8 Reasons Why Sex Toys Are A Healthy Option

 

 

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Sex toys are something that more and more women and couples are using, and while no one can deny that they’re fun, did you know that they could also be good for your health?

 

Here, we take a look at eight reasons why sex toys are a healthy option.

 

There’s no risk of STIs

 

When you’re using a sex toy on you own, there’s no chance of catching any sexually transmitted infections. In this respect, it’s the safest sexually activity that you can ever engage in. Of course, if you plan to use items such as vibrators with a partner, you should always take suitable precautions to protect yourself from infections.

 

There’s no risk of unwanted pregnancy

 

If you aren’t wishing to start a family any time soon but still want to experiment sexually, a sex toy is the most effective solution that you could possible find. You can have as much fun as you like, without having to worry about any unplanned pregnancies.

 

There are plenty of cleaning accessories available

 

It’s wise to clean your sex toys after each use for obvious reasons, but with the amount of products available on the market, this is a quick and easy process. Invest in some of the handy wipes that are available, or just use hot soapy water.

 

They allow you to explore your own boundaries

 

It takes a lot of confidence to express exactly what you want in a relationship, but when you’re using sex toys, you can explore your own boundaries without any pressure or fear.

 

More orgasms = a happier you

 

If you aren’t in a relationship at the moment, it doesn’t mean that you have to go without orgasms. In fact, using sex toys can improve your mood and lead to an overall improvement in your wellbeing.

 

You can use them as often as you like

 

There are no limits to how often you can use your sex toys, and they’re suitable for use at any age throughout adulthood. If you have a high sex drive, this can be a great way to ensure that you’re satisfied.

 

They can boost your confidence

 

Getting to know your own body and what you enjoy in the bedroom by using sex toys can vastly improve your confidence when it comes to finding a sexual partner. After all, if you don’t know your own body, how can you expect someone else to? Sex toy users are likely to be much more confident when it comes to relations with other people.

 

They can add spark to your relationship

 

If your relationship is starting to lack spark, why not introduce sex toys? Many couples use them to add variety, and there are different options that will suit all tastes and levels of experimentation.

 

 

As you can see, there are many benefits of using sex toys. If you haven’t already given them a go, it’s well worth considering it. What have you got to lose? With many retailers offering a discrete online service that delivers directly to your day, there has never been an easier way to buy.

 

 

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How To Get And Use Sex Toys For Beginners

 

 

 

If you have never used sex toys you may find them intimidating. This is especially so for people with little or no sexual experience. You can use sex toys to explore your body before choosing to become sexually active. What are the good sex toy choices for beginners or people who have little or no sexual experience?

 

Penis sleevePenis sleeve

Penis sleeve

This is a male sex toy. It is a tube made of cyber skin or other soft material that slides over the penis shaft and is supposed to mimic the feeling of a vagina or mouth. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, a penis sleeve is a good choice. Rub a little water-based lubricant on the shaft before you slip your penis through the sleeve and glide it up and down manually. You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have. Some have textured lining for extra stimulation.

 

Penis ring

Penis ring

 

 

The ring works by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis to help the user achieves a firmer or harder and longer lasting erection. For beginners, it is advisable to use adjustable and simple rings. Some rings come with buckles and snaps. If you are using them, just be careful not to let your pubic hair get caught in the snaps.

 

If you are using an adjustable ring, open it up all the way, slip it over the penis and behind the scrotum and then tighten it. Once you have gotten the ring on, you can masturbate all the way to orgasm and ejaculation. If you feel any discomfort, remove the ring. Whichever type of penis ring you choose to use, do not leave it on for more than 20 minutes. Once you are comfortable with using the penis ring on your own, you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of the sex play.

 

Clitoral vibrator

Clitoral vibrator

 

This is the best option for a girl if she does not want to have any insertion at all or does not want to stretch her vagina too much. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation. This is because the clitoris which is packed with numerous sensitive nerve endings is responsible for most female orgasms. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrator than other kinds of sex toys because it can provide some of the best orgasms.

 

Small vibrator

Small vibrator

 

This is a good choice for women who are using a vibrator for the first time to insert into themselves. This kind of vibrator is even thinner than a tampon so that it does not hurt when a woman push it into herself. A good thing about small vibrator is that it can fit in the purse so that she can take it with her wherever she goes.

 

Bullet vibrator attaches to penis ring

A more versatile type of small vibrator is the bullet style vibrator which can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina. Some bullet style vibrators can be attached on penis rings and used for couple’s pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anal plug

Anal plug

 

This is a good choice if you are new to anal sex. Whether you are enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, this toy can give you just enough stimulation without being painful. Make sure you apply water-based lubricant on this toy before inserting it into the anus.

