How To Get The Girl You Want In A Sexually Attractive Way

 

 

 

 

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In order for sex to happen with any girl, you have got to talk to her first, to build the rapport and to get her comfortable with you. While men tend to be physically-oriented (more obsess with getting it as soon as possible), women are more emotionally-driven. You need to work on her brain first (seduce her mind), gradually build up her good-feelings towards you in the process of leading her to the bedroom. So, the next time when you meet the girl you want, you can use the following ideas to get her attention.

 

(1)   How to start

 

If the girl you are interested in, is in a group, approach the group and do not throw any hint who is your target. There are various ways to start a conversation. The most effective way to start a conversation is that it should be delivered in an offhand, casual way without conveying any romantic or sexual interest. You can compliment her about something she is wearing.

 

You can also start by asking something casual about her opinion such as “You girls look like experts…….let me ask you a quick question.” When using a question to start a conversation, never ask for permission to talk to her, or sound apologetic, such as “Pardon me, can I ask you a question?”. This sets the wrong tone, making you look like you are begging for her attention.

 

Questions about relationships such as jealousy and what constitutes cheating, work very well when you try to “break” into a group, because these are the things that women always have an opinion about. When you ask a question, make sure it is open-ended so that the answer will not be just a yes or no, in order to keep the conversation ongoing. Make sure you have your opinions and stories to share but do not totally contradict her.

 

(2)   Get to know her

 

The next step is trying to know her and share with her a few interesting details about your talents, ambitions, passions, etc. To get her to open up, use the indirect approach by way of statements, stories and educated guesses. For example, instead of asking her where she is from, you can say something like, “You come across to me as  someone from a big city, very cool, sophisticated and metropolitan in character. As this is only an educated guess, so it does not matter whether you get it right or wrong. Your purpose is to get her to tell you more about herself.

 

During your conversation, always be ready to talk about your own positive qualities and those things you are passionate about. When a girl sizes up a guy, she wants to assess his potentials before moving further on. Do not bring out any unhappy topics. Most important, keep the mood positive, fun and relaxed. To make her feel closed to you, it will be best to talk about the things both of you are interested in.

 

A great way to draw her closer to you and ‘play your game’, is to find out an interest you have got in common, make some ‘vague plan’, tell her she is fun, awesome that she shares the same interest with you (she will try not to contradict the positive image you project on her) and tell her you are going to hang out and enjoy that activity together.

 

For example, if you want to go to the beach and she expresses how much she loves the beach, you can say something like, “It is awesome that you love the beach. We can go to the beach one of these weekends.” Because you do not mention any specific date, this sounds vague and harmless, making it easier to go along with you. Once you start this on a positive note when she does not turn down your initial suggestion, it will be more likely that she will agree to your future ‘plan’ with her.

 

It is important to take charge and lead because women like guys who have their ‘stand’ instead of trying to be totally obedient to them. Make some small ‘requests’ that she is unlikely to turn down, to program her to comply with you. Instead of asking her do you want to go to somewhere else, you take her by the hand and say, “Let’s find a place that we can sit and talk.” You will then lead her to the place you have in mind.

 

(3)   Use reverse psychology

 

The way to do is to display some confidence about yourself, making her feel it will be a great loss not to be with you. People always have this tendency of trying to prove you are wrong when you ‘persuade’ or ‘force’ them to agree with you. Tell or hint to her she is not suitable for you and if she is keen on you, she will go all her way out to prove you are wrong. Usually girls like to put guys in the Friend Zone; you can do that to her and most likely she will try to make herself more than just a friend to you.

 

(4)   Bring her close to you

 

To get her interested in you, you need to show interest first. You will not get anything by trying to act like a gentleman, not showing any interest and waiting for her romantic signals. Most women are afraid of being viewed negatively as been too easy (she does not want to be seen as a ‘slut’). What you should do is to slowly and subtly build physical contact with her. Start with some innocent or casual touch such as putting an arm around her waist or hold her hand when you are walking with her in crowded places or when crossing a road.

