How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

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How To Get The Girl You Want In A Sexually Attractive Way

 

 

 

 

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In order for sex to happen with any girl, you have got to talk to her first, to build the rapport and to get her comfortable with you. While men tend to be physically-oriented (more obsess with getting it as soon as possible), women are more emotionally-driven. You need to work on her brain first (seduce her mind), gradually build up her good-feelings towards you in the process of leading her to the bedroom. So, the next time when you meet the girl you want, you can use the following ideas to get her attention.

 

(1)   How to start

 

If the girl you are interested in, is in a group, approach the group and do not throw any hint who is your target. There are various ways to start a conversation. The most effective way to start a conversation is that it should be delivered in an offhand, casual way without conveying any romantic or sexual interest. You can compliment her about something she is wearing.

 

You can also start by asking something casual about her opinion such as “You girls look like experts…….let me ask you a quick question.” When using a question to start a conversation, never ask for permission to talk to her, or sound apologetic, such as “Pardon me, can I ask you a question?”. This sets the wrong tone, making you look like you are begging for her attention.

 

Questions about relationships such as jealousy and what constitutes cheating, work very well when you try to “break” into a group, because these are the things that women always have an opinion about. When you ask a question, make sure it is open-ended so that the answer will not be just a yes or no, in order to keep the conversation ongoing. Make sure you have your opinions and stories to share but do not totally contradict her.

 

(2)   Get to know her

 

The next step is trying to know her and share with her a few interesting details about your talents, ambitions, passions, etc. To get her to open up, use the indirect approach by way of statements, stories and educated guesses. For example, instead of asking her where she is from, you can say something like, “You come across to me as  someone from a big city, very cool, sophisticated and metropolitan in character. As this is only an educated guess, so it does not matter whether you get it right or wrong. Your purpose is to get her to tell you more about herself.

 

During your conversation, always be ready to talk about your own positive qualities and those things you are passionate about. When a girl sizes up a guy, she wants to assess his potentials before moving further on. Do not bring out any unhappy topics. Most important, keep the mood positive, fun and relaxed. To make her feel closed to you, it will be best to talk about the things both of you are interested in.

 

A great way to draw her closer to you and ‘play your game’, is to find out an interest you have got in common, make some ‘vague plan’, tell her she is fun, awesome that she shares the same interest with you (she will try not to contradict the positive image you project on her) and tell her you are going to hang out and enjoy that activity together.

 

For example, if you want to go to the beach and she expresses how much she loves the beach, you can say something like, “It is awesome that you love the beach. We can go to the beach one of these weekends.” Because you do not mention any specific date, this sounds vague and harmless, making it easier to go along with you. Once you start this on a positive note when she does not turn down your initial suggestion, it will be more likely that she will agree to your future ‘plan’ with her.

 

It is important to take charge and lead because women like guys who have their ‘stand’ instead of trying to be totally obedient to them. Make some small ‘requests’ that she is unlikely to turn down, to program her to comply with you. Instead of asking her do you want to go to somewhere else, you take her by the hand and say, “Let’s find a place that we can sit and talk.” You will then lead her to the place you have in mind.

 

(3)   Use reverse psychology

 

The way to do is to display some confidence about yourself, making her feel it will be a great loss not to be with you. People always have this tendency of trying to prove you are wrong when you ‘persuade’ or ‘force’ them to agree with you. Tell or hint to her she is not suitable for you and if she is keen on you, she will go all her way out to prove you are wrong. Usually girls like to put guys in the Friend Zone; you can do that to her and most likely she will try to make herself more than just a friend to you.

 

(4)   Bring her close to you

 

To get her interested in you, you need to show interest first. You will not get anything by trying to act like a gentleman, not showing any interest and waiting for her romantic signals. Most women are afraid of being viewed negatively as been too easy (she does not want to be seen as a ‘slut’). What you should do is to slowly and subtly build physical contact with her. Start with some innocent or casual touch such as putting an arm around her waist or hold her hand when you are walking with her in crowded places or when crossing a road.

