Sex Tips – How To Get A Girl Go Wild

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A Night Of Wild Sex Is Only A Click Away From Here

 

Have you ever wished your gal could be less inhibited and a little wilder in bed?  Women want sex just as much as men do but often feel shy about making the first move. How to make her feel comfortable enough to let out her wild side so that you will have a night of great lovemaking?

 

There are a few simple ways to coax the wild cat out of a woman. What you need to do is to gain her trust, boost her confidence and foster a creative atmosphere. Unleash your gal’s wild side with these moves.

 

(1)   Gain Her Trust

 

You have to be totally receptive about her sexuality so that she will trust you enough to open up to you without the fear of being judged negatively. If she jokes about being blindfolded, or about making out in the wilderness, do something like that.

 

If you want to have wild sex with your gal, you have to let her overcome all of her fears and make her feel comfortable. By lowering her inhibitions, you will be pleasantly surprised how uninhibited she will be when both of you are naked.

 

(2)   Boost Her Confidence

 

Some women get insecure about their bodies. Compliment the way she looks when both of you go out. Tell her how much she turns you on. Place your hand on her lower back and tell her how badly you want to run your hands all over her. Make her feel seductive when she is out with you and she will reciprocate in bed. During your next session in bed, tell her that her skin looks and feels awesome and her body is incredible.

 

Let her feel confident about her body and she will satisfy your deepest desires. Talking to her in loving yet naughty ways can also help to make her more comfortable with you, which will then get her to relax, be more open to you, so that eventually she will get more turned on with you.

 

(3)   Set The Mood Right

 

Getting your girl in the right mood is important if you want to have wild and crazy sex. If you act like a jerk all day, she is unlikely to get aroused right at the minute you undress her. Send her some naughty text messages during the day and maybe take her out for a nice dinner. You can also use perfumed body oils and give her a massage for half an hour with more attention on her love spots to make her feel horny and relaxed.

 

(4)   Fulfill Her Fantasies

 

To turn on her wild side, sometimes you have to change things up a bit with some role play. A woman’s sexual thoughts are kinky and creative. Becoming someone else and acting out her wildest fantasies, is a safe and fun way for her to express herself fully in whichever she wants.

 

(5)   Encourage Creativity

 

You can experiment with different things such as having sex in other places such as on a boat, on the beach, in a car, the dressing room at a clothing store, the staircase in a busy building, in a dark alley, in the revolving wheel, in the office, etc.

 

Sex toys are a fun and creative way to let her go wild. You can take baby steps to warm her up with heated and flavored massage oils, then try applying some orgasm-enhancing lubricants to her genitalia and finally you can use a vibrator on her. You can expand further on this to include dildos, anal probes and beads.

 

Follow these 5 tips to reap the rewards of enjoying a night of wild passion that you have always wanted. Are you keen to create an experience she will never forget?

 

Come and take a look at Hot Sex and Endless Pleasure which consist of a treasure of ideas and tools to fulfill both you and your partner’s desires.

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Sex Tips – How To Turn A Woman On And Make Her Want You

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Want Her To Get Addicted To You Sexually?

 

Are you wondering how to get a girl to really wet or even to orgasm easily? Are you opened to experiment with different things just to see her pleased? Do you want to know what can turn a girl on the most? If you are, here are some ways to do it.

 

(1)   Be Romantic

 

All women are hopeless romantics, whether they admit it or not. Because of this, romance provides you with a direct route into her pants and her heart. Here are some ways to be romantic to her.

 

You can plan a romantic getaway with her. You could pick a destination if she does not have any specific place that she would love to visit.

 

At times you can surprise her with a gift, which you know she always yearn to have. There are other types of gifts you can give her to get her riled up. Try gifting her with sex toys, sexy lingerie or a soft bath robe that will turn on your girl with little effort on your part.

 

Or else, just do anything special for her. If she is not very materialistic, do any of the following things to make her really happy: Give her a full body massage, clean up the house, or cook her a nice homemade dinner.

 

You can also consider doing something that both of you enjoy. It would not be a big deal if both of you do not have many hobbies in common. If that is the case, then figure something out. Let’s say your girlfriend is very into salsa dancing. Take a few classes with her if you are open to learn it. By taking the dancing lesson together, you are rekindling the love with your girlfriend unconsciously.

