How To Have Sex Often

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Not having enough sex? Ever wonder why your girl seems to be less enthusiastic in sex lately? Want to look for ways to get her in the mood? How to rekindle her interest so that you can have sex as often as you want? Here are a few ways you can do to get her back into the sexy mode.


(1)   Constant foreplay


Foreplay is more than just kissing and touching  her all over. What women want first is to feel loved in order to feel sexy. What a guy should do is always to be a loving partner to his woman all the time, not just in bed or not just for the purpose of sex. What I mean is to be good to her without any pre-conditions attached. If your caring to her comes with conditions, what you do to her will come across as a sort of demand or pressure to her. This can kill her mood.


In daily life, always be supportive to her. For a woman, foreplay begins the moment you wake up. This means everything you do to her between sunrise and before going to bed will increase or decrease the odds of getting laid that night. Show her you care. Volunteer in some household tasks such as cleaning up after dinner. If she is busy in the kitchen and the baby is crying, go and pick up the baby, instead of just sitting there reading your newspaper or watching TV. The more supportive you are, the more sex you will get without you asking for it.


(2)   Wake up her senses


For a guy, it is easy to get aroused with just visual stimulation such as seeing a naked woman. But for a woman, in order to get her fully aroused, you have to stimulate all her senses – touch, sight, smell, sound and taste.


Touch – When you are kissing her, you can start to touch her more sexually. Move your hands from her shoulders, massaging and touching her and move towards her breasts. Maybe you have a hand on her thigh and you can start massaging her thigh as you slowly move to the inner part of her thigh. Massaging her is a great way to turn her on with your touch.You can do it as you kiss or not. Take your time and enjoy touching her body as you slightly move closer and closer to her intimate regions.


Some of the areas that are great to touch are those places that are less exposed. The inner part of her arm or the inner part of her leg is really good examples of places that if we touch lightly, that would just send a bolt of electricity up the girl’s body.


Her neck is a really powerful place.  Kissing is a form of touch too. Kissing up the side of her neck would really turn her on. The back of a girl’s head is an erogenous zone. If you can run your hands through her hair and gently squeeze your hands together to create a pull on her hair, this is a huge turn on for women.


Gently kiss her ears or gently nibble on her ears. For a lot of women that is a huge sexual turn on. It allows us to really be able to breathe nice and deeply into her ear which creates a powerful trigger for her to come back to. The other area is to gently stroke her forehead and even along her eyebrows.


SmellDid you ever notice that certain smells can trigger certain reactions and feelings in her everyday life? What you can do is to make the bedroom and yourself smell good. Entice her sense of smell by smelling nice, which is paying attention to your personal hygiene. After you have your workout, make sure you have a shower before you are heading to bed.  


Taste – You can definitely make oral sex tasty and arousing by having her lick chocolate-flavored cream (or any other flavors she likes) off your penis. Or, you can have her get the sense of how giving a blow job is like, by dipping your thumb in some cream (that has the flavor she likes) and have her suck and lick the cream off your thumb.


Sight – Place a mirror in such a way so that she can see you touching and licking her down there. If you can add some sound or noise as if you are enjoying a delicious meal, you will simultaneously stimulate her sense of sight and hearing. Another way is to make constant eye contact with her throughout the process when you are pleasuring her. Look her in the eyes as you kiss and take time to look at her body, as well.


Sound – You can talk dirty to her. Girls have an active imagination too. If you can stimulate her mind into thinking dirty and naughty, she will definitely get wilder in bed.  Or, you can whisper sweet words in her ear. Tell her that she is beautiful, that you really love something about her or a part of her body. Use soft and gentle words to make her feel fantastic. During the entire lovemaking session, you turn her on by making some groaning noises to show her you are enjoying her body. Or, you can also play some of her favorite music that has some sexual meaning to her while you are making love to her.


(3)   Help her to reach orgasm


The easiest way to help her to reach orgasm is by means of clitoral stimulation. You can do this orally by starting with kissing and caressing her thighs and pubic region, and then work your way to her clitoris.  Slow tongue strokes will gradually get her going, and then you can work up to fast ‘flicks’ of the tongue and increased pressure.  You can also finger her g-spot while you suck and lick her clitoris once she becomes highly aroused to give her an orgasm.


To find and stimulate the g-spot, have her lay flat on her back and insert your longest finger inside her vagina.  With your palm facing upwards, go all the way in to her vagina and reach just below her pelvis bone.  When she begins to feel the urge to urinate, you have found her g-spot!  Don’t worry; the urge will go away for her.  Once you have located the g-spot, begin to rub it slowly and then speed up your pace.  She may find it helpful to tilt her pelvis, as this makes it much easier to reach this hidden treasure.  A g-spot orgasm is more intense than any other type of orgasm, so be prepared for her to make a lot of noise when it happens!


You can also stimulate her clitoris using your fingers by slowly rubbing her clitoris with a light touch.  When she begins reacting with moans, which is your clue to speed up the pace. Gradually begin increasing the pressure and the speed until she reaches orgasm.  You can also lick or suck her breasts during the stimulation, as most women find this very pleasurable when they are highly aroused.


