Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Naughty Games To Spice Up Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Are you feeling that your sex life is a bit boring? Are you looking for ideas to make a hot sex life even more scorching? It is therefore very important to add some variety to your everyday sex life to make it enjoyable and spicy. Adding sex games to your sexual repertoire can really turn the heat up in the bedroom. At the same women also like creative things to make life interesting.

 

The main aim of playing bedroom games is to keep sex fun and therefore winning is not the priority. Avoid setting very tough rules to spoil the mood. Both of you should make some common rules which are equally applicable to both partners to avoid either party being hurt physically or mentally.

 

Here are lists of the sex games ideas you can try tonight.

 

(1)   Strip dice

 

One of you will roll the dice to start the game. On each player’s turn, the one who is not rolling the dice will guess whether the roll of the dice will be higher or lower than the previous one. If the guess is incorrect, then the person will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(2)   Strip ping pong

 

Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table and grab some ping pong balls. You stand at one end of the table, with your partner at the other. Both of you will take turns to throw a ping pong ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table. The one who scores will get the right to demand the other to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

(3)   Taste, touch and guess

 

Get some honey, syrup, yogurt or other food items of similar textures. Put some of it on part of his/her body or you can use more than one kind on different parts. The other partner is blindfolded and he/she has to explore the body, to seek out the food and identify it only by taste and touch. The blindfolded party can do this with his/her hands or mouth or both.

 

(4)   Guessing game

 

Get naked, blindfold your partner and then play with his/her body. Start the touching from the shoulders, arms, legs, head and feet. Then go for the erogenous zones like chest, belly, neck, lips, back, buttocks, inner thighs and genital region. Give him/her all sorts of sensations to the skin and let him/her make a guess what items you are using to touch his/her body. You can use things like your lips, breath, tongue, hand, fingers, genitals, breasts, feather, silk scarf, ice cubes, and fruits and so on. If the guess is correct, he/she can demand certain sexual favor from the “touching” partner.

 

(5)   Bondage teasing

 

One of you will tie the other one to the bed or a chair and then take full control. You can liven up the atmosphere with some sexy background music. The one who is in control can keep some clothes on for a little while to start with, and perform a sexy striptease or lap dance for some extra fun. This will be followed by some teasing and playful touch on the submissive party, using some props such as a soft scarf, a vibrator, ice cubes, etc.

 

(6)   Kinky cards

 

Get a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treat each to the sexy move being drawn. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to perform each act. If you get the nine of diamonds, he/she has to give you a sensual massage for nine seconds. If your partner picks the five of the spades, you will have to give him/her a five-second oral pleasure.

 

(7)   Hands off

 

You can try this creative sex game immediately tonight because it is simple, fun and you do not need to get anything or use sex prop. Start with some foreplay, like giving each other oral sex and move on the real deal when you are hot, wet and ready. The trick to this sex game is that both of you can never use your hands on each other when performing any sexual acts – no hand job, no fingering her, no grasping of her hips while you enter her, etc. The first person to accidentally use his/her hands loses and the other person can demand a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

If you really love your partner, then you should try to be creative in your sex life. Besides breathing new life into boring sex, playing sexy games can help to find a lot about your partner (even his/her darkest desires) without having to prod him/her for information. Therefore, use these sex games to bring you closer to your partner.

 

If you are keen for more ideas to spice up sex, you can read on further from Fun Games To Play In The Bedroom and Creative Plus Erotic.

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How To Turn A Woman On And Have Sex As Often As You Want

 

 

 

 

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What turns a woman the most in bed? What are the ways to turn a woman on? In bed, what do women like to do the most? Read on.

(1)   Be Romantic

Every woman craves romance, whether they are young or old. It is perhaps the best and simplest gift that a man can give to a woman. This maybe something physical such as pampering her with gifts or can be a thoughtful gesture. This means it may not cost much. You do not necessary spend a bomb to turn a woman on unless she is a gold-digger. Here are ways you can be a romantic partner.

(a)    Do spend time together and one of the ways is to learn something new together. You can consider signing up for golf, cooking or some other type of lessons. You can do workouts together at the gym or park.