 

(2)   Set The Mood

 

A clean surrounding creates a charming and good vibes.  Better make your bedroom neat and remove all the clutter, just like a hotel room.  Light up fragrant candles so as to make the room more romantic. Make your night a very sexy and fun one by having sexy toys

 

Then, set the mood at “sexual heat”: put on her favorite music, prepare her favorite drink, light some scented candles, and spray some fragrant air freshener in your bedroom and bathroom (for some great ambiance enhancers. Get both of you immersed in the romantic setting by acquiring a woman-friendly erotic film to help ignite her sexual desire.

 

It may sound “wussy” to go to such trouble to seduce a woman who is already attracted or committed to you, but women turn on to such stimuli, both on an unconscious level through their senses and in consciously thinking that you care so much about her to put in a lot of effort. That thought alone will get her in the mood for sex. This would probably be like foreplay for the mind.

 

(3)   Prolong The Foreplay

 

Women love foreplay and real foreplay to her means starting out as far from her genitals as possible. Start with mental foreplay by putting a note in her purse or briefcase, telling her what you are going to do with her when you get home. During the day, you can text her a few hot messages, just to turn the heat on in her mind. The anticipation is one of the best aphrodisiacs. The point of doing this is to create high tension sexual desire. So that once you move on to the bed, she has more or less been mentally warmed up.

 

Instead of diving right in, start by kissing her passionately from head to toe. Kiss her very lightly at the tip of her lips, then draw back, and look into her eyes. Start kissing again. Lick her lips, bite her kindly. Again, remember anticipation, its key! Note that the hands, fingertips, neck, tongue, face are sensitive areas of the body because they have more nerve endings.

 

Do put a lot of your focus on her neck. Women tend to go wild once their neck is so much as lightly touched. If you really want to get her into the mood, make sure to spend a significant amount of time working on her neck by lightly gliding your fingers across it, kissing it, lightly nibbling on it, and more. Also do kiss anywhere on her body that bends — neck, elbow, waist, bikini creases, etc. These spots tend to be really sensitive.

 

You can further turn her on by offering her an erotic massage. Learn some massage techniques and gently try a few on her head, neck and shoulders. Use your tongue and hangs to tease and please her neck, shoulders, back and even her feet, if that is your style. To spice things up a bit you can also blindfold your partner, as this will heighten her other senses. Because she does not know where your lips will land next, her body will be in a state of constant anticipation.

 

(4)   Get Wild And Kinky

 

Ask her to tell you her fantasies or to email them to you. That way she won’t feel awkward when telling you and she will have some time to mull things over. To encourage her to be more open and honest, you can create a “fantasy box” for her to keep in the bedroom. Get her to write down her sexual fantasies and put them in the box. Whenever things get dull or routine in the bedroom, pull out a slip and act out the fantasy!

 

Spelling out her naughty thoughts creates an atmosphere of intimacy, which is more important than what she actually writes. When a woman fantasizes about being in male-dominant sexual encounters, it is rarely out of a desire for a rougher hand, but more a case of the man taking control so he is responsible for her orgasm, and she is not under pressure to per­form.

 

To satisfy this need, you can experiment with some light bondage. Prepare her by telling her what you will do to her tonight. Demand that she prepare for it by wearing your favorite “slave” outfit and making herself beautiful. When the time comes, order her to get down on her knees and submit to her “master.”

 

Tie her gently with a soft bondage item, such as the silk bondage sash and tease her with a feather or a tickler or give her a light spanking. Keep in mind that even sensual bondage can get painful. Find a word that will help both of you know when to stop.

 

Whether you are using rope, linen, or chains, you have to make sure she can easily be set free within five seconds. Be sure to remain attentive to your partner the whole time. Listen to her emotions and respond to her feelings. If you feel she is not enjoying herself, then be sure to stop or change your tactics.

 

These tips will help both of you to have a more enjoyable and pleasurable time. For more ideas and tips, click Turn Her On.

 

 

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Sex Tips – How To Set The Mood For An Intimate Encounter

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Want To Turn Her On Tonight?

