Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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Sex Positions That Please A Woman And Make Her Orgasm At Least Once

 

 

 

 

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Do you ever wonder why she is less interested in sex? Or, when you initiate sex, she says she has a headache. Perhaps it is time for you to make some changes in your bedroom routine and get creative by experimenting with some sex positions you never try before.

 

If you want to please a woman and make her orgasm whenever you are in bed with her, you will not achieve much unless you know the differences between the sex positions. These differences may have something to do with the way the position increases the chances of providing more or prolonged stimulation to the clitoris and g-spot as well as helping you to last longer. You may have one or two favorite sex positions. However, if you want to continue to have intimate moments with your girl, you have to learn more about other sex positions that you can try during lovemaking to keep things going hot.

 

(1)   Woman-on-top positions

 

This position puts a woman in total control of the movement and allows deep penetration

 

(a)    Instead of the usual kneeling, she can choose to squat. The usual forward to backward movement can be switched to upward and downward.

 

(b)   In the usual woman-on-top position, you bend your knees so that she can rest her back on your knees. This position allows her to adjust herself in a way that increases the chances of rubbing her g-spot. You can also take the chance to use your hand to stimulate the clitoris.

 

(c)    You sit on a rocking chair. She will either sit facing you or her back towards you on your lap as she positions herself to let you enter her.

 

(d)   While on top of you, she faces your feet. This is the perfect position to rub her g-spot. You can bend your knees to allow her to rest against your knees. Some women feel that they enjoy sexual fantasies more when they face away from their partners.

 

(e)    You sit on the floor with your legs straighten out. She will sit on your lap wrapping her legs around your waist as she adjusts her lower body to allow penetration. This position allows both of you to touch and hug each other. It is very intimate and the pelvic rocking gives a wonderful sensation to her.

 

(2)   Standing positions

 

(a)    She stands facing the wall and bending forward. You hold her by the hips and enter her from behind. She can either allow you to completely dominate her in this position, or she can use the wall to push back against you as you thrust. This is one of those positions that will open her up for deep penetration and will increase the chances of stimulating her g-spot.

 

(b)   In this more advanced standing sex position, she will slightly separate her legs and bend over to grab her knees. You will enter her from behind. Heights issues can be overcome either by you bending slightly at your knees or she stands on a stool or stair step.

 

(c)    This position will require you to stand at the edge of the bed. She will lay on her back with buttocks on the edge of the bed. She will rest her feet on your shoulders while you lift her buttocks to penetrate her. She can also rest her legs on your arms or wrap her legs around you as you thrust her.

 

(d)   This is a reverse of the position just mentioned. She will stand adjusting her body for penetration while you will sit at the edge of the bed.

 

(3)   Rear entry positions

 

(a)    She lies on her stomach with her hips slightly raised while you enter her from behind. She can put a pillow under her upper body to adjust the angle of penetration. As you enter her, you will push together and separate her buttock cheeks. Every time you do this, it will change the sensation just a bit, making the tension tighter and then loose.

 

(b)   She will squat in a position like a frog. This will mean her hands and feet are on the bed with her knees up. She should put the majority of her weight on her legs and hands as she leans slightly forward. You will then penetrate her from behind. She can bounce up and down a little on you to enjoy herself in this position.

 

By now, she should be moaning in pleasure as you try one of the positions listed above. If these do not work, do not blame yourself and do not give up. You can try other methods of stimulation from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm.

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How To Make A Girl Orgasm Over And Over Again

 

 

 

 

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According to several major surveys, only 25% of women have orgasm during intercourse. Why is it so difficult for a woman to reach orgasm during sex? Do you want to learn how to please a woman so that she can achieve orgasm as often as she wants? If you are looking for ways to satisfy and impress her, here are some tips you can use immediately.

 

(1)   Be romantic

 

First of all, you have got to know a woman’s orgasm begins in her mind. This means she will need to be seduced both mentally and physically in order for her to climax. If you are dating a new woman, you get her heart beat faster (and her mind in the mood for orgasm) with thoughtful gestures and pleasant surprises. If you are in a long term relationship with the woman in your life, you treat her like it is your first date.

 

You get her in the mood for passionate lovemaking by showing how much you care for her and how much you want to please her. Surprise her with a home cooked meal or some small gift, or a romantic gesture, then flirt outrageously with her.

 

Set the stage for a passionate encounter with soft lighting and sensual music. Prepare her for the inevitable climax by building up flirtatious touches and sexy strokes on her body everywhere. A woman will feel orgasmic when you are taking charge and knowing what you are doing. Stare straight into your woman’s eyes, pin her down, kiss and stroke her neck, wrists, inner thighs and other erogenous zones until she reaches orgasm. If you want to give your woman the best sex she ever had, you can talk dirty to her at the same time.