(b)   Surprise her with gift and make sure you know what she wants

(c)    Every day you should make an effort to look for some good things to say about her

(d)   Good communication is also very important. There is a need to talk about expectations such as how do you want improve sex to be better, what kind of fantasizing in the bedroom is alright for her, what is your definition of a good foreplay, what kind of sex positions would you like to try, how do you like to be touched before, during and after sex. You should also make an effort to resolve any underlying grievances which may hurt romance as well as intimacy.

(e)    Do something special and out of ordinary (be unpredictable in a pleasant way), such as pamper her with an unsolicited back rub/foot rub or even a sensual massage.

(f)    You accompany her to her-type of movie, even if you are not a fan.

(g)   Do one of her chores and don’t point it out. Many wives are secretly turned on when their husbands offer to help do household chores.

(h)   Remember the important dates such as birthday, anniversary or Valentine

 

(2)   Build The Right Mood

In order to turn a woman on, you have to work on her mind which controls her sexual desire. Here are some ways you can do to create mentally arousing moments with her.

(a)    The first thing you need to do is to create a romantic environment. You will go about gathering what you will need to set the mood. The mood you want to create is up to you. Nature sounds, ambient music, and meditation music will all help to create an atmosphere of relaxation. You could also choose music designed to stimulate and arouse. Dim the lights as much as possible when preparing for a massage. Candlelight is a good choice as long as you take safety precautions. Keep all candles on a sturdy surface far from flammable objects. Lava lamps, lighted tabletop fountains, room lights on a dimmer switch, and night lights are all good lighting options.

 

Sensual massage can be very relaxing and help a lot in getting her in the mood. Lavender, patchouli, ylang ylang, and sandalwood are all good scents for your sensual arsenal. Choose a massage oil to use as a carrier for your essential oils and to use on your partner’s skin. Coconut oil, food-grade almond oil, and jojoba oil are all safe to use both outside and inside the body.

(b)   You also need to make an effort to get her feel comfortable in sex. This can be done by saying something that is comforting. The best way is you can say it in a way to make her feel sexy (such as complimenting her body). You can also put her at ease and help to distract any tension in her mind by engaging in dirty-talking

(c)    You can make the atmosphere more lively and fun by playing some sex games. Here are 3 bedroom game ideas you can consider.

 

(i)                 Both of you will write down about the 5 or more fantasies that can be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. If your fantasy requires props have them at hand. Take turns each by pulling out one at a time and then acting out the fantasy.

(ii)               Both of you will take turns picking an area of your body and letting your partner spend 60 seconds lavishing that spot with sensual attention: kisses, licking, nibbling, caressing. This will help you to learn what areas your partner is dying to have you pay more attention to and can let you know exactly what she wants, so there is no more excuses.

(iii)             You can try strip poker. In this game, the winner or loser will have to do perform some sexual acts. Of course you have to make sure that it is something that both of you would enjoy. That way, no matter who wins or loses, you will both really win.

 

(3)    Spice Things Up

Doing the same thing over and over again can kill the mood over the long run. This means at certain point in time, you have to do something different. Here are some ways to spice sex up.

(a)    You can add in lotions, oils, specially-designed love cushion and sex toys to heat things up a little.

(b)   You can get a copy of the Kama Sutra and experiment with some unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

(c)    You can take turns in letting each other to take control during intercourse. Some women have this fantasy to be the dominating one during intercourse.

(d)   You can talk about your fantasies. For a start you can try some light bondage, and when both of your comfort level increases you can bring out some more of your kinky fetishes and lusty desires.

(e)    You can make a video together while having sex. You can delete it after the act if having a sex tape freaks her out, or make sure it is locked up in a safe place. Watching both of you having sex in the video and having sex at the same time can be a huge rush for anyone.