You can also get the help of sex toys to stimulate her clitoris. Vibrators are a very effective way of giving her a quick and intense orgasm, and are used directly on the clitoris.  Dildos resemble the size and shaped of a penis, and can work to vaginally stimulate her.  There are combination toys that are both dildos and vibrators, and are an amazing way of getting her off when you are too tired to do it yourself.


Now that you know what women want from a man, try to make sure your girl has a great time when she is in bed with you. Remember to focus on her mind and her senses first, and you can be sure your night time will be busier from now on. To learn more tips and tactics for improving your sex life, check out How To Get The Sex Life You Want.


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Female Orgasm – How To Make It Last Long

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Do you want to give a girl a night of never-ending pleasure? Do you want her to come again and again? So that, in future, she will be the one initiating sex and not the other way round! Do you like to be the man who can do this to your girl or to any girl? Read below.


(1)   Stimulate her mentally and physically


If you want to rock her world and give her a night she’ll never forget, you have to put her at ease and create the right atmosphere. Women orgasm more easily when they relax and feel loved from their men. At all times, treat her lovely, give her lots of emotional support, occasionally give her pleasant surprises and give sincere compliments.


Make sure you have plenty of time to give her attention and find out what she likes. Is there a certain way you kiss her body? Does a particular way you touch her bring shivers down her spine? Is it the way you grab her butt? Ask her what she likes and more importantly, what can you do when performing oral sex that drives her wild.


One of the ways you can stimulate her mind and help her achieve multiple orgasms is to talk dirty to her to the point that she will get wet and her clitoris stimulated without any touching involved.


As for her body, give her lots of kisses to heighten her arousal. Women need kissing, touching and exploration before they are ready for sex. Know what your girl likes physically and always aim to please her erogenous zones, which can be her earlobes, her stomach, her inner thighs, or her breasts or her neck. If your touch elicits a favorable response, increase the pressure and the tempo of your fingers and tongue. You will be able to gauge her excitement level from her breathing, moaning and facial expressions. If she loves it, do more of it.


(2)   Give her a hot massage


You can combine your kissing with a hot massage which you can give lengthen her pleasure through reaching more body areas.  Massages can work like magic for getting a woman to have more orgasms. Start off by gently massaging her shoulders and hands. Try using some massage oil. Use the oil sparingly, and all over her body (except her private areas). Massage her feet calves, thighs, back and arms. As you are nearing the end of your massage, pay special attention to her thighs. Hot massages will turn on a woman every time.


(3)   Give her some oral teasing


Do not jump onto her clitoris right away without first warming her up elsewhere.  Use your tongue to lick her belly, inner thighs, behind her knees, her feet, her buttocks and the area surrounding her genitals. You can kiss her outer vaginal lips, but stop short of moving to her clitoris. She knows that she will eventually get the tongue, but never give it to her when she is expecting it.


Making her wait will increase her desire, but making her beg will ruin the mood. Stop the oral teasing and give her what she wants at the right time. Observe the movement of her body. You will know the time is right when she tries to position herself so that your mouth can find her. Go for it when she begins to press her inner thighs into you.


(4)   Help her to achieve her first orgasm


When you sense that she is ready, move to her clitoris – the place that brings most women to orgasm. Use your tongue softly to make slow, wide and sensual strokes from the vaginal opening to the clitoris.


Some guys make the mistake of increasing the stroking speed once they sense the woman is close to orgasm. However this is not the right way. What you should do is to keep the same rhythm or even decrease the stroking speed of your tongue. At this point, she will have a powerful orgasm and probably more than once.


(5)   Give her another orgasm


After a woman gets her first orgasm by clitoral stimulation, her vaginal area becomes sensitive to touch. You will want to continue manually or orally stimulating her in order to give her multiple orgasms, but do so with a far lighter touch than before. When she indicates that she is ready for more, you can start to stimulate her g-spot.


Now, begin flexing your finger as if you are beckoning to her. Use firm, consistent strokes. Gradually build up the pressure of your finger along the woman’s G-spot. This is an important key to giving your woman multiple orgasms.


At this stage, you can try different sex positions to get her orgasm again. Some positions are better than others are for a woman to obtain an orgasm. Doggie style is one of the best because a man can easily located the G-spot thrusting deeper in the vaginal area; plus you can stimulate the clitoris with your finger, which heightens sexual sensation.


If you follow the above steps, you will guide your woman to very strong orgasms. Are you keen for more sexy ideas? To learn more about pleasure and orgasm, you can check out from Good In Bed about the additional help to for her to have better and multiple orgasms.


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Sex Tips –How To Get What You Want

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One of the most common problems in a relationship is that men wish very much that their women would initiate sex more often, or at least they would be more responsive to their sexual overtures. The reality is that women want sex just as much, if not more than men. Women are sexual, sensual beasts waiting to be released by a man in just the right way and right condition.


When it comes to sex, men are easily stimulated visually and mostly genitally-focused, whereas for women, sex is more of a way in connecting her mind and body with her lover. Therefore in order to get your girl to like or enjoy making love with you, you have to work on making sex an exciting as well as rewarding experience for her. Here are some of the ways to do it.