 

If you have built the sexual tension correctly, you can give your woman an orgasm easily. To be romantic means putting your woman’s emotional and sexual needs first and using your hands, tongue to make her orgasm before you reach climax. If you can give her the best orgasm, you are also more likely to get them in return.

 

(2)   Stimulate her clitoris

 

This is the key to female sexual arousal because most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. The clitoris is what gives women the most pleasure and the most pain during sex. Therefore the most important thing to remember when stimulating her clitoris is to adopt a balanced approach. Too much stimulation will make her clitoris so sensitive that she will feel uncomfortable. Too little stimulation will never make her orgasm.

 

For most women, it is better to focus attention on the clitoral hood first before direct contact with the clitoris. Once you have stimulated a woman’s clitoris sufficiently, orgasm is sure to ensue. Because every woman is different on what pleasures her the most, it is better to experiment with your partner and find out if she likes her clitoris to be stimulated directly or indirectly.

 

Be sure to mix up your actions by varying not only what part of your hands you use, but also the pressure and speed. Pay close attention to her breathing and body language. Feel free to ask her specific questions such as does she like it faster or slower. If your hands are tired, you can get the help of a vibrator. This will show her that you are willing to go the extra mile to please her.

 

(3)   Give her oral stimulation

 

Use your tongue and lips to bring pleasure to your partner. Many women love the feeling of cunnilingus and adore partners who pay homage to their clitoris in this intimate way. Encourage her to relax and focus on the sensations by blindfolding her and making yummy moans and groans while you go down on her. Instead of going straight for her clitoris, you spend plenty of time on her outer and inner vaginal lips.

 

If you build the proper anticipation she will be pressing your head closer to her body to show you that she is ready for more direct stimulation of her clitoris. Feel free to experiment with the different kind of licks, varying the pleasure and speed, but when you find one movement that sets her off, stick with it and you will be pleasantly rewarded.

 

(4)   Adopt clitoris-friendly positions

 

Women’s clitoris usually does not get much direct stimulation from intercourse but ingenious choosing of sexual positions remedy this. Allow your women to ride on top of you. Make a V with your 2 fingers and place them in such a way that each of your fingers is on either side of your penis as she rides on you. This will stimulate her clitoris and vaginal lips.

 

You can penetrate her from behind and at the same time play with her clitoris using your fingers. You can also use a small vibrator for extra intensity. When you are in the normal missionary position, you can put on a cock ring that vibrates against her clitoris during penetrative sex.

 

If you want your woman to have an orgasm easily, you have to start before the lights go out. Your woman’s orgasm begins right at the moment you tune into her mind and make her feel like a sexiest woman. For more information on how to make this happen, click Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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Female Orgasm Tips – How To Please A Girl

 

 

 

 

 

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Do you want to know how you can please a woman effectively so much so that she keeps looking forward to the next sexual encounter with you? Do you want to learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with your lovemaking skills? Here are some tips to increase the chances she will get an orgasm and probably multiple orgasms

 

(1)   Give her the best foreplay ever

 

If you want to get her in the mood, foreplay is absolutely necessary. Foreplay is one of the things that women usually cannot get enough. You will never hear her complaining about you hugging, cuddling, kissing and whispering naughty thoughts in her ear. The more you tease her the more you will be able to please her.

 

To gradually build up the mood, it is best to start foreplay before you reach the bedroom. You can try doing some fun things or give her pleasant surprises to make her feel good. Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures do turn women on because love and sex are interconnected in a woman’s brain. By connecting to her emotionally as early as you can, she will be so aroused by the time you really start to pleasure her in bed.

 

(2)   Do not forget her lips

 

Do you know that women’s lips are their number one erogenous zone? The art of tongue kissing will pleasure her more than you know and leave her with a lasting, eroticized impression. When you kiss her, you hold her face firmly but gently while you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips one at a time. Do not confine to kissing just her lips. You can also use your lips for giving sweet arousing kisses all over her body.

 

(3)   Give her oral pleasure

 

The easiest way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms is by giving her oral sex. Any licking or gentle sucking on the vaginal entrance and lips or the clitoris will surely make you popular with any woman. Try licking her with the skill of an experienced painter by experimenting with broad and varied strokes using your tongue to ‘write’ the alphabets A to Z or figure of 8. Ask her what she likes and mix it up with different movements such as vertical and diagonal strokes.

 

You begin by licking up and down the entire area along the vaginal opening before you move to her clitoris. Then you start by giving her short quick flick of your tongue on her clitoris. At this stage when she is not fully aroused yet, do not spend too much time on her clitoris. You use your tongue to pleasure the surrounding area especially the clitoral hood (just above the clitoris). You place her clitoral hood between your lips to allow both sides of the hood to rub against each other.

 

Your woman will let you know when she is ready for all-out clitoral stimulation when you see the following signs – her breathing gets more rapid, the visible part of the clitoris will swell slightly and she will press your head down towards her harder than ever. At this point, you gently retract the hood to expose the clitoris and dart your tongue across it. You repeat your tongue movement gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue. When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm.

