How To Turn A Girl On With Erotic Massage






A sensual massage can create an erotic and relaxing experience for both the person giving the massage and the person receiving it. An erotic massage can relax a woman’s body, mind and spirit through intimate touch which serves to increase her libido. Knowing how to create a truly erotic experience using massage as foreplay will not only get her into the mood and make her orgasm easily, but pretty much guarantee that she will rock your world in return. Use these erotic massage tips to provide the best massage experience that can quickly and easily re-energize you and your partner’s love life.


(1)   Create a conducive atmosphere


Light some scented candles to set the mood with a soft light and switch off all other lights. Lighting candles can relax the spirit and state of mind. The scent from candles has therapeutic effect that reduces stress and anxiety. Scented candles can add to the effect you are trying to achieve especially if you burn scents like sandalwood, lavender and jasmine. Try playing some of her favorite music in the background. The air conditioner should be adjusted to a comfortable room temperature. It should not be too cold as to make your girl shiver nor too warm to make her sweat. Maintain a nice room temperature will allow your woman to feel comfortable even when she is naked.


(2)   Keep her comfortable


Make sure your girl is comfortable and the bed is suitable for you to work on. You can provide a soft pillow to have her head relax on it. Prepare for the encounter beforehand by making the bed with soft fabrics. Cover the bed with a large towel to prevent massage oil and lotions from staining the fabric beneath it.


(3)   Use some oils and lotions


A good sensual massage should involve all the senses, not just touch. Scented oils will include her sense of smell in the experience and enhance the overall massage process. Using massage oil can smooth the glide of your hand against her body and reduce any friction that may cause pain. Some common oils which you can use are sweet almond oil, sunflower oil, avocado oil and grape seed oil.


(4)   Start from the top


Apply a few drops of massage oil onto your hands and gently rub the neck from the base of the skull using your thumbs in circular motion. Slowly increase the pressure as you rub all the way out to the end of the shoulders. It should be firm, but not too much pressure that it hurts.


Then you firmly grip her shoulders right where they meet her neck on both sides. The trapezius muscle in the shoulder is usually affected first during stress. Therefore, this zone may be tenser than other areas of the body. Hence, applying more pressure to this area would be ideal. Press your thumbs onto her upper back. Squeeze her shoulders and release. She should immediately feel a slight release of tension. You continue squeezing and releasing her shoulders as well as applying pressure on her upper back with your thumbs a few times before you move to the upper arms.


Apply more oil and begin to softly massage each of her arms. Rub each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscles. Run your thumb down the center of the forearm, increasing pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Squeeze each finger and gently pull it outward to relax her finger joints. Apply firm pressure to the palms of her hands using your thumbs.


(5)   Work slowly down from her back


You can start with an up and down stroke then move on to a circular motion. Lock your elbow to straighten your arm and you lean your body forward as you press your palms on both sides of the backbone. After you press, you release and then you do this action up and down with your palms one to two times along both sides of her backbone.


Next you use larger circular strokes with your fingers near to the top of her back and switch to smaller circular strokes near the hip area. Knead on her buttocks using your fingertips. Make a switch to apply pressure using your knuckles up and down the buttocks.


When you move to the legs, you apply more oil and rub both legs one at a time. Firmly knead the calves in a circular motion. Then you use your elbow or forearm to press against the thigh as you move further down to the feet to squeeze the ankles.


Next you begin the foot massage by squeezing the sole. You use your thumb and index finger to squeeze on each toe. As you move to the tip of each toe, you gently pull on it outward to relax the toe joint. You do the same with the other foot.


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How To Get A Woman To Have More Sex With You





Are you happy with your sex life? Are you happy with the amount of sex you have? If you want to turn a woman on and make her want you more, read on.


(1)   Touch her properly


Every woman likes to be touched because this gives her feelings of warmth and comfort. The way you touch her will differentiate between giving a good touch and a bad touch. Before she is really in the mood if you just reach out and grab her breasts, buttocks or genitals, this will make her feel like objectification, not affection. This is bad touch. It will only get her upset and react defensively – a big turn off. Your behavior looks desperate to her. Being patient is a better way to getting sex than aggressive advances.


What is good touch? You can try hugging, kissing or holding and squeezing her hands. Women want to feel connected to their partners in ways that do not always involve sex. Men are very mechanical and visual. When a guy sees something sexy, he can get aroused very quickly and go straight into sex.


Women, on the other hand, are very emotional. You have to get her in the mood first. You have to make her feel sexy before she can act sexy. Some research studies show that if you hug a woman for 30 seconds it can raise her oxytocin level. Oxytocin is a hormone that makes her feel loved and connected and helps put her in the mood. So start with a hug.


(2)   Do not believe what you see in porn


Porn is supposed to be entertaining so as to encourage you to keep watching. Almost all of the porn movies are created by men and for men, who do not have a clue about what really turns a woman on. The brain is a woman’s main sex organ. In order to turn her on, you have to work on her brain first by seducing her and making her feel comfortable. Women crave pleasure and sex but they do not want it to look like some third-rate porn production. If you are in doubt about what can turn her on, ask her.


(3)   Pleasure her first and she will pleasure you back


You have to provide her with the kind of sex she wants. You have got to give as good as you get. If you want to receive oral sex, you have to give her oral pleasure first. Most women can orgasm best from clitoral stimulation. You can stimulate the clitoris with your tongue, fingers, vibrator or your sex organ using the rear entry or woman on top position.


(4)   Give her some space


It is a good idea to let your partner have some time for her own to help her recharge. Offer to watch the kids for a few hours so she can meet a friend for a few hours so she can meet a friend for coffee, read a book, or relax in a bubble bath. This ‘time off’ can let her wind down so that later she will be more ready to heat up later.


