Problem-Solving Sex Positions For Couples

 

 

 

 

Want to have a baby? How to build confidence in bed for her? How to increase pleasure for her? How to last long? What to do if she complains of pain during intercourse? Is it due to your big size penis? If it is so, how do you overcome this? Or, if you feel you are small down there, how to make it feel big for you and her? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Sex Positions To Get Pregnant

 

(a)    The man-on-top position works well in getting her pregnant. During intercourse, deep penetration will help to minimize the amount of ejaculate leaking out. After withdrawing the penis, press her vaginal lips together to prevent further leakage. She should remain lying on her back for an additional 20 to 30 minutes preferably with her lower back supported by a small pillow so her pelvis is tilted slightly upwards. This will allow the sperms enough time to easily swim up through the cervix.

 

(b)   Lying side-by-side is a more relaxed position and is easier for a partner who is overweight or has a back problem. You can do this either face-to-face or in the spoon position with you entering her from behind.

 

(c)    Doggie position (entering her from behind) will allow you to enter with deeper thrusts and deposit the sperms close to the cervix.

 

(d)   On edge position is when she positions herself at the edge of the bed or couch and you enter her from either a standing or kneeling position.

 

(2)   Sex Position To Build Confidence For Her

 

If she is lacking confidence in bed, the best way to overcome this is to let her take control. This will mean allowing her to be on top of you. This can be done by kneeling, squatting, facing you or her back facing you.

 

(3)   Sex Positions To Increase Pleasure For Her

 

(a)    She will be squatting on top of you with her hands on your body for support. Instead of her rocking backward and forward, she will slide herself up and down with the penis inside her. This position lets her vary the pace and depth of thrusts which helps put her in control of her orgasm. Squatting will help her to feel the entire length of your shaft as she encircles it, and the muscle tension created by holding herself above you can add to the intensity of her pleasure. The friction from this up-and-down movement will give her amazing sensations all along the edge of her vaginal opening when she pumps shallow and on her g-spot when she pumps deep. If she chooses to lean backward and rest her hands on your thigh and knees the sensation will even spread to her clitoris.

 

(b)   In this lying on the side face-to-face position, she will raise her leg and allow you to slide inside her, and then drape her leg over yours. Try to arrange it in such a way that her feet are braced against a wall or footboard. In this way, she can use the strength in her legs to give her the action she wants. This side-by-side position allows her to have a firm, full-body contraction in order to reach the next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. She can choose the type and level of stimulation she wants by resting her thigh on you or lifting her thigh. She will enjoy greater stimulation on the inner walls of her entire vagina by resting her thigh on you. If she lifts her leg and opens up, she allows you a bigger range of motion, which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation while on her way to orgasm.

 

(c)    She will lie down on the table with buttocks near the edge. You will enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can either rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of table. This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris easily. To increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, get her to lift up her buttocks or slip a pillow or a love cushion which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to her genitals.

 

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(4)   Sex Positions To Last Longer

 

(a)    Penetration in standing position can help you to last longer. This is because by standing up you are drawing blood away from the genitals and into your legs which makes lasting longer easier.

 

(b)   If you let her get on top of you, you can last longer. This is because when she is on top, you can fully relax all your muscles, which can help to delay your orgasm. Put your hands on her hips to guide her in how she moves to prevent her from giving you too much sexual excitement.

 

(c)    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders. In this position, you will be on your knees and after you enter her, you spread your knees as wide apart as possible until you can feel the groin muscles stretching. This will put pressure on your groins which will cause energy and blood to flow there and away from your genitals, making lasting longer much easier.

 

(5)   Sex Positions To Avoid Painful Intercourse For Her

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position allows a woman to control the depth of penetration if deep penetration hurts. This position allows you to add more pleasure to intercourse by caressing her breasts or clitoris

 

(b)   Another good position for her to avoid painful intercourse is for both of you to lie on your sides, either with you behind her (spooning), or face-to-face

 

(6)   Sex Positions For Small Penis

 

(a)    She will sit on top of you, grinding herself forward and backward instead of up-and-down, to prevent your penis from slipping out.

 

(b)   Missionary with her ankles crossing behind your neck. This position will tighten her vaginal canal which is a great way to squeeze you and making you feel big inside her

 

(c)     She will lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Her buttocks will be raised a little allowing you to enter her from behind. You can prop yourself up with your arms for more range of motion.