 

(5)   How to keep the conversation a little longer

 

When you talk to her, listen carefully so that you can latch on something that she mentions about and use this to keep the conversation going on a little longer. Instead of asking her what is her occupation, say something positive about whatever she is doing and you can start talking about your passions and goals. She will be swept up in your enthusiasm and energy and feel that you are a fun guy to be with.

 

These tips need a little practice. You may not get what you want in your first try. The main thing is not to give up. First, you do not act desperate, make her feel comfortable, take the lead and when things advance to a later stage, show your interest. When you are ready to take this further, you can visit Hot Sex and/or Make Her Horny.

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Sex Tips – How To Be Confident

 

 

 

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How to make a woman enjoy sex with you so that she will beg for more of you? Do you want her to love sex as much as you do? How to make her addicted to you sexually? How to be the special and rare guy who will give her the best sexual experience she ever had? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Be confident in sex

 

Women desire a man who always project dominant manly traits. Men who show sexual confidence are big turn on for women. Women desire a guy who knows what he is doing, how to please them enough to light the fire deep inside them. During sex, she wants you to lead the situation, to manhandle her, press your body against her and not to be afraid to take the upper hand.

 

The foundation of confidence is knowledge. This means requiring you to learn about sexuality and master it such as how to give oral sex, how to perform good foreplay, how to touch her sensually, understand a woman’s erogenous zones, how to kiss and where to kiss. So, when you are free, do make an effort to do some reading about sexuality matters.

 

This alone is not enough because when comes to sex, every woman is different and has her own likes and dislikes. Therefore, you need to pay attention, to find out what she wants by observation and through daily conversation. This is to avoid you from blindly applying everything that you read on her, without taking into consideration her unique needs. By paying attention, you will be able to tailor-made or customize your actions specifically for her.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Women desire more foreplay. They are complex creatures, so one minute of kissing is not going to satisfy them. A woman wants you to touch her, grab her and play with her until she begs you. For many women, it is good to make sure she has an orgasm before intercourse, from either manual stimulation or oral sex. This is because after she has already climaxed, she will be aroused and able to enjoy sex more fully.

 

Foreplay should not be limited to the physical aspect. For women, sex is not just physical. It also includes the emotional aspect as well. For this reason, foreplay should start long before the act of intercourse. You need to learn her likes and dislikes, be attentive, notice and remember even the small little details that turn her on, learn most if not all of her erogenous areas and the things that put a twinkle in her eyes such as sweet smelling oil and an erotic massage.

 

To avoid sex from becoming boring, you need to be inventive and creative to give her something new to make her realize you enjoy and want to fulfill her needs and desires. Good foreplay is about knowing how and when to push the right emotional buttons to start the physical aspect of lovemaking. You need to pay attention to every part of her body as well as knowing how long to spend in one place, because not enough time equals frustration and too much time can cause soreness or numbness.

 

(3)   Choose those sex positions that women favor

 

(a)   Woman-on-top

 

She straddles your body on her knees (or squats over you), facing away from you. The advantage for her is deeper penetration as well as better control. This position also gives her better chances of reaching her g-spot. The benefit for you is that she can caress your thighs and scrotum and you can caress her buttocks and back. To take the pressure off your pelvis, she can lean forward on your thighs or backward on your chest.

 

(b)   Modified missionary

 

You enter her as you would in the standard missionary position. Instead of spreading her legs, you lift her knees to her chests and hook her ankles over your shoulders. You support your weight on your hands. This will give you deeper penetration and stimulation of the back wall of her vagina. If her legs are tired, she can rest them on the bed. To lift up her lower body so that it is easier for your penis to reach her g-spot, you can put one or two pillows or a specially-designed love cushion underneath her pelvis region.

 

To do something different, you can switch to enter her in the normal way, but lie across her pelvis, while still supporting your weight on your elbows. She will enjoy it because it stimulates the side of her vaginal wall, something she does not experience before.