 

(4)   Use your fingers too

 

While kissing her clitoris, you can use your fingers to caress her breast and run them down to the middle of her stomach. You can also use your fingers to rub on her clitoris in circular motions. When she is fully aroused, you can insert one finger about 2 inches inside her. You press this finger against the frontal wall of her vagina. You use this finger to rub on a location that feels rough to your touch, which is the g-spot.

 

(5)   Use the best sex positions

 

You can learn about the various lovemaking positions by reading about them from self-help guides. But this alone is still not enough. This is because not all love positions are made equal. It will be better to read this together with your partner and discuss with her which positions both of you can try.

 

There you have it the 5 tips you can start using right away to give a woman the most earth-shattering experience of her life. These tips covered here are by no means exhaustive. You can read the rest of the tips from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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How To Make Every Woman Sexually Attracted To You

 

 

 

 

 

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What do women want from their men in bed? This is the main thing many guys want to know when they want to please a woman. So, if you are wondering, how to satisfy a woman, here are some tips for you to start with.

 

(1)   Turn her on first

 

What turns a woman on? According to a sex survey, women are overwhelming inclined to identify conversation as the big turn-on. 40% of them are suckers for sweet conversation. A well-chosen phrase spoken at the right time can make a woman feel like you want her and not just her body. This is crucial for sex, as women both want and need to feel a deeper connection. Women will never, ever get tired of hearing sweet words, as long as they sound genuine.

 

(2)   Heat her up gradually

 

Remember, this is not a race; you won’t get any gold medal for being fast. While men can easily get aroused by big boobs, women need you to give them enough time to arouse her to full capacity. What she wants is enough of foreplay.

 

For a start, you do not go directly to her breasts and genitals. You touch the other parts of her body, using fingers, a feather, a silk scarf or anything that turns her on, and you ask her to describe how it feels. At the same time, you watch and listen for non-verbal cues such as her moans and gasps.

 

She even likes it more if you can pull back when she is near orgasm to focus on other parts of her body for about 5 to 10 minutes and then to stimulate her hot spots again. You repeat this several times – build up, back off – until she goes into orgasm. The suspense as a result of the pull back can raise her arousal level a lot and enhance her orgasm. For sure, very soon she will be begging for you to move to the main event. The better you are able to execute this, the more likely you will get a happy ending.

 

(3)   Fulfill her fantasy

 

During sex, a man’s mind is always focused on the orgasm part, while a woman’s mind wanders into fantasy. To reach orgasm, she needs to clear her head and turn off her brain’s fear center. Fantasy is a way for her to relax her mind and deactivate her fear center. Therefore, you can help her to get into the mood by constructing an erotic fantasy before things heat up. You can whisper provocative words to each other in turn, building a story she can get lost in.

 

(4)   Try new things

 

Of course, whatever new things you are going to try on her, make sure she is agreeable to them. You just need to take baby steps and constantly read her body language to make sure she is comfortable both physically and emotionally. How about playing around with loose restraints?

 

You can ask her if she is okay with you blindfolding her when you go down on her. If she is agreeable, next time you can ask her if it is alright to tie her wrists to the bed posts. If she likes that, on the next encounter, you can ask if it is acceptable to hold down her arms while you lick her breasts. Test her and observe her reactions and soon both of you can figure out each other’s likes and dislikes. It is also a good idea to create a ‘safe word’ which means she wants you to stop immediately.

 

At times, she may like to take a dominating role, such as adopting the on-top-of-you position. You let her know that you just love her in control. You can suggest other things such as you want her to give you a blowjob while you are being blindfolded with your wrists tied to the bedpost, etc. This can turn her on a lot if she finds her inner domination queen.

 

Some women say that getting spanked sends lots of tingly feelings to their vaginal and anal areas. It is the same as before when you start something new, you begin slowly to test whether she is comfortable with spanking. While you are making out, you touch her buttocks a lot, squeeze and rub them and tell her that you think her buttocks are amazing. Then you whisper in her ear to ask if you can give her a little spanking. If she says yes, just do it once and softly. You get her feedback. If she is agreeable or not sure, you ask her permission to let you do it a few more times, all the while kissing her and still squeezing and rubbing her buttocks. During the next time when you cuddle her, you can ask if she wants to try spanking again. If she is comfortable, ask her if she wants you to do it harder or if she likes to lie on your lap while you spank her. Remember that when spanking, avoid calling her names or humiliating her unless she tells you that is what she wants.

 

So, pay attention and you will be on your way to doing everything right and make her keep begging more from you. Do you want to be the special guy that can give her the best sexual experience she ever have? Read on more from Hot Sex . For additional help in delivering her extra pleasure, click Best Lover

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