How To Attract Women – 2 Things Every Guy Must Have



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I want to share with you two things that any guy can do to help him be more sexually attractive to any woman. If you have these two things, you will get more dates (if you are single), your relationship will improve because you know how to trigger your wife’s sexual attraction to you.


First, let me ask you a question – What are the things that women feel sexy about men?


Handsome guys? Rich guys? Talented guys? Bad guys? Guys with great sense of humor? Guys who resemble popular Korean actors like Lee Min Ho?


Indeed women do find some of these characteristics very sexy. But there is something that all women find it very sexy. Something that can automatically push every woman’s hot-button. In fact, there are two essential characteristics that every guy should possess before he can attract any woman. This means if any man can exhibit these qualities, he will be sexually attractive to a woman irrespective of whether he looks like Brad Pitt or Danny DeVito.


Women are more driven by emotion whereas men are more interested on facts and results. When comes to sexual relationships, men’s need for facts and results are translated into what is her phone number and when can he get into her pants. For a woman, being more emotionally driven, she will only move on with a guy when she feels right.


Emotions and feelings are what that motivates every woman and your ability to make her feel positively about you (your “emotional power” over her), is the key to her feelings of sexual attraction.


Passion is the driving force behind emotional power. For a woman, passion is the best indicator of a man’s ability to feel strongly about certain things. The stronger the man’s ability to display passion, the more contagious this will be having on a woman, which is what that drives her crazy.


Passion is therefore the first of the two key qualities that every woman find sexually attractive from a man. For a man, you need to have passion in things and to be proud and enthusiastic in showing this feeling, to get a woman turn on. In the process, the guy must be able to let a woman “enter into his world”, which is to let her share in his passion. The problem is there are many guys who are too timid to express their passions on the things they like. To a woman, this can be interpreted as he is likely to be shy about showing his passion in bed. He is also less likely to impress her in bed.


Let’s say if you have the passion for numbers and you are a shy mathematician, what does it take for you to impress a girl about your particular passion? First of all you need to have some guts if you are used to hiding your own passion.


What does it take for you to be yourself and to be so comfortable with what you are doing that you are not at all concerned with what other people think?


You need lots of confidence and that is the second quality that all women find sexy. A woman can never completely let go and trust a man if he does not show any confidence. It helps a great deal that you know what you are doing. Most important, you must have the attitude and the strong belief that you know your stuff.


Most women will feel highly sexually attracted to such a guy. You will often hear her saying, “There is something about him.” To really rock a woman’s world in the bedroom, you must have confidence about your own sexual ability and identity. This combination of sexual confidence and passion during the lovemaking process is the greatest turn on for most women. It will allow her to let go of herself to be more opened and receptive to experience the pleasure that she probably has never ever dreamt of.


Since the ability for a man to express his passion comes down to having lots of confidence, it will be fair to say that of the two important qualities, confidence is the more essential one for a man to be sexually attractive to women.


So, how can you become the sexually confident guy that women fantasize about?


The good news is sexual confidence can be learned by acquiring the necessary skills, techniques (a combination of teasing and anticipation) and “competence” in the bedroom that breeds confidence. Sexual confidence has nothing to do with body image or whether or not you are rich, young and handsome, because it is more to do with attitude – the thinking that you have the right and the ability to arouse your partner. Sexual confidence comes from inside – the ability to understand and determine what is right for you. This also requires you to be attentive and able to read a woman’s actions correctly.


For a guy who wants to be sexually confident, first you must know how to get in touch with your inner animal. You must learn how to let go of yourself and avoid being overly logical, analytical and guarded. When you can do this, you will be able to let your inner animal out and adopt a relaxed attitude towards women and sex. You will not need to be too anxious in trying to impress and please women.


So, do you want to be the rare man who can display the kind of massive confidence that has his woman crawling all over him all the time?  Do you want to be the special guy that can get women to have strong feeling for you and arouse the sexual emotions inside her? To find out more, you can click on Hot Sex and Best Lover.

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How To Make Love To A Woman – Where To Locate Her Sexually Sensitive Points

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This article lists out the 15 pleasure point areas on a woman’s body that can sexually arouse her when stimulated. Not necessary all these pleasure points will apply to every woman. This needs a little bit more effort and communication with her to get “the areas” right so that you won’t turn her off instead. What is most important is – if you want to turn a woman on and make her orgasm eventually, men have to pay attention to their women and to be connected to them as a total person and not just mechanically focusing on certain parts of her.


Most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. We all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore during lovemaking. Do you know she has pleasure sensors all over her body beyond the usual areas (vagina, breasts and butt)? Getting her into the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected pleasure points. Incorporating the act of touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely “add sparks” to your relationship.


Let’s start exploring her from top to bottom:


(1)   Hair

Women take a lot of pride in their hair. They like men to use their hands to stroke their hair. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the back of her neck.


(2)   Lips

If you know how to manipulate her lips just through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.


(3)   Ears

Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the ear lobes of your woman will make her feel special.


(4)   Back of her neck

Once you can get to this area, place a few light kisses there. There is also a good place to start giving her some sensual massage that she can find it hard to resist.


(5)   Collar bone

When you begin to undress your woman, you should take the time to kiss and lick her collar bone. The reason for this is because it sends the feel good hormones to her brain.




(6)   Wrists

This may comes as a surprise to most guys but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers.


(7)   Palms of her hands

Tracing your finger along her palm will give her some delightful shivers. This is a good way to start stimulating her and gradually bring her into the mood when out on the street.


(8)   Breasts

The breasts are very sexually sensitive such that gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Depending on how sensitive the woman is, after stroking the nipples for a while, you can see them get hardened and erected just like penis.


(9)   Pelvis

Kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she begs for more.


(10) Buttocks

Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of their buttocks. But some women like having their butts lick and suck.


(11) Behind her knees

Most men don’t know that this area is quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirts while both of you are in a public place will make her ready for action once you reach home.


(12) Inner thighs

If you want to tease your girl before having sex, just focus on kissing and rubbing her inner thighs will turn her on.


(13) Feet

Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can be quite ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be quite pleasant for her.


(14) Vagina/Clitoris

The clitoris (which is a small protrusion just above the opening of the vagina) can be stimulated by using the tongue or finger. When a woman is aroused, blood will flow to the clitoris, making the protrusion more pronounced. In the vagina, there is the so-called G-spot that can produce intense sexual feelings when stimulated. It is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside (near to the underside of her stomach).


These are the pleasure points on a woman’s body that can turn her on. Not every woman is the same. Some women have some preference areas that they like to be stimulated while others have some no-go areas. As you explore, you will learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.


The critical thing to remember is when it comes to sex, every woman is different. You can do everything right. You can make all the right moves with your fingers, lips and tongue and still not able to drive her crazy.


There are 2 things you should take note:


(1)   Pay attention

When you try to find out about her pleasure points that are applicable to her, you shouldn’t just do it mechanically. You need to listen to changes in her breathing, the way her skin softens and her muscles tighten, the way her blood flushes beneath her skin in her face and breasts, the way she moans.


(2)   Stay connected

She needs to feel connected in order to feel relaxed with you. Look up at her and make eye contact once in a while. Stop and tell her how much you are enjoying it or how hot you think it is. Reach up and stroke the side of her face and hair. Take her hands and give them a gentle squeeze. You don’t have to do all these things and you don’t have to do them all the time. Just give her a few signs every few minutes and watch what happen immediately afterwards. First, her body will relax into what you are doing and then very quickly she will have a much more intense orgasm.


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