 

 

Special toy cleaner

Toy maintenance

 

To keep your toys in proper condition, it is better to clean them with a mild soap or special sex toy cleaner before and after use. Avoid using strong detergents because they can breakdown the toy material. For battery-operated toys, take out the batteries after using them. Rinse water-proof toys with hot water. For those that are electrical or not water-proof, clean them with a soapy wet cloth. Dry them thoroughly after cleaning. Most germs cannot live on a dry surface.

 

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Problem-Solving Sex Positions For Couples

 

 

 

 

Want to have a baby? How to build confidence in bed for her? How to increase pleasure for her? How to last long? What to do if she complains of pain during intercourse? Is it due to your big size penis? If it is so, how do you overcome this? Or, if you feel you are small down there, how to make it feel big for you and her? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Sex Positions To Get Pregnant

 

(a)    The man-on-top position works well in getting her pregnant. During intercourse, deep penetration will help to minimize the amount of ejaculate leaking out. After withdrawing the penis, press her vaginal lips together to prevent further leakage. She should remain lying on her back for an additional 20 to 30 minutes preferably with her lower back supported by a small pillow so her pelvis is tilted slightly upwards. This will allow the sperms enough time to easily swim up through the cervix.

 

(b)   Lying side-by-side is a more relaxed position and is easier for a partner who is overweight or has a back problem. You can do this either face-to-face or in the spoon position with you entering her from behind.

 

(c)    Doggie position (entering her from behind) will allow you to enter with deeper thrusts and deposit the sperms close to the cervix.

 

(d)   On edge position is when she positions herself at the edge of the bed or couch and you enter her from either a standing or kneeling position.

 

(2)   Sex Position To Build Confidence For Her

 

If she is lacking confidence in bed, the best way to overcome this is to let her take control. This will mean allowing her to be on top of you. This can be done by kneeling, squatting, facing you or her back facing you.

 

(3)   Sex Positions To Increase Pleasure For Her

 

(a)    She will be squatting on top of you with her hands on your body for support. Instead of her rocking backward and forward, she will slide herself up and down with the penis inside her. This position lets her vary the pace and depth of thrusts which helps put her in control of her orgasm. Squatting will help her to feel the entire length of your shaft as she encircles it, and the muscle tension created by holding herself above you can add to the intensity of her pleasure. The friction from this up-and-down movement will give her amazing sensations all along the edge of her vaginal opening when she pumps shallow and on her g-spot when she pumps deep. If she chooses to lean backward and rest her hands on your thigh and knees the sensation will even spread to her clitoris.

 

(b)   In this lying on the side face-to-face position, she will raise her leg and allow you to slide inside her, and then drape her leg over yours. Try to arrange it in such a way that her feet are braced against a wall or footboard. In this way, she can use the strength in her legs to give her the action she wants. This side-by-side position allows her to have a firm, full-body contraction in order to reach the next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. She can choose the type and level of stimulation she wants by resting her thigh on you or lifting her thigh. She will enjoy greater stimulation on the inner walls of her entire vagina by resting her thigh on you. If she lifts her leg and opens up, she allows you a bigger range of motion, which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation while on her way to orgasm.

 

(c)    She will lie down on the table with buttocks near the edge. You will enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can either rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of table. This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris easily. To increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, get her to lift up her buttocks or slip a pillow or a love cushion which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to her genitals.

 

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(4)   Sex Positions To Last Longer

 

(a)    Penetration in standing position can help you to last longer. This is because by standing up you are drawing blood away from the genitals and into your legs which makes lasting longer easier.

 

(b)   If you let her get on top of you, you can last longer. This is because when she is on top, you can fully relax all your muscles, which can help to delay your orgasm. Put your hands on her hips to guide her in how she moves to prevent her from giving you too much sexual excitement.

 

(c)    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders. In this position, you will be on your knees and after you enter her, you spread your knees as wide apart as possible until you can feel the groin muscles stretching. This will put pressure on your groins which will cause energy and blood to flow there and away from your genitals, making lasting longer much easier.

 

(5)   Sex Positions To Avoid Painful Intercourse For Her

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position allows a woman to control the depth of penetration if deep penetration hurts. This position allows you to add more pleasure to intercourse by caressing her breasts or clitoris

 

(b)   Another good position for her to avoid painful intercourse is for both of you to lie on your sides, either with you behind her (spooning), or face-to-face

 

(6)   Sex Positions For Small Penis

 

(a)    She will sit on top of you, grinding herself forward and backward instead of up-and-down, to prevent your penis from slipping out.

 

(b)   Missionary with her ankles crossing behind your neck. This position will tighten her vaginal canal which is a great way to squeeze you and making you feel big inside her

 

(c)     She will lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Her buttocks will be raised a little allowing you to enter her from behind. You can prop yourself up with your arms for more range of motion.