(f)    You can watch porn together. Porn can be enjoyable for both sexes. Get into bed together and watch a few porn movies with a decent storyline. It will keep both of you engrossed and wet. Stroke each other and have sex while watching the movie. If you like it, talk about the movie with each other while watching it and visualize sexy fantasies with each other

(g)   You can read an erotic story (such as 50 Shades Of Grey) together. The mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. Create fantasies and imagine it together. It will be a bigger turn on than you think.

(h)   Have sex in different places and different times of the day.

(i)     You can get better in your oral sex, probably by reading up on how you can improve your oral skill or by playing an oral sex game to warm things up, or by adding in some tools to improve your performance.

(j)     You can consider role playing. Here are some suggestions for sexy role-plays ideas.

 

(i)                 School Teacher and Student

(ii)                Flight Attendant and Passenger

(iii)               Homeowner and Plumber

(iv)               Police Officer and Burglar

(v)                Firefighter and Frightened Citizen

(vi)               Photographer and Model

(vii)              Lady Gaga and Her Little Devil

(viii)             Artist and model

(ix)               Master and domestic maid

(x)                Doctor and patient/nurse  or patient/nurse

(xi)               Stripper and client

 

For more ways and ideas to please a woman and have the sex life you want, read on further from Hot Sex and Wild Night.

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How To Keep It Hot In Bed

 

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Are you tired of doing the same old thing in bed? Are you getting bored with just having the normal sex and want to spice it up a bit? If you are looking for ways to reignite that spark in the bedroom, here are some tips you can consider.

(1)   Fantasize sex

 

It can be quite stressful to behave yourself in a way that everyone expects you for 365 days in a year. How about shedding your everyday self and be someone different, exciting, crazy or naughty? This is a way for you to add some excitement to any bedroom activity you undertake.

 

Role-playing or game-like fantasies are great tools to help couples to awake their creativity and imagination. The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want to be, or anyone your partner has always desired. Have a nurse and doctor story, a school girl and teacher story, or play out any fantasy you can think of. Start out with something simple and work your way into more complex role-playing as you and your partner become more comfortable.

 

As your comfort level increases, you can experiment with some light bondage or S&M (sadomasochism).It is a fantasy-based type of role-play in which leather and restraints are often used. The idea of leather, bondage and control can be erotic for many people. However, it is important to make sure both parties enjoy these type of sex games and that each person in the relationship is comfortable with bondage or S&M role-playing.

 

(2)   Do something different

 

There are many things you can explore in the bedroom. One of which is romantic body painting. Lay out some plastic sheets on the floor or bed and get a variety of colors of washable paints. Crayola makes the best washable paints. Then you treat each other’s body like a canvas.

 

Another way to stretch the body paint idea is to fill each cup with the flavors of the pudding both of you like. Then you use the pudding to finger-paint each other’s body. When both of you are finished with the painting, you take turns to lick off his/her artwork.

 

You can also play with some strip games or poker games. You get your partner to pick a number between one and ten. Just ask him or her to do it without any explanation. When he or she picks a number, you just tell him or her that he/she loses and orders him/her to take off the clothes. Another way is to play strip dice game. One of you will roll the dice to start the game. When comes to each player’s turn to roll the die, he or she will guess whether the outcome or score is higher or lower than the previous one. If he/she guesses wrongly, then he/she will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(3)   Add in some sex props

 

Variety is the spice of life. How about adding in some sex toys into your bedroom so that sex is no longer boring and mundane, but exciting and something you want more often? Toys are a great way to focus on your partner and prolong the foreplay time, which is something that may be missing in your bedroom time.

 

You can also improvise by using things you can find in your house. Stack up the pillows in a way to provide support as well as better access or entry. Another way to use a pillow or a specially-designed love cushion is to support her pelvis for rear entry positions. To enhance the sensation, you can use a vibrating pillow in this position which gives the added bonus of stimulating her clitoral area.

 

How about standing on a stair, a stool or a couch to get into the perfect position? Get creative with what you have! This kind of variety in your sex life is a healthy and fun way to keep things hot in your relationship.

 

So, if nothing interesting is happening any more in the bedroom, take matters in your hands. Rekindle the spark that first brought the two of you together by finding or exploring the things that both of you can try and do. Just be careful if the new activity may lead to injuries. Therefore you need to have a pre-agreed code word to stop any action when the receiving partner feels uncomfortable with it.