Have you ever wondered why at times you are just not in the mood to get frisky in bed? Or, when you stroke her, she either pretends she is asleep or telling you she needs to get up early the next day. Do you feel the spark is missing and the flavor getting bland as the intimate moments get shorter and less frequent? If you are facing these situations, it is time for you to reestablish the lost links for a more intimate encounter. Here are some ways you can bring these pleasuring moments you used to have with your lover.

 

(1)   Tidy Up Your Love Nest

 

Do you feel your bedroom look more like a storeroom? To create the mood, you have to spruce up the bedroom so that it feels sensual and inviting. Make the bed with softer, clean sheets. Indulge in extra pillows and warm colors curtain. Make the place more spacious by leaving all those things you hardly use in your locker rooms.

 

The lightings should not be those glaring ones and if there is air-conditioner in the room, make sure the temperature is just right for both of you. To evoke a certain mood, you can play some slow, soft romantic music as background tracks during your love scene.

 

(2)   Talking Dirty

 

Turning her on is not just kissing and touching. It has a lot to do with how you affect a woman’s mind. A few sentences may be all you need to get her mind venturing into a myriad of sexual fantasies before you take her clothes off. Reveal some of the things you fantasize about doing to her, or tell her how much you desire her body; or make her tell you about her inner most desires.

 

The key is to make her envision all the dirty things you want to do to her. It is not just what you talk but how you talk is equally important, meaning it has to be sound sexy to her. Maintain intense eye contact when you are talking to her.

 

(3)   Look Hot To Each Other

 

Buy her some sexy clothing and lingerie that will make her feel and look good. If you want her to smell good, mix her natural odor with fragrance can be an instant turn on for you. This works both ways. If you always make an effort to look great, your woman will appreciate you more than you do. Make it a habit to take care of your appearance. If you look good, you will feel good, and she will think you are hot. This will keep your love life at its peak.

 

(4)   Gradually Build Up The Mood

 

Start by taking a shower together which gives you a lot of chance to touch each other when you apply soap on her or when you wipe her dry with the towel.

 

There is nothing more seductive than a very long sensual kiss. Start with little pecks on the eyes, cheeks, chin, and nose and then outline her lips with the tip of your tongue. Spend about three full minutes kissing her mouth slowly and passionately. Put pressure then pull back, gently suck the bottom lip. This will turn her on like crazy and set the mood for later extravaganza.

 

The most important element for incredible lovemaking is to please her orally. Spread her legs and slowly make your way down to her sexy spot. You tease her clitoris with gentle, quick lick and then move your tongue to the surrounding area. At the same time you can use your hand to massage those areas that you lick earlier which can enrich her sensation.

 

(5)   After Play

 

Everyone knows foreplay is important to a woman. But if you want to make the session very wholesome to her, it is best not to end this abruptly. When you make love to a woman, she will feel more loved and adored if you stay awake to cuddle and talk to her after the whole episode. This makes your partner feel you want her more than just sex.

 

Getting your woman in the mood does not come naturally to most guys. It is a behavior that you must learn and practice. The above-mentioned tips will definitely work wonders to your sex life. You can read further from Get Her In The Mood to make your woman want you even more.

 

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For Couples – How To Increase Sex Drive

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You used to have sex three to four times per week. Now it is about one for every ten to twelve days. For some odd reasons, the act of doing anything sexual does not interest you or your lover. The horniness is no longer there and sex drive is declining. It reaches the point where one of you almost has to beg for sex. What more can be done to increase the desire for sex for both of you? You can actually do a lot to boost libido and keep you and your partner happy in the bedroom with the following tips. If they do not help, you may need sex therapy with a professional to make sex work for both of you.

 

(1)   Self-Discovery And Self-Stimulation

 

You need to learn how to identify the pleasant, sensuous and sexy feelings and identify the situations that make you feel this way. You just need to pay attention to what your brain and body are saying to you naturally during the day and night.

 

Maybe you have simply gotten tired of doing the same thing in the bedroom. By experimenting on your own time and at your own pace (by way of masturbation or self-stimulation), you may discover a few erogenous zones, some unusual sensations or new moves that you enjoy.