 

(7)   Sex Positions For Big Penis

 

(a)    When she is on top of you, she will move her hips in circular motions as she glides up and down, only going as deep as she can handle. Or, you can sit on a chair without arms and just let her straddle on your laps either facing you or away from you, using your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

 

(b)   She will lie on her back, lifting her legs so that they are pointing at the ceiling. You will kneel in front of her with your back straight, wrapping your arms around her thighs as you enter her. This is a shallow penetration position giving a lot of chance for the tip of the penis to rub against the area around the vaginal opening. This means your most sensitive part (penis tip) will be in contact with her highly sensitive area near the vaginal entrance which has a lot of nerve endings there.

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The Art Of Touching – How To Make A Woman Orgasm

 

 

 

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Where are the female hot spots to touch on if you want to turn a girl on? One of women’s biggest complaints is that men often go straight for the breasts or other private parts and spend little or no time exploring other parts of their bodies. What most guys do not realize is that there are more erogenous spots they can explore to get women aroused. If you want to get her in the mood, you have to stimulate some of her often-neglected body parts. Read on to discover her other sensuous body parts.

 

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(1)    Scalp

 

The scalp is covered with nerve endings that make it super-sensitive to touch. A good scalp rub can both release tension and increase blood flow. This will definitely flood her body with the feel-good hormones dopamine and serotonin.

 

(2)    Ears

 

Touch or massage the rim of her ear between your thumb and forefinger with your fingers. As she responds, graze the ridge of her outer ear with the tip of your nose. She can feel your breath and hear your whisper as you describe to her in great details everything you are about to do to her. The sense of anticipation may be as exciting to her as the act itself.

 

(3)    Lips

 

Lips remain one of the most erotic areas of a woman’s body. It is no secret that women equate a good kisser with an especially good lover. Kissing is your entrance exam for the rest of her body. To rev things up, you can vary the strength and intensity of your kiss. You softly lick her upper lip or tug it gently between your lips.

 

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(4)    Neck

 

The neck is very sensitive to touch and kiss because the skin is thin in this area and the nerves and blood vessels are closer to the surface. The back of her neck is also another part you should not miss. You can build up the pleasure by gently touching and kissing her from her hair line down to her shoulders. It will make her reach dizzying heights and pleasure.

 

(5)    Area between collarbone and top of cleavage

 

This region is more sensitive than the bottom of the cleavage. Stimulate this area using the pads of your fingers.

 

(6)    Areola

 

This area responds to very light touch. For women with smaller nipples, this area is far denser in nerve endings than the nipples themselves. Simply run your lips or fingers across the areola can cause it to tense up pleasurably. To prompt the greatest sensation, wait until the aerola tenses up and then gently stretch it between your fingers.

 

(7)    Side breast

 

This is an often overlooked but extremely sensitive area. While women with bigger boobs can find that their nipples are less responsive, the sides of their breasts are highly sensitive to any stimulation. Stroke along the length of the side breast with your fingers and then move into a circular pressure, as this will increase the flow of oxytocin to heighten the intensity of her orgasm.

 

(8)    Back

 

Knead the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine and follow with light fingertip strokes. As you get lower and lower down the back, the nerves become more sensitive. This is an area where a guy places his protective hand on, which most women love it because it shows that he feels very strongly about her. By kissing or licking down the spine to end up with a kiss on her lower back will definitely get her into the mood for more.

 

(9)    Belly

 

Stroking or even massaging the belly can be an erotic experience for some women. The thought of you moving farther south can be downright exciting, likely causing her vaginal muscles to contract from the anticipation, boosting her arousal and possibly leading to orgasm without direct genital contact.

 

(10)  Hands

 

Her palm, fingers and the inner folding between the upper and lower arm are very sensitive to stimulation. You can arouse a woman by running your fingers along her fingers, palm as that will make her feel relaxed and ready for a sexy rendezvous ahead. Some women find the inner folding of the hand especially exciting and pleasurable when showered with gentle touch or kisses, because the skin is thin in this area.

 

 (11)   Buttocks

 

I love curvy buttocks! Lots of women like it when you lightly spank and squeeze their buttocks. Some even like their buttocks to be licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). If you shower her behind with unsolicited attention, you will be rewarded with many favors from her.

 

  (12)  Legs

 

Her toes, ankles, the sides of her feet, back of her knees and inner thighs are the sensitive spots on her legs. There is nothing more seductive than a foot massage. Pay extra attention to the pleasure points such as her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet. Some women love having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so ask her if she likes it before putting them in your mouth.

Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, some women find it very pleasuring when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.

 

Touching a woman’s inner thighs without touching her private parts is the most sensual tease that is sure to get her all charged up. Stroke her thighs in the direction of her vagina, but pull away before you reach it. Breathe on her or brush your fingers very close will awaken the skin. This will transmit a different kind of sensation than if you are actually making contact.

 

If you have been spending a few minutes each on every of her sensuous body parts as listed above, by now, she should be begging for you to do more to bring her over the edge of orgasm. If you are keen for more ideas to arouse her further to orgasm, read on from Make a Woman Orgasm and Her Best Lover.

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Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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