 

(c) Modified rear entry

 

While you sit on a chair or edge of bed, she lowers her body to your penis. She controls the movement and penetration which can be pleasurable for both of you. You get to caress her breasts and clitoris to offer additional stimulation. This position is also good for g-spot stimulation.

 

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Sex Tips – How To Make Her Want You

 

 

 

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Do you want to have a good time in bed? Do you want your partner to need you so much that she becomes the one who is initiating sex most of the time?

 

How to have great sex? To certain people, great sex is about rehearsing some sex positions that they read from a self-help book. But it is more than that. You have to arouse your partner and yourself every time when you jump into the bed. You have to be comfortable with what you are doing, your partner has to be aroused by you and you also need to be turned on by your partner. In other words, great sex should be mutually satisfying.

 

Here are a few things you can do that can help her to reach orgasm easily and make your ego feel a lot better.

 

(1)   Sensual touch

 

Touching is very important and is also one of the easiest ways to please her. Women respond very strongly to touch. Make sure you combine every of your touch with eye contact. Keeping eye contact with her will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch.

 

Take the time to caress her ears, nape and hair will be fantastic in heating things up. You kiss her softly on her back, chests or breasts, down to her tummy and inner thighs. You treat every area of the body as an erogenous zone, even touching and kissing those off-neglected areas such as the neck, throat, inner arms and eyelids. During touching, you pay attention to how she reacts to your various ways of stroking and adjust according to her preferences. All these moves will definitely turn her on.

 

(2)   Setting the mood

 

Setting a comfortable environment is the key to preparing for sex and ensuring a satisfying experience. Ambiance is very important for the proper sexual mood. Accentuate your room by getting some candles. It will be better to use scented candles such as chamomile which can help to relax the body and make the atmosphere more conducive.

 

Make sure the room temperature is not as hot as a furnace or as freezing cold as a refrigerator. Playing some instrumental music (or depending on what arouses your partner) is good for keeping her in the mood. Make the room smell sweet, relaxing and enticing.

 

(3)   Oral stimulation

 

Oral sex is a great gate-way to intercourse. Lick her slowly all around. It is only when her clitoris is swollen and her breath is getting short and rapid that you start to lick on it firmly. You explore the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue and lips. As she gets more aroused, you can spend more time directly stimulating her clitoris.

 

Try alternating between slow and fast, up and down, side-to-side tongue flicks when you are on her clitoris. Use your hand to supplement your tongue action by caressing the insides of her thighs, rubbing her breasts and squeezing her nipples. When you sense she is getting close, from her physical and vocal responses, you maintain a rhythm that suits her, providing consistent pressure on her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

(4)   Be creative

 

You get a self-help book which tells about the various lovemaking positions. You read this together with your partner. After this both of you can discuss and decide the new positions that will be more intimate in lovemaking. Both of you can also experiment with role-playing by dressing (or even cross-dressing) and acting as someone you always desire to be. You can also use adult toys to help you last longer when you are stimulating your partner. You can consider light bondage such as blind-folding and hand-cuffing to sharpen the sexual response when one of the senses is being blocked out.

 

Lovemaking should always be comfortable and done in a way that satisfies both of you. Learning how to have great sex is essential to keep the relationship with your partner stronger.

 

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Pussy Licking – How To Turn A Girl On

 

 

 

 

 

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Almost every woman loves oral sex. But the problem is most women do not get enough of oral sex from their lovers. A sure bet way to make a girl horny and rock her world is to give her oral sex. Giving her the most intense sensation and pleasure that correlates with oral sex will no doubt make her want you more and make her orgasm fast. Who knows this may even cause her to initiate it the next time she sees you. Read on to find out how you can make your lady’s thighs quiver with pleasure.

 

(1)   Get her to relax

 

The less insecurity there is for her, the better she will response during oral sex. If either of you are worried about unpleasant odors or tastes, take a shower together beforehand. Do reassure her that you think she is sexy. When you are down between her legs, she may feel uneasy about the way she looks, whether it is the size of her thighs or the appearance of her vagina. Say and do things that compliment the way she looks, smells and tastes, while rubbing and kissing the pubic region.

