How To Be Better In Bed





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You know of this hot girl and both of you have chemistry for each other. What can you do to please her when the lights are off? You are happily married but sex life of late is getting monotonous. What can you do to spice up sex? Here are some tips to be better in bed.


(1)   Be a passionate lover


Real good sex is not just about the sexual techniques. It is also about making a woman feel connected to you. Women love to feel special. Go on and make her feel this way. Hold her hand a lot, put your arm around her waist and kiss her passionately on her cheeks, forehead as you hug her or when having sex. This shows affection that women love.


Look deep in her eyes when you are about to reach climax. Behave in the way that makes her feel you are more excited to get into bed with her. As much as women love sex, they do not want to have this thinking that they are hunger for sex. If you can condition her into thinking that you desire her more, she will be able to let go off her inhibitions knowing that she is not being viewed as “slutty”.


(2)   Good foreplay


Every good sexual encounter should start with great foreplay. Do not be hasty to stick it in and climax, like the way you usually do when you masturbate. She is a person. She is not a sex object. Let her get comfortable with you first.


To be effective, foreplay should start outside the bedroom. There are two aspects of foreplay – the emotional foreplay and the physical foreplay. When outside the bedroom, emotional foreplay is more important and this requires you to do everything or anything to make her feel good. This should be sincere so as not to make her feel you are doing this for the sole purpose of getting her to bed. To be good in emotional foreplay requires you to be romantic.


Romance is something that has to be built and maintained. It cannot happen overnight. You have to find out what is particular romantic for your woman. You can often find out what a woman likes through normal conversation. Pay attention to details. Simple things often matter a lot to women. Romance often means paying attention to the things that a woman really wants and making an effort to provide these things for her. Doing these things unsolicited and often will get more appreciation from her and open her heart in ways that you can never imagine possible. If you are doing the emotional foreplay well, more than half of the “battle” will have already been won by the time you step into the bedroom.


When in the bedroom, you can still continue with the emotional foreplay but physical foreplay should start to play a more important role. Turn her on by teasing her. Slide your hand to any part of her body and make her think you are going to touch her specifically somewhere, like her breasts. Then when you are just only a few inches away and she is anticipating it, you pull your hand away.


When you are kissing her, you slowly move to her shoulders and slide her clothes back so that you can kiss her shoulder blades. You adjust her bra strap a bit so that you can reach the skin beneath it. Kiss her on areas like her face, ears and behind, back of the neck, collar bone, nape, inside her elbows, wrists, underarm, hips, back of the knees, ankle and  anywhere that is specifically sensitive to her, will make her go crazy.


(3)   Be unpredictable and dominant


The moment when you feel that things are going in your favor, you proceed into action. When you are confident enough of what you are doing, your woman will find it hard to resist your further move. Be confident but do not forget to make her feel comfortable. Showing her you have the power will make her desire you more. For a change, you can even tie her up and/or blindfold her. Demand her to give you a blowjob or be on top and straddle you. She will most certainly give in if you build up the desire properly.


If you want to impress and satisfy her, do not be lazy, just sticking to the same usual positions. Go for variety. Do things differently. Be unpredictable. Vary your speed. Go passionately slow and then pick up the pace. Thrust quickly and then slow down immediately. Switch from gentle to rough; soft to hard; and passionate to plain horny. This will drive her wild and gets her love juice flowing.


Want some more tips to make her addicted to you? You can get them from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm if you need something extra to deliver superb performance, making her keep coming back for you.

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How To Be Good In Bed With A Man

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Turn A Man On And Get Him Crazy For You!

Want to turn a man on and drive him wild like never before? Do you want to have wild, passionate sex and make him love the things you do to him in bed?


You can be very gorgeous and attractive, but this alone is not enough to keep him interested for long. To turn a man on and make him want you, you need to do more than just pulling down your thongs.


If you want him to fall for you and keep thinking of you no matter where he is, you need to become more desirable to him. You have to look for ways to get him excited and aroused so that just his mere thought of you can make him get hard down there in no time.


Here is how to please a man in bed and make him desire you and want you more than ever.


(1)   Satisfy His Ego


Most guys like to brag about how good they are in bed. Compliment his bedroom skills if he makes the right moves and able to press the “hot spots” on your body. What better way to do this than to let out moaning noises or to tell him you are coming when you really are?


You can lick his nipples, nibble his ears and grab his buttocks as he rides and grinds on you. Pamper him with some naughty compliments and he will love you for it. At other times, avoid being too critical or negative to your man. If he feels sexy and confident when he is with you, he will be a lot more turned on around you.