(1)   Start from her mind


Though every woman is different, but all the desires and feelings start from the brain, which is the main sex organ. You have to work on her mind to get her hot first in order to make her wet down there. Make sure your girl is in the mood to make love. If she does not seem excited about the notion at the moment then her heart and emotions are not into it for one reason or the other.


If she is in a foul mood, ask what is on her mind, and give her time to vent. Showing sympathy will make her feel that you are on her side, which revs up her romantic feelings and increases her desire. Give her a tender kiss, so she feels cared for. Then take one finger and trace her waistline. Make eye contact and slip your finger further down, continuing to kiss as you go.  This sends a sexual signal and transforms your kisses from sweet to lusty.


If she is stressful, distract her from the stress by offering her chocolate (a sexual stimulant for her) and raspberries and strawberries or anything that she finds delicious. Once you sense her mood lightening, put your hand on her shoulder and stroke her upper arm in a soothing gesture. After a few seconds, pull her close and give her one more distraction: a sultry kiss that will lead to more.


If she is tired, prop her feet up on your lap and massage her.  This will warm her up to your touch. After a few minutes, slowly knead your way up her legs – first her calf, then her thigh, etc. If all goes well, by the time you reach her upper thigh (a super erotic spot on a woman), she will want more.


You can make the massage more interesting by spicing it up according to the prevailing weather condition. In hot weather, roll a cloth consisting of ice-cubes along the backs of her thighs. In cool weather, warm a towel in the microwave for 10 seconds and massage her with it. Turn winter gloves inside out, put them on, and massage her with the soft side.


If she is angry and you want action, you are better off just apologizing. If she senses your sincerity, she will probably feel bad for being so worked up. Coyly ask, “How can I make it up to you?” That should lighten the mood and pave the way for you to give her a hug and squeeze her tightly to you. While still holding her, gently lead her to the nearest couch or bed, lays her down on it, and starts kissing up her arm, working your way to her lips.


(2)   Seduce her


To increase her sexual responsiveness, tell her between kisses and as you touch her body that you find her beautiful and sexy, that she turns you on, and that you want to enjoy every part of her body before making love to her.


Pay her some specific compliments — tell her you love her warm smile, or her soft skin, or the shape, size and feel of her breasts, or her silky hair, or her melodic voice. And don’t wait for sexual moments to trot out such verbal reinforcements. The more often you can convince her that you find her desirable and attractive, the more often she will desire sex. Some women can be tough to work around – particularly those who are suffering from low self-esteem – but it will be well-worth the effort. If you comment on your partner’s amazing body and she shuts you down by pointing out the extra weight she’s gained, don’t stop trying. Many men give up too easily out of sheer frustration, but sometimes your partner just needs to be validated. To shake it up a bit, try giving her a few compliments that you haven’t uttered before.


In public settings whisper into her ear naughty situations or things you want to do with her will get her engines going. Tell her something like, “I’ve been imagining myself undressing you all day.” Or better yet, drive her crazy by saying something like: “Tonight, I’m going to make you have as many orgasms as possible.” Send her 3-4 texts throughout the day telling her what you are going to do to her in the evening. She is bound to be turned on in anticipation with all the things you want to do with her body.


Buy her an outfit that will make her feel sexy and help you appreciate her more than you already do. Sneak into her lingerie drawer and check out the sizes of a few of her “garments.” That way, you can ensure that she will look good in it when you rip it off her body (after she’s done doing her little dance for you). Give it to her when you (seemingly) don’t expect sex right then and there. Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies’ room and change into it. “It’s a little naughty, but she has a chance to play back. Not only will she appreciate the fact that you took the time to get her a gift, she will be thrilled that you want to sex her up.


(3)   Focus on pleasuring her


Once you have your girlfriend or wife in the bedroom, proceed slowly and show more emotion in your lovemaking than usual. Try to make her the center of attention and cater to her needs. Please her first and this will drive her wild and make her want to please you at all costs. Use your finger to gently massage the clitoris in a circular manor, watch how her body reacts to certain movements so you can tell what she likes and dislikes.

Many women who are insecure about their bodies stick to the missionary position because you can’t see their bodies that way. To make her feel comfortable, for a change, you can blindfold yourself, she will do a lot more with you, to you, and for you.


Get a liberator wedge or one to two pillows under her pelvis to tilt her lower body at an angle to allow maximum contact between your body and her clitoris. When you are on top, you can place her legs over your shoulders. This shortens her vaginal canal, so your penis feels bigger inside her. When you enter her from behind, you can have her kneel on the edge of the bed with her upper chest touching the mattress. This elongates the vaginal barrel, making it feel tighter. You get a fantastic view, and she will enjoy the nipple stimulation from rubbing the mattress.


After you finish, you are still not done. Show her affection after your lovemaking is over. If she likes to cuddle or talk after sex, fulfill her needs. If you do so, she will look forward to the next time, and you soon may find that she will be the one initiating the lovemaking.


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