 

(7)   Sex Positions For Big Penis

 

(a)    When she is on top of you, she will move her hips in circular motions as she glides up and down, only going as deep as she can handle. Or, you can sit on a chair without arms and just let her straddle on your laps either facing you or away from you, using your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

 

(b)   She will lie on her back, lifting her legs so that they are pointing at the ceiling. You will kneel in front of her with your back straight, wrapping your arms around her thighs as you enter her. This is a shallow penetration position giving a lot of chance for the tip of the penis to rub against the area around the vaginal opening. This means your most sensitive part (penis tip) will be in contact with her highly sensitive area near the vaginal entrance which has a lot of nerve endings there.

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The Art Of Touching – How To Make A Woman Orgasm

 

 

 

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Where are the female hot spots to touch on if you want to turn a girl on? One of women’s biggest complaints is that men often go straight for the breasts or other private parts and spend little or no time exploring other parts of their bodies. What most guys do not realize is that there are more erogenous spots they can explore to get women aroused. If you want to get her in the mood, you have to stimulate some of her often-neglected body parts. Read on to discover her other sensuous body parts.

 

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(1)    Scalp

 

The scalp is covered with nerve endings that make it super-sensitive to touch. A good scalp rub can both release tension and increase blood flow. This will definitely flood her body with the feel-good hormones dopamine and serotonin.

 

(2)    Ears

 

Touch or massage the rim of her ear between your thumb and forefinger with your fingers. As she responds, graze the ridge of her outer ear with the tip of your nose. She can feel your breath and hear your whisper as you describe to her in great details everything you are about to do to her. The sense of anticipation may be as exciting to her as the act itself.

 

(3)    Lips

 

Lips remain one of the most erotic areas of a woman’s body. It is no secret that women equate a good kisser with an especially good lover. Kissing is your entrance exam for the rest of her body. To rev things up, you can vary the strength and intensity of your kiss. You softly lick her upper lip or tug it gently between your lips.

 

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(4)    Neck

 

The neck is very sensitive to touch and kiss because the skin is thin in this area and the nerves and blood vessels are closer to the surface. The back of her neck is also another part you should not miss. You can build up the pleasure by gently touching and kissing her from her hair line down to her shoulders. It will make her reach dizzying heights and pleasure.

 

(5)    Area between collarbone and top of cleavage

 

This region is more sensitive than the bottom of the cleavage. Stimulate this area using the pads of your fingers.

 

(6)    Areola

 

This area responds to very light touch. For women with smaller nipples, this area is far denser in nerve endings than the nipples themselves. Simply run your lips or fingers across the areola can cause it to tense up pleasurably. To prompt the greatest sensation, wait until the aerola tenses up and then gently stretch it between your fingers.

 

(7)    Side breast

 

This is an often overlooked but extremely sensitive area. While women with bigger boobs can find that their nipples are less responsive, the sides of their breasts are highly sensitive to any stimulation. Stroke along the length of the side breast with your fingers and then move into a circular pressure, as this will increase the flow of oxytocin to heighten the intensity of her orgasm.

 

(8)    Back

 

Knead the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine and follow with light fingertip strokes. As you get lower and lower down the back, the nerves become more sensitive. This is an area where a guy places his protective hand on, which most women love it because it shows that he feels very strongly about her. By kissing or licking down the spine to end up with a kiss on her lower back will definitely get her into the mood for more.

 

(9)    Belly

 

Stroking or even massaging the belly can be an erotic experience for some women. The thought of you moving farther south can be downright exciting, likely causing her vaginal muscles to contract from the anticipation, boosting her arousal and possibly leading to orgasm without direct genital contact.

 

(10)  Hands

 

Her palm, fingers and the inner folding between the upper and lower arm are very sensitive to stimulation. You can arouse a woman by running your fingers along her fingers, palm as that will make her feel relaxed and ready for a sexy rendezvous ahead. Some women find the inner folding of the hand especially exciting and pleasurable when showered with gentle touch or kisses, because the skin is thin in this area.

 

 (11)   Buttocks

 

I love curvy buttocks! Lots of women like it when you lightly spank and squeeze their buttocks. Some even like their buttocks to be licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). If you shower her behind with unsolicited attention, you will be rewarded with many favors from her.

 

  (12)  Legs

 

Her toes, ankles, the sides of her feet, back of her knees and inner thighs are the sensitive spots on her legs. There is nothing more seductive than a foot massage. Pay extra attention to the pleasure points such as her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet. Some women love having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so ask her if she likes it before putting them in your mouth.

Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, some women find it very pleasuring when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.

 

Touching a woman’s inner thighs without touching her private parts is the most sensual tease that is sure to get her all charged up. Stroke her thighs in the direction of her vagina, but pull away before you reach it. Breathe on her or brush your fingers very close will awaken the skin. This will transmit a different kind of sensation than if you are actually making contact.