 

(5)   How to keep the conversation a little longer

 

When you talk to her, listen carefully so that you can latch on something that she mentions about and use this to keep the conversation going on a little longer. Instead of asking her what is her occupation, say something positive about whatever she is doing and you can start talking about your passions and goals. She will be swept up in your enthusiasm and energy and feel that you are a fun guy to be with.

 

These tips need a little practice. You may not get what you want in your first try. The main thing is not to give up. First, you do not act desperate, make her feel comfortable, take the lead and when things advance to a later stage, show your interest. When you are ready to take this further, you can visit Hot Sex and/or Make Her Horny.

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How To Arouse A Woman In Bed

 

 

 

 

In order to please a woman and make her want you more, getting her turned on is the single most important aspect of every sexual encounter. Luckily, there are many ways to go about achieving this. Following are just a few of those various techniques that can ensure your woman gets in the mood as often as you wish.

 

(1)   Make her feel good

 

A woman’s main sexual organ is her brain. The best and most effective way to turn her on is to make her feel good, relaxed and sexy. No matter how busy you can be, this step is not to be skipped. Going straight for the lower part of her body when her brain or mind is not yet ready can only turn her off.

 

For many women, getting in the mood requires being both emotionally and physically ready. Do not rush. Instead, you take the time to stroke her hair, rub her shoulders and basically just hold and touch her. When you are out in public, you hold her hand. Make sure you tell her that you find her to be beautiful and sexy.

 

Also do take the time to kiss her neck. Just press the tip of your tongue against her skin and kiss her softly. Kissing any part of the neck will get a woman in the mood. Do not miss her ear lobes, the back of her ears. Lightly nibble and kiss on these areas can also arouse her a lot.

 

(2)   Seduce her with dirty talking

 

This is another good way to seduce her brain and make a woman turned on. Do not be creepy about it and try not to be too vulgar unless you know that it gets her in the mood. Lean in close and whisper into her ear all of the things that you have thought about doing to her. For example, if you and your partner both enjoy it when you perform oral sex on her, try describing it from your point of view. Talk about how much you love touching her body and how it feels like to touch her with your tongue. The more descriptive you can get, the better dirty talk will be.

 

Once your partner is aroused, you can start complimenting her body. For the best dirty talk, do not say general things. Instead, you focus on one particular area of her body and describe it in detail, including what you like about it. For example, you can sit between her legs and talk about how you like to watch her open and close them.

 

Another dirty talk technique you can use is simply telling your partner all those naughty sexual thoughts you have, such as watching her perform oral sex on another woman. Because this is pure fantasy, you know this is something that is unlikely to happen in real life and neither do you want it to happen. Encourage your partner to share her sexual fantasies. The more open you are, the easier it will be for her to let loose. Lightly kiss her on the ear from time to time while telling her all these. Do not spoil the mood by sticking your tongue in her ear in a rough way.

 

(3)   Tease her with aphrodisiacs

 

Confucius once said over 5,000 years ago, “Food and sex are part of human nature.” Therefore when it comes to making a woman horny, one of the most effective ways is to play around with aphrodisiac. Obviously, the most common is chocolate; however, there are numerous others less obvious options to choose from that can help bring out that dormant sexual desire that you are looking to release from your partner. Incorporate these aphrodisiacs into snacks, deserts and meals.

 

(4)   Pamper her with a seductive massage

 

No woman in her right mind is going to turn down a massage. As such, you offer your woman a massage; just incorporate some seemingly innocent and subtle actions into the massage that can get her attention and/or raise her desire to have sex. Whether you let your hands ‘do the walking’ on her body or you gently put the print of your lips on her neck as you rub the tension out of her shoulders, adding a seductive element to a massage is a sure bet to get her love juices flowing.