 

Sex toys such as vibrators, dildos, ben-wa balls, ticklers or restraints can be used as alternatives to hand stimulation and to achieve variety in types of stimulation. This method is also applicable to guys. He can press a vibrator against his body from head to toe to discover on his own which body parts or areas are his hot spots.

 

(2)   Communicate For Better Understanding And For Ways To Spice Things Up

 

Open communication to each other is very important. Exchange with each other what you like and dislike. Be honest if you are experiencing a low sex drive or if you wish your partner has more sexual desire. Be open about your inhibitions and what you think the problem might be.

 

This communication is also a good opportunity for both of you to discuss about how to spice things up, or to add a little novelty into your love life. This can be doing something unusual outside the bedroom too such as going for a hike in the wild or doing bungee jump. For indoor activities, this can be having sex in positions that you have never tried, to make love in places you have never done before, have sex in the middle of the afternoon or in the morning, engaging in some role-playing, adding a few props or costumes, or adding some gels, lotions, massage oils to enhance sensation.

 

(3)   Learn To Relax

 

Too much stress increases the stress hormone cortisol, which causes testosterone (which plays an important role in sexual desire) to plummet. Find a way to tune out for fifteen minutes a day, whether through meditation, yoga, deep breathing exercises (inhale through nose and exhale through mouth for ten times a day), chilling to music, or learning tai-chi. It will be ideal if your partner can join you in these relaxation activities. You can exchange massage with your partner. Massage can improve sexual arousal particularly if you are stressed, worried or angry.

 

(4)   Set The Mood

 

Everything starts from the mind because the brain is the main sexual organ. Reading erotica or watching a sexy soap creates arousing chemical changes in your brain that can increase desire. Search for things that affect your senses pleasurably. Try different stimuli such as aromas and scents, flowers and candles, running water and hot tubs, different types of music, even incense.

 

Experiment with the feel of soft fabrics against your skin, wearing sexy lingerie, buying clothes in colors that appeal to you. Watch movies with erotic or romantic themes. Or experiment with quite lush or exotic restaurants. Trying cooking special dinners for two at home.

 

Spending time each day touching and cuddling each other can boost oxytocin (feel-good hormone) levels and make you feel not only closer to your partner but more relaxed during sex. This simple gesture can also help to reset your brain and body to learn to enjoy sex again.

 

(5)   Exercise Together With Your Partner

 

Sex drive often wanes when you are not feeling good about yourself and your body. Exercise and weight loss can help you to feel good and boost your body image. Aerobic workouts (running, biking, swimming, weight training) help to improve blood flow to sex organs, boost your mood by pumping up the feel-good brain chemicals called endorphins. An increase in testosterone levels about one hour after working out can also leave you feeling sexier. Do avoid overstraining yourself because extreme exercise can actually lower testosterone levels.

 

Have your wife engaged in Kegel exercises by working on her pelvic floor muscles (those which control urine flow). This can help to increase libido and make her more aware of the pleasurable feeling from sex. To do this, have her act as if she is stopping her urine halfway. Have her to squeeze or contract the pelvic muscles and hold there for ten seconds and then release for ten seconds before resuming to the squeeze/hold/release action.  Have her do this for three to four times a day.

 

(6)   Eat Well

 

Eating a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains and lean proteins helps keep you fit and increase your energy and libido. Specifically, you can include food items such as oysters, celery, banana, avocado, nuts, eggs, garlic, scallops, pumpkin seeds, chocolate, licorice and ginger which are thought to boost libido.  Spicy foods such as chili are believed to increase sexual desire by increasing heart rate and causing your body to release endorphins, the same chemicals that your body produces after exercise. Though there is no medical proof that they can increase libido, but they could work because of the placebo effect.

 

(7)   Consult Your Doctor

 

If you have any difficulty in the bedroom (pain, low desire, vaginal dryness), bring it up with your doctor before it derails your love life. Certain medication such as antidepressants, birth control pills can reduce libido. Discuss with your doctor to see if there are any way to alleviate this problem.

 

For more tips to make sex enjoyable for you and your partner, you can click on Loving Couple.

 

 

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