 

If you have been spending a few minutes each on every of her sensuous body parts as listed above, by now, she should be begging for you to do more to bring her over the edge of orgasm. If you are keen for more ideas to arouse her further to orgasm, read on from Make a Woman Orgasm and Her Best Lover.

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Can Circumcision Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

 

 

 

You want your girl to have the best sex. You want her to experience intense orgasm. You can last long with hand job but when it comes to actual intercourse, you ejaculate under a minute. You find this so frustrating and embarrassing. You want to consider circumcision because you think the problem is due to your too sensitive foreskin which prevents you from lasting longer in bed? Is it true that circumcision can reduce or cure premature ejaculation?

 

It is true that an uncut penis is often more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis. The main reason is that as the glans, or the head of a circumcised penis gets used to constant rubbing against the fabrics, without the protection of the foreskin, it will become less sensitive to sexual stimulation. Due to this reason, a circumcised male is likely to take a longer time to ejaculate. To a certain extent, this happens to accidentally cure premature ejaculation.

 

However, there is still no convincing evidence to suggest that circumcision can make a significant difference to the time it takes for a man to ejaculate. A research done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicates that rates of premature ejaculation in the US (where over 70% of the males are circumcised) are similar to other parts of the world where circumcision rates are significantly lower. Though circumcision can to a certain extent reduce sensitivity (because a lot of nerve endings are removed with the foreskin), however it does not necessarily increase the time a guy takes to ejaculate.

 

How To Reduce Or Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

(1)   Choose sex positions to help you last longer

 

(a)   The woman-on-top position

 

You will lie down on the bed and she will sit on top of you. She can either face you or her back towards you. When she is on top, you can ask her to slow down to avoid stimulating you too much.

 

Instead of lying on your back, you can sit face-to-face with your partner sitting on your laps. She will adjust her lower body to facilitate penetration. This position improves intimacy with your partner because you can kiss her, rub her back and suck or fondle her breasts.

 

For a change, you can also sit with her back facing you so that you can fondle her breasts while you penetrate her.

 

(b)   The side-by-side position

 

Both of you will lie on your side facing each other. She will lift up her leg to facilitate penetration. In this position, penetration will tend to be shallower, increasing the likelihood of better clitoral stimulation. With shallower thrusting, the sensation will not become too overwhelming for you.

 

(2)   Focus on her pleasure

 

In my opinion, the best way to cope with premature ejaculation is not to think about how long you should last inside her. Instead you divert your attention to her. You focus on pleasuring her. You make sure she orgasms first before you ejaculate. For most women, the easiest and most effective way to make her orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris.

 

You can do this by using your hands to masturbate her. Since most women love oral sex, you can use your tongue to lick her clitoris. If your hand or tongue gets tired before she orgasms, you can continue to stimulate her by using a vibrator plus other fun aids.

 

These are just two of the many ways you can do to delay your ejaculation. For more ways to control premature ejaculation, read on more from Long Sex and/or Prolonged Pleasure.

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Fun Things To Do To Spice Sex Up

 

 

 

 

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Do you miss those days when it was so exciting and romantic to be together? Do you want to turn back the clock to those sexy, curious, early days when both of you started becoming a couple? Sometimes it helps to go back to the sexual basics when you need to break out of a routine or have a fresh start. If you are worried that sex is becoming stale and predictable, it is time to try something new. Here are some spicy ways to help you break out of a sex rut.

 

(1)   Explore and act out each other’s fantasies

 

You can invite your partner to slowly reveal aspects of his/her sexuality. Perhaps you can start in a less intimidating way with both of you writing down each of your secret and craziest desires on a small piece of paper and put it in a box. Think about what turns you on and what you like to have your partner do to you (or you to him). If you are not sure how to get started, you can read about some erotic stories or watch some erotic videos. After doing this, both of you will exchange your “fantasy box” with each other. Both of you will take turn to pick out a fantasy idea from the box and act it out.

 

(2)   Play with props

 

Props are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale and help you get inside an alternative reality while in the bedroom. Honey, peanut butter, whipped cream, ice-cream and hot fudge can be very sensual when eaten or licked off each other’s bodies. You can try things like massage oil or lotion, plastic sheet, blindfold, feather, furry handcuffs, vibrator, edible body paint, edible panties or tattoos, or dress up as someone from a fantasy. If you have fancy over people in uniform, you can get your partner a suit from the second hand store and tell him/her your wildest desires.