 

The above 4 ways to turn a girl on can be done inside and/or outside of the bedroom, with clothes or without clothes. But if you take the time to practice on her properly, for sure, it will be very hard for you to stay fully clothed because she will not allow you to and more than that she may start grabbing the lower part of your body. If you want to find out more ways to arouse a girl, you can click on Hot Sex and Best Lover

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Did You Commit These Love Making Mistakes In Your Sex Life

 

 

 

 

What do you do when your sex life becomes boring? Does it occur that when you want to have sex, either she tells you she has a headache or she says she is very tired? When your love life gets stale, what should you do? If you truly value your relationship with your partner/lover, read on to avoid these lovemaking mistakes so that you can get her back sexually and give her what she wants.

 

(1)   You look less confident and assertive

 

A man who is tentative or shy about what he wants in the bedroom can come across as less masculine in the eyes of the woman he is in bed with. Sometimes it is the desire to be good or nice in bed that actually causes a guy to be very average or below average in terms of what a woman really wants from her sexual partner. If you have been with a woman long enough to know her body language and emotions, nothing kills the mood like a formal request to proceed.

 

A good lover knows how to let her know he is in the mood and can turn her on without being too aggressive. Something as simple as an intense look or a playful touch is a much better way of going about it. You can also show some masculine strength and dominance in a gentle way. When going down on her, try holding her wrists. Put your hand on the center of her chest and hold her firmly down on the bed. Touch her like you own her. Do not be afraid to push her against the wall and kiss her deeply when you feel that she is being sexy.

 

(2)   Trying to make love when she is tired or not in the mood

 

To get her back in the mood, pamper her with a massage. If you want to try something sexy, a foot massage with a warming gel can do wonders, especially if you concentrate on the pad of her toes and the webbing in between, which are linked to her nether zones. If she is relaxed, she is more likely to feel sexy.

 

Deep passionate kisses are one of the greatest ‘turn-ons’ for most women. Kissing is your entrance exam for the rest of her body. You look into her eyes and touch her face when you kiss her, which can really get her aroused. You spend time licking, kissing or gently nibbling her top lip and then do the same to the lower lip. Do give some attention on the area between her throat and chin. The skin will be thinner where the body flexes, so the nerves and blood vessels are close to the surface. Kissing her at this area will trigger an emotional response and make her wet. Slowly build up her arousal with your sensual kisses.

 

(3)   You are just plain lazy

 

You get too comfortable sticking with your usual ways of doing things. As a result of your obsession with orderliness, she can read you easily like the cover of a book, so much so that instead of moaning in bed she is yawning away.

 

To add fun to your love life, it helps that you need to ‘mess things’ up a bit, be less predictable, a bit naughty or cheeky at times to keep her wondering and at times make her can’t help giggling over your ‘performances’. Most women will not admit this but they prefer their men to misbehave a bit at times. This is why you hear about this saying about women falling for ‘bad guys’ and ‘nice guys’ are losers in their love lives. The key is to try to do new things in your love life that you both enjoy.

 

Being less predictable also needs you to do something extra to pleasantly surprise and please her at times. You will come across to her as a very caring and romantic lover. Surprise her with your thoughtfulness by making a bowl of popcorn when she is watching her favorite TV show. Write her a song, poem or love-you note to make her feel really special. Prepare a romantic dinner for two, play some mood music and seduce her, or engage in bedroom games.

 

(4)   You neglect the emotional aspects of sex

 

You are superstitious (blind faith) that your sexual techniques can work miracles on her. You are proud of your over 6 inches long lovemaking tool down there, or if you are not, you look for ways and means to enlarge or lengthen it. In other words, you are too obsessed with the mechanical aspects of sex.

 

Just remember this – every man is the same when he is naked, but what differentiate you from other guys in her eyes is how you relate to her and how much you tune in to her emotional needs. To most women, sex without passion is quite dull and no woman wants to get this feeling that she is being treated like a lovemaking toy.