 

Communication with your partner is the sure way to make sex more exciting. You can find more ideas at Hot Sex and Eternal Flame 

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How To Make Sex Fun In A Relationship

 

 

 

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Do you have these relationship problems? You only have sexual intercourse for only once or twice a month. Love making seems like becoming a chore. It seems only one of you are more keen on sex. Read on to find out how you can light up the fire in your love life.

 

(1)   Exchange sex fantasy ideas through card games

 

Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life. Sexual intimacy is a continual process of discovery of each other. True intimacy through communication is what that can make sex great. If you and your lover/partner are afraid to ask each other what you want because you think you may not get what you want, you will not be able to know how to thrill each other.

 

To get things moving, set the mood for a romantic evening with your partner/lover. You can play some bedroom games to spice things up. One of the ways you can do is each of you will write down all your sex fantasies on some cards. There will be no restrictions on what you write, no matter how outrageous and or politically incorrect some of them can be.

 

Next, you will read the cards together and divide them into 3 categories: fantasies that you love to act them out; fantasies you want to keep that way (e.g. sex with another man or woman or threesome) and fantasies that have nothing to do with your partner/lover. Then, eliminate those fantasies that turn one of you off. Both of you will take turns to choose a fantasy to act on it.

 

(2)   Spice up the missionary position

 

The normal missionary position does not allow a woman to have orgasm through penetration because it offers little chances to stimulate the clitoris or the g-spot. However, you can make some modifications/adjustments to increase the chances of hitting either the clitoris or the g-spot. At the same time, she can also offer stimulation to herself or her man.

 

Have your girl lie on her back with her right leg on your right shoulder. Bend her left leg and place it beside your right side. Then you adjust yourself to enter her. For some added stimulation, she can use her free hands to either rub the clitoris or fondle your testicles (balls).

 

You can also put pillow or a love cushion under her buttocks so that the lower part of her body is further away from the flat surface, an angle which can increase the chances of stimulating the g-spot when you penetrate her. Your girl can pleasure you at the same time by using her fingers to press on the area between the anus and the testicles, which is an often-ignored erogenous zone.

 

(3)   Reaching for the A-spot

 

It is the anus, which is also another often-neglected erogenous zone. You can take turns pleasuring each other’s anus using fingers or tongue. Try a small, thin vibrator. If you want to proceed with penetration, you have to lubricate the vibrator or wear lubricated latex glove to prevent internal skin tears. A woman can massage the male g-spot (prostate) by thrusting one finger between 1-2 inches deep into the anus with palm facing up. This can also give the feeling of wanting to urinate, which also happens when the female g-spot is being stimulated.

 

(4)   Add in visual stimulation

 

Men are visual creatures. They get aroused either by looking at women’s breasts or watching porn. For the sake of this, position some mirrors at certain locations or angles that can allow both of you to see yourself in action like directing your own porn movie. You can also buy her some sexy lingerie (which you find arousing). I personally find those lacy black ones quite seductive.

 

(5)   Mutual masturbation

 

This can bring some playfulness back into sex. Get her to masturbate in front of you. Ask her to show you clearly how and where she likes to be touched. Since a woman can have multiple orgasms, after she gets an orgasm, you let her place her hand on yours to guide you in how to stimulate her in order to make her orgasm again. When you are able to masturbate her without help, while doing so, she can also offer you the same manual treatment of your genitals.

 

(6)   Condom trick

 

This is another way to add a little bit of fun into sex. She will hold the condom so that the rolled up edge is facing her. She holds the condom between the lips with part of her tongue in the condom. She will place the condom on the tip of the penis. With her teeth hiding behind the lips, she will glide her lips upwards along the shaft of the male organ to unroll the condom.

 

There you go. It is not difficult to achieve a great sex life. What you need to do is to talk with one another your expectations about sex. You and your partner/lover also need to recognize that both have equal and joint responsibility for romance, for having an intimate and successful relationship.

 

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