 

(3)   Be romantic

 

Make an “I love you” coupon book that each of you can use when you feel like it. Some coupon ideas include: Kiss me here. Wear my favorite ______. Call your partner in the middle of the day and explain what you want to do to him/her later that night.

 

Create an intimate mood by lighting some candles and filling the tub with bubble bath or scented oil, such as lavender oil. Take turns to rub each other all over with your hands or a sponge. Include a water-proof vibrating toy or sponge to enhance sensations.

 

Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate – just her favorite dessert will do. Or, you can pick up her favorite dessert on your way back home. Surprise her with small gifts at times.

 

Being too critical to your loved ones can hurt libido. Therefore find things to compliment each other. All of us like being praised from time to time, but more so, when the compliment comes from someone you love. However, be genuine in your appreciation, as false praise can hurt feelings.

 

Try kissing each other as often as you can. Kiss her the first thing in the morning. Women love simple displays of love and waking up your wife with a kiss, are sure to set her humming for the rest of the day. Spend at least five minutes kissing. This is the only thing that will help you to rediscover the passion and sexuality that your kisses hold.

 

(4)   Explore new activities as a couple

 

Try something different or enjoyable outside the bedroom. The chemical reaction produced by new activities is similar to the feelings you experience at the beginning of a new relationship. You could try dance lessons, tennis lessons, yoga or massage classes, or take cooking or language class together. Choose anything that engages you and teaches you something new that you can share.

 

Sex is more than just penetration. At least to a woman, it is a total engagement both emotionally and physically. Everything starts from our mind. Work on her mind is the first thing to make sex fun again.

 

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How Female Ejaculation Happens

 

 

 

 

 

 

A guy once dated a woman who could orgasm so much that she sprayed like a fountain. He feels great about this experience and wants the same thing to happen to his current girlfriend. Can this happen to any woman or how does this happen?

 

What is just described here is female ejaculation. In layman terms, it is called squirting. This can be part of sexual response from some women. There are 2 types of female sexual response fluids. The most commonly known type is the vaginal ejaculate which lubricates the vaginal wall and protects her against infection due to its slightly acidic nature.

 

The less commonly known type of female sexual response fluid is the one that comes from the Skenes glands (the glands that make up the g-spot) and bladder. This is similar to the prostrate fluid in men but unlike the male ejaculate, this type of female ejaculate has nothing to do with reproduction. This type of female ejaculate is not commonly seen in large amount. Only a few women can experience this fountain-like phenomenon.

 

Not all women ejaculate. This is not because women are not capable of ejaculating; rather it is due to lack of understanding of women’s sexual health issues. Even for those women who can, most do not ejaculate all the time during every kind of sexual activity. For both male and female, ejaculation can happen with or without orgasm. For women who ejaculate, ejaculation usually happens before orgasm. No matter how men feel about it, not all women are comfortable with or enjoy ejaculating.

 

Female ejaculation fluid is not urine though it passes through the urethra, which is the same place we urinate. Some women are also confused by it because when they are about to ejaculate, the feeling is as if they are about to urinate. But this is not so. This is because the composition of contents in urine and female ejaculation fluid are grossly different. Upon testing the liquid, scientists discover that it contains sugar and an enzyme (prostrate acid phosphatase) which is a major component in semen. Urea and creatinine which are found in greater proportion in urine, are minor components in female ejaculation fluid.

 

If a woman ejaculates, it is mainly due to extensive and targeted g-spot stimulation and/or clitoral stimulation. The g-spot is located along the front wall (towards the belly)of the vaginal canal about 2 inches from the opening. For many women, the best stimulation of that area usually will happen with toys or fingers or choosing sexual positions that allow the penis to provide that stimulation as well.

 

When a woman is highly aroused due to clitoral and/or g-spot stimulation and feels like quite close to orgasm or having one and if she can just relax and push just like she does when urinating, ejaculation will happen if it is going to.

 

Till now there is still no definitive answer as to why some women cannot ejaculate. It is probably they do not get the kind of sexual stimulation they need to do so or they are not aroused enough to get there. Some women do not feel comfortable and try to hold back because they mistakenly think they are going to urinate.

 

When comes to ejaculation, a guy has to keep this in mind that sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t. You cannot force this on a woman and give her unnecessary pressure.

 

What matters most is not whether she orgasms or ejaculates. The best way to approach this is to focus on her pleasure and enjoy the whole process. What a woman needs is connection with her partner. If she can feel it, she can still be sexually satisfied even without orgasm or ejaculation. If you try to set goals like trying to make her orgasm or ejaculate during each sexual encounter, you can only make this even less likely to happen because you are putting too much stress on yourself and her.

 

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