(2)   Dress Well And Sexy


Men can easily get hard on by just staring at a half-naked woman. Flaunt your assets, wear something rather revealing in bed all the time and not just on the nights when you want to have sex.


Do get into the habit to make some periodic and regular changes in what you wear in bed. Or, once in a while and if weather conditions allow, you can simply wear nothing when you sleep with him. Guys are very visual. If he can’t keep his eyes off you, it will be equally hard on him to keep his hands off you. 


(3)   Be A Bad Girl When Alone With Him


Though guys want their women to behave gracefully in public, but when in private, they would love their partners to let go off their inhibitions. At times, take control, dominate him. Tie him to the bed, blindfold him, handcuff him, ride on him, and ask him to lick your clitoris.


All these can be done naturally by role-playing yourself into a real bad girl. You can also spice things up by teasing him with some naughty, fun games. The one who wins in each round of the game will get the right to demand sexual favor from the other.


(4)   Get To Know What Turns Him On


The easiest way to please a man in bed is to find out what your man likes. Sex is fun if you are willing to try new things and observe what really works for him. Brush up your bedroom skills by reading some books on sexuality and male anatomy to get some fresh ideas to keep sex exciting for you and your man.


You can take a look at Hot Sex to get more inspiration and ideas to spice things up in the bedroom.  For something kinky, you can go to Dirty Harry’s Secrets



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Female Orgasm – The Sex That Women Like

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Want To Know The Secrets Of Great Sex Life?

Do you want to have wild and passionate sex? Do you know what women want in bed? If you want to turn a girl on and arouse her like never before, you have got to make her love and enjoy the things you do to her. When it comes to sex, many men do not realize that it is more than just genital penetration and conquest. You need to keep her needs in mind and give equal importance to all aspects of lovemaking. If you are not getting what you want out of your sex life, here are the things you need to do to make her feel loved and sexy, that she can reach orgasm faster so that she will always come back for more from you.


(1)   Devote More Time For Her


This is something that most men do not give much thought on. Though guys know the importance of more foreplay, they just cannot help it. Maybe they are just too tired and want nothing more than to ejaculate in two minutes and go to sleep. This may be okay at times, but you need to keep in mind that sex should be satisfactory for both you and her.


By delaying penetration and prolonging the foreplay, she will feel wetter and enjoy sex a lot more. By spending more time to please her and letting her spend some time to please you, your ‘little guy’ will have more time to prepare for sex. This will reduce your chances of losing an erection halfway. By focusing on her pleasure and working your way to make her orgasm, you will also feel proud of being able to accomplish a good finish and keep her satisfied.


(2)   Seduce Her Mind


What is the best way to turn a woman on? Via her brain, of course and if you want her to enjoy sex better, you need to make her feel connected to you emotionally. This will make her enjoy the night a lot more.


Speak to her lovingly, kiss her all over her face and ears and whisper sweet things into her ears as you prepare to make love. You should spend about three full minutes kissing her lips slowly and passionately. This will freak her out and turn her on like crazy.


If you can learn to talk in a way that gets her mind venturing into a myriad of sexual fantasies, this will have her itching to want more from you. Use your knowledge to seduce her over the phone, before you head out the door, or even while you are sitting in the living room watching television together.


If you can stimulate her mind into thinking dirty and naughty, she will definitely get wilder in bed. By getting this right, she will definitely feel more connected to you and even fall more in love with you.


(3)   Make Sex Fun


In order to have fun sex, you have to be willing to try new things. Eating her out for long periods of time, trying analingus and letting her touch and lick you “back there” can be exciting and fun. How about bringing food into bed? You can use edible body paint to make eating in bed so much more tasty.


Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives can be fun too. You can spice up sex with games such as playing naughty true and dare and strip poker.


Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think. Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on. Spanking and nibbling and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.


Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom, beach, clothes-trying room in a department store, cinema or in a dark corner of a club.


(4)   Give Her Oral


Spread her legs and slowly make your way down to her clitoris. Put your face near it and let her see you inhaling her aroma. Next, stick out your tongue and make the tip hard. Lick her clitoris and vaginal lips slowly, as though you are savoring her taste and the way she feels in your mouth. Show your woman some enthusiasm when going down on her.


Let her know you really enjoy giving her pleasure this way by getting her to hear your sucking and licking sounds. Do not be afraid to let a moan of pleasure escape from your own lips as well. The better if you can slip your tongue inside her as this will likely send her into a complete frenzy.


When you have finished, do not turn away and fall asleep. Cuddle up after sex and talk to her for a while can bring both of you closer and make her feel appreciated and loved. Use these tips regularly and make your woman want you more.


If you need more tips and ideas for a better sex life, you can read on more from Make Her Orgasm and Uncle Ben’s Arsenal.


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