 

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Relationship Advice – Overcome These Barriers To Sex

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Ever wonder what “objections” she has to sex? Have you ever come across the situation that you can chat for hours, days and even weeks or months and still not end up under the blanket with each other?

 

There are 3 common obstacles women place between her and you. In this article, we will discuss all 3 of them and the easy ways to overcome them.

 

Number One Obstacle: She is not “turned on” enough

 

You will usually hear her saying things like:” I am tired, I better go home” or “Maybe we should slow down”.

 

If you slow down just another 10 minutes, you can get what you want. Because that is the only and easiest way to turn her on: Just go easy and take your own sweet time. Slowly build up the mood.

 

The only other rule about turning her on sexually is to be “smooth” which means building up the “heat” gradually when you get intimate with her. Do not go from touching her hand to tonguing her down.

 

Instead, touch her arm, touch her waist, touch her face, start kissing and then gradually get more and more intimate. In this way you are building up the sexual tension and slowly bringing her into the mood. By the time she is turned on, she will reach the point of no return and start begging for sex.

 

Number Two Obstacle: She does not feel comfortable at this place

 

Maybe she does not feel there is enough of privacy at her place. Maybe she does not like the feeling of having sex with you in a cheap hotel as if she is a whore. So, how about convincing her to have a tryst in the back seat of your car or in one of the compartments of those big circling wheel which you can find in a lot of theme parks?

 

A way to get over this obstacle is by means of a technique call “mind molding”. A well-known Brazilian soccer player, Ronaldinho uses this technique to help him score goals. Before the actual soccer match, he will “picture” himself about how he will go about trying to get the ball to the goal post and the joy he will get when he scores goal.

 

What you can do is to use a technique called “molding”. It is a sort of training the mind to “visualize” the things which you are aiming for to happen to cultivate positive thoughts in the mind.

 

Here are the easy steps:

 

(1)   Figure out how you want her to act. For example, you may want her to be an adventurous woman who lives in the moment.

 

(2)   Tell her a story about someone you admire who did something adventurous, or lived in the moment. Get her to “picture” herself doing something unusual and deriving greater satisfaction over this.

 

(3)   Tell her why you admire this person is because she is adventurous and live in the moment.

 

 

Gradually and with some encouragement, she will slowly evolve into the type of girl you want her to be. It is the same kind of psychology exercise; a great coach uses to motivate his players to perform their best.

 

Number Three Obstacle: She gets bored with sex

 

You are treating sex as if you are taking your car for a regular petrol/gasoline refill activity. You see her as if she is a car that you routinely schedule to drive to the petrol station for refill. Your sex with her becomes predictable closely following a time-table and repeating the same motion over and over again and gradually she becomes less enthusiastic in sex.

 

What can you do here is t break out of the usual “mold” of activity?

 

To break out of this rut, you have to be spontaneous. Make love with her at the time she least expects. If you regularly have sex at night, you can sometimes change this to morning or afternoon. You can also try out a new sex position or use sex toys. If you are not the aggressive guy when comes to sex, change your behavior. Take charge to seduce her, initiate foreplay, position her body in the way you like. If you are the aggressive type, you can turn her on by way of actions/talking and get her to take the initiative.

 

A more important thing to take note is that all forms of sexual stimulation start from the brain. If her overall feeling when she is with you is no good, all the stimulation will not work. At all times, you need to make her feel good and desirable. She is a human after all, not a sex object or sex machine that merely responds mechanically to your stimulus! Compliment her about looks, dressings, surprise her with small gifts, be romantic and at times arrange dates at her favorite restaurant or any activity she enjoys, relief her stress with some massage or doing some chores to lighten her burden and be just a quiet and attentive listener when she is down in her mood.

 

To recap on how to overcome the obstacles to sex:

 

(1)   You need to be patient to spend extra time to stimulate her.

(2)   Using mental tactics to cultivate as well as nurture and “shape” her thoughts.

(3)   Break your sex routine.

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