 

(2)   Get her warm up

 

Before you tongue a girl, you need to make sure she is relaxed and ready for you. Do not skip foreplay. You stimulate all of her other erogenous zones with your mouth or hand. You take time to cuddle, kiss, suck and nibble and let her know you are so excited to be with her. When you finally get to her vagina, tease her by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling all around the area. This technique will keep her in anticipation and get blood flowing to her ‘love canal’ making her nether region more sensitive to stimulation.

 

(3)   Get wet

 

When using your hands and fingers, use your saliva to get them wet before you use your mouth on her. Once she gets turned on enough, her vagina will create lubrication of its own. Show her how much you enjoy eating her out by rubbing your cheeks against her vagina or taking some of her love juice with your fingers and spread it on your lips and face. You will turn her on with this dirty gesture. You may also use flavored lubricant, but either way, keeping her wet down there is an incredible sensation, making it one of the best oral sex techniques to use.

 

(4)   Pay attention to her signals

 

Your partner will let you know what is working for her and what she does not like. To tongue a girl you have to respond properly to her movements. If she is grinding her hips and grabbing the back of your head while arching her back, you are probably on to something. Sometimes wetting a finger or two and slipping it inside her vagina can also drive her wild. You can gauge her response by testing with one finger first and if she enjoys it, you may slip another finger in, making it to two. This will give her the dual sensation of your mouth on her clitoris and penetration at the same time.

 

Carefully watch her physical response and make adjustments accordingly. When you notice she is getting more and more aroused, you speed up your act, and increase the intensity of your stimulation. Finally, when she is reaching her peak, you keep up with a steady and firm pace until she comes.

 

(5)   Talk to her

 

If she is not very vocal in bed, or you are unable to decipher the noises she makes, ask her what she likes. It may seem like an amateur move to ask for help, but it will be of greatest pleasure to her by having her guide your hand, or your tongue to her ‘hot buttons’. By talking to your partner and finding out what she likes will help you to know how to give her the best orgasm in the shortest amount of time.

 

(6)   Gently lick and suck the clitoris

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of driving straight for her clitoris, though clitoral stimulation is an important part of oral sex. This is because the clitoris is a very highly sensitive region with lots of nerve endings (more than at the penis tip). Hard licking and sucking initially on the clitoris can make her feel uncomfortable.

 

For a start, you gently flick it with your tongue and move onto the area around the clitoris. Come back to the clitoris every once in a while, but do not concentrate all your efforts on it. It is only when you sense she is quite close to orgasm that you can suck and lick harder on her clitoris.

 

(7)   Venture to other areas

 

Not every woman is not anal stimulation, but you may be surprised what this gesture could do for your sex life. Some women like to have their anus licked, or even have a finger inserted into it. If she is into it, you can lick her anus while you are eating her out. While you are there you will be able to lick the lower part of her vagina at the same time or you can lick back and forth between the vagina and the anus. This oral sex technique can provide extra stimulation and gratifying results. Ask her if she likes it, or allow you to try it.

 

Just because you are going down on her does not mean that the rest of her body should be ignored. Use your hands to rub her breasts, stomach, neck and inner thigh. This will load up her senses and make her completely and utterly involved with what you are doing down there.

 

(8)   Vary your moves

 

Use different patterns, pressure and motions while sucking or using your tongue. For those who are a little nervous about going down on a girl, it sometimes helps to spell out each letter with your tongue. It may sound a little odd, but this helps in two ways. First, this will increase the dexterity of your tongue. Second, this will help you to get more used to licking her for a longer period of time.

 

She may be partial to certain moves such as the rapid flicking of your tongue over her clitoris, long and short licks, a flat or rigid tongue, or sucking. Take your time and pay attention to the way she responds so you will be able to know which oral sex techniques work best for her. When you figure it out, keep doing it unless she seems to get bored with it, then you can try tweaking your technique or find a new one to use. You can also take oral sex to a whole new level by trying it in different positions, like with her straddling your face, from behind, or standing up. To spice things up, you can also introduce sex toys or stimulating lubricants.

