body while kissing.

 

(2)   Pamper each other’s body

 

You get your man to lie down on his back and you rub his body with oil and cream. Be careful not to push down too hard on his stomach and delay touching his genitals until the anticipating is excruciating. You mix up your sexual touches with hard massage, long nail strokes and surprise pinches all over his body to pique his pleasure.

 

From the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a nerve which is said to link to the genital area. When you touch this area, it can reflexively cause the muscles around the genital area to contract in both men and women, which is very arousing. Apply a firmer touch on this area, since it is more ticklish than other spots. Start on one side at just underneath the rib cage and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between light and heavy kissing down to the hipbone. You take turns on doing this to each other.

 

For a guy, you should treat every area of her body as an erogenous zone. Make sure you touch and kiss those usually neglected area such as the neck, throat, inner arms, stomach and eyelids before moving on to the breasts and thighs.

 

There is another area which can spark more goose pimples for both sexes. It is the little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone. The skin is thinner there which makes this area very sensitive to touch.

 

(3)   Bring him/her to climax

 

When you move down to your guy’s lower body, you draw a circle around his genital region with your lips. The whole area from his upper thigh to lower belly is sensitive and the teasing from your mouth will excite him but still allow him to hold back his climax.

 

Read his body language to determine when he is close to climax and then ease off. When his body tenses up, you know he is quite close. If you do not want him to climax, you can switch your focus to another erotic location. When you are ready to finish him off, you can go directly on his genitals and blow-job him to orgasm. You can then switch over to let your guy stimulate you.

 

For the guy, you touch and kiss the inner thighs and slowly moving to her pubic region before moving to the clitoris. You watch her body language to determine when she is close to orgasm. When her breathing gets more rapid, her body tenses up, her hand pressing your head close to her body or her body aches closer to you, and if you see one or more of these signs, this will indicate she is quite close. When this happens, you can go directly to her clitoris, steadily increasing the pressure and pace of clitoral stimulation until she orgasms.

 

There is no set formula to great sex but these above-mentioned tips will give you a good head start to a better sex life. You can read on more from Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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How To Increase The Pleasure Of Sex

 

 

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Do you ever feel the intimate passion you use to have for each other is no longer that stronger when you make love to your partner? Do you want to know how you can avoid getting bored in bed? The following tips should help to bring the passion back into bed

 

(1)   Take a shower together

 

This is a great way to begin your trip to bed. Having a bath together gives you more time to tease and play with each other. It also gives you the chance to talk and relax in each other’s arms. You should include this as part of the foreplay. Playing in each other’s arms before reaching the bed is an excellent way to solidify your anticipation of a night of great intimacy.

 

(2)   Create a romantic atmosphere

 

You can start doing this from the bedroom. Decorate the bedroom so that it feels sensual and inviting with soft, clean bed sheets and extra pillows. To evoke a certain mood, you can play some slow and romantic music as background tracks for your love scene.

 

With the music on, you can switch off the lights and light up the room with scented candles. Potpourris are also an excellent addition to fill the ambience with fragrance. Certain fragrances behave as aphrodisiacs, so choose correctly and devote your time in it.

 

Scented body oils are a great way to prolong the act of sex. You can rub oil over your partner. This is passionate, sexy and feels so slippery and wet when you are on top of each other.

 

You can add in some edible love enhancers such as strawberries, chocolate syrup or some edible body paint. The bedroom is one of the most common places to have sex. If you can add in anything that is exciting, unique and pleasurable, you can bring the spark back.

 

(3)   Get some bedroom toys and a good collection of adult movies

 

Sex toys can add a lot of fun for both of you. This is especially so when you are not used to watching your partner plays or works with a toy on her body. Using sex toys is also a great way to turn your partner on and also helps to gain you some more time if she takes a little bit longer to reach orgasm.

 

A good erotic movie also has its own benefits. When you are playing with each other or trying to prolong the night, some little wonderful distractions at times can keep the fun going on for a couple of hours. This is one of the best ways to relax and enjoy each other’s company and have sensuous sex for several hours. The brain is the biggest and most important sexual organ you have. All our desires and emotions start from the brain. Therefore, you should do whatever it takes to stimulate and arouse each other’s mind before going to bed.

 

(4)   Kiss to tease

 

A lot about making love is all about the touch and kisses. You caress and kiss your partner while you move your hands all over her. Kissing can start from anywhere, anytime, even before you reach the bedroom. To get your partner in the right mood, kiss her face, starting with little pecks on the eyes, cheeks, chin, nose and lips. Be slow and steady as you lock lips. Put pressure then pull back and gently suck the bottom lip. This will definitely get her senses tingling for more.

 

You can give each other a sensual massage. Take turns to pleasure each other and let the fingers linger a while on the sensitive spots. This can make both of you turn on if your touching can help her to reach orgasm. Spending a lot of time kissing, caressing and enjoying each other’s body is a great way to get ready for one of the best lovemaking sessions you would have had in a long time.

 

(5)   Keep yourself focus on her

 

This is the best way to overcome any performance anxieties you may have. Pay attention to what pleasures her as you touch her and observe her body signals. Maintain eye contact all the time. This can create a connection that can heighten the pleasure of lovemaking. The connection removes all inhibitions and hesitancy. Your partner obviously needs to feel you are physically and emotionally connected to her before she gets turned on.

 

To improve your lovemaking skills, you need to create new experiences all the time and focus on her satisfaction at the same time. Read the rest of the tips on how to have great sex at Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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