 

You can also use food creatively to enhance her oral sex experience. Rub strawberries covered in whipped cream or honey around her private parts. You can also insert a banana and use it to stimulate her as you pull it out with your mouth.

 

Using these oral sex tips can increase the chances of giving her the best orgasm she ever had. Most important, make sure you listen to her and try to read her body language as well. Do you need some more tips to get her wild and make her addicted to you sexually? Click on Make Her Pussy Wet and Good Head Kit For Her

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How To Arouse A Woman In Bed

 

 

 

 

In order to please a woman and make her want you more, getting her turned on is the single most important aspect of every sexual encounter. Luckily, there are many ways to go about achieving this. Following are just a few of those various techniques that can ensure your woman gets in the mood as often as you wish.

 

(1)   Make her feel good

 

A woman’s main sexual organ is her brain. The best and most effective way to turn her on is to make her feel good, relaxed and sexy. No matter how busy you can be, this step is not to be skipped. Going straight for the lower part of her body when her brain or mind is not yet ready can only turn her off.

 

For many women, getting in the mood requires being both emotionally and physically ready. Do not rush. Instead, you take the time to stroke her hair, rub her shoulders and basically just hold and touch her. When you are out in public, you hold her hand. Make sure you tell her that you find her to be beautiful and sexy.

 

Also do take the time to kiss her neck. Just press the tip of your tongue against her skin and kiss her softly. Kissing any part of the neck will get a woman in the mood. Do not miss her ear lobes, the back of her ears. Lightly nibble and kiss on these areas can also arouse her a lot.

 

(2)   Seduce her with dirty talking

 

This is another good way to seduce her brain and make a woman turned on. Do not be creepy about it and try not to be too vulgar unless you know that it gets her in the mood. Lean in close and whisper into her ear all of the things that you have thought about doing to her. For example, if you and your partner both enjoy it when you perform oral sex on her, try describing it from your point of view. Talk about how much you love touching her body and how it feels like to touch her with your tongue. The more descriptive you can get, the better dirty talk will be.

 

Once your partner is aroused, you can start complimenting her body. For the best dirty talk, do not say general things. Instead, you focus on one particular area of her body and describe it in detail, including what you like about it. For example, you can sit between her legs and talk about how you like to watch her open and close them.

 

Another dirty talk technique you can use is simply telling your partner all those naughty sexual thoughts you have, such as watching her perform oral sex on another woman. Because this is pure fantasy, you know this is something that is unlikely to happen in real life and neither do you want it to happen. Encourage your partner to share her sexual fantasies. The more open you are, the easier it will be for her to let loose. Lightly kiss her on the ear from time to time while telling her all these. Do not spoil the mood by sticking your tongue in her ear in a rough way.

 

(3)   Tease her with aphrodisiacs

 

Confucius once said over 5,000 years ago, “Food and sex are part of human nature.” Therefore when it comes to making a woman horny, one of the most effective ways is to play around with aphrodisiac. Obviously, the most common is chocolate; however, there are numerous others less obvious options to choose from that can help bring out that dormant sexual desire that you are looking to release from your partner. Incorporate these aphrodisiacs into snacks, deserts and meals.

 

(4)   Pamper her with a seductive massage

 

No woman in her right mind is going to turn down a massage. As such, you offer your woman a massage; just incorporate some seemingly innocent and subtle actions into the massage that can get her attention and/or raise her desire to have sex. Whether you let your hands ‘do the walking’ on her body or you gently put the print of your lips on her neck as you rub the tension out of her shoulders, adding a seductive element to a massage is a sure bet to get her love juices flowing.

 

The above 4 ways to turn a girl on can be done inside and/or outside of the bedroom, with clothes or without clothes. But if you take the time to practice on her properly, for sure, it will be very hard for you to stay fully clothed because she will not allow you to and more than that she may start grabbing the lower part of your body. If you want to find out more ways to arouse a girl, you can click on Hot Sex and Best Lover

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