(5)   Talk and listen to her


During dating, men like to talk a lot in order to seduce, attract and win a woman’s heart. After she becomes your wife, most men just do not have the patience to talk and they just want to do it. In the long run, this can cause her to get bored with sex.


Remember what I just said that a woman’s brain is her main sex organ. In order to arouse her, you have to connect to her mentally and emotionally. Couples who communicate well with one another tend to have a more active sex life. Spend 20 minutes talking and listening to her can make her feel appreciated. Avoid stressful topics and stick to larger issues like current events and the world around you. If you can remember and repeat something she said few hours ago, she will be more impressed and you will be one step closer to sex.


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Sexy Ways To Touch A Man And Drive Him Wild




Make A Man Want You


When sexual frequency gets lower and you feel your man is emotionally drifting away from you, you begin to wonder, “How to please my man? How to get him want you more?” This may not be your fault! Because his behavior can be due to stress in his working place and most men do not like to talk about this at home.


What better way to help him relax by pampering him with a full body erotic massage? Humans need some caring physical contact on a daily basis. This is the wonderful thing for massage. It allows us to experience the sensual world of touch without the pressures of having sex. Massage is a wonderful way to get close and sensual with someone you care deeply about. Here are some tips to touch him the right way.


(1)   Get Him Relaxed First


Some men may not be so receptive to receiving an erotic massage. You just ask him to let you try massaging him for 5 minutes and if he does not like it, you can stop. If he likes the idea, you can get him to do a few minutes of simple stretching beforehand. Start by connecting with your man through kind words, soft gazing into each other’s eyes, synchronized breathing, and/or caressing each other’s face or hands.



(2)   Start At The Head


When you are ready, you have him lie face up on the bed or any padded surface and you position yourself behind his head. You use your 1st 2 or 3 fingertips to gently rub in a circular motion over his temples and the center of the forehead. You then run your fingers across his entire face lighting tapping on his face. With your thumb and 1st finger, you rub his ear lobes and ears.


Next you place your fingertips on the hollows in the bone, where the back of his neck meets the skull, and you gradually increase the pressure on them. These hollows which serve as acupressure points are the often-ignored erogenous zones. You then grasp his head at the jaw and pull it gently towards you, stretching his neck muscles. By pressing the points and stretching muscles, you will increase his circulation, release his tension and allow sexual excitement to flow.


(3)   Working On His Chest And Hands


You use your thumb and forefinger to press gently on the indentations below the collarbone which are the little-known erogenous zones. You then move to the center of the breast bone, right over the heart. You feel for a dimple in the bone and press gently on it with your fingers.


Next you move to one of his arms and you focus on 2 erogenous zones, namely the armpit and the inner folding between his upper arm and forearm. These 2 areas are quite ticklish if a lot of pressure is applied on them, so you should just apply very little pressure using your fingertips. You then repeat the same on the other arm.


(4)   Pushing His Belly Button


The area between the belly button and his genitalia is another erogenous zone. With well-oiled hands, you press gently on an acupressure point which is 3 or 4 finger-width down from the navel. Make sure he empties his bladder before you press on this area. You can also find acupressure points where the legs join the trunk of the body. You gradually increase the pressure on them using the heel of your hand. Ask your partner to breathe into your hands while you stay at this position for a minute or two.


(5)   Moving To The Lower Part Of His Body


There are many different massage strokes that feel good on male genitals. It is usually safe to assume that firm and consistent stroking will feel best on him. One approach that some people favor is to select 2 favorite strokes and periodically alternating between them every once in a while. Here are the 3 different types of stroke you can try on.


(a)    Using your lubricated fingers, you stroke the under side of his genitals from the tip to the base for a couple of minutes. Using the other free hand, you roll his testicles in your palm.


(b)   You use one hand to stroke his penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. You then switch hand and repeat the same stroke, creating an alternating motion.


(c)    You sensuously caress the penis with one hand for about 10 seconds, and then give it one quick up-and-down stroke. Repeat this sensuous caressing for about 10 seconds, alternating between slow up-and-down and quick up-and-down strokes. You can continue with this until he ejaculates. It is up to the 2 of you to decide whether to finish this with an ejaculation or normal intercourse.


If this is your 1st massage, it is a good idea to look into his eyes, while cradling his genitals and get his feedback on the type of stroke he likes. One of the skills that come with practice is being able to read his arousal levels and smoothly and gradually ramping up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage.


I have provided you with some basic massage techniques to help you to be the original lover who can give him a night that he will want to repeat. Remember that if you treat him to this, chances are that he will repay you by working a little harder to please you sexually later.


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How To Make A Girl Want You Even If You Have A Below Average Size Penis




If your sexual organ is below 6 inches in length, you probably have a lower than average size one. However, this does not put you in a less advantage situation as compared to most other guys. At least, the chances of your girl complaining about painful sexual intercourse are much lower. Here are some of the sexual positions you can adopt to maximize the advantage of a small size penis.


(1)   Woman On Top


This position can help a woman to have orgasm faster. The beauty of this position is that it will not put too much painful pressure against her cervix. Moreover, with the woman on top position, she can take control and decide whether she wants to have an orgasm via her clitoris or her g-spot. Those guys with small size can use positions like Side Rider, See Saw, The Empress and Reverse Cow Girl to their advantage.


(a)    For the Side Rider position, your girl will be facing you sideways. She will be squatting and positioning herself above your genitals. Instead of the usual up and down movement, the lateral jerks can increase her sensitivity.


(b)   To get into the See Saw position, you sit up with legs straight while your girl sits on your lap with her legs on either side of your waist. You adjust your body and hers so that you can penetrate. As she rubs her genitals against yours, you can either fondle her breasts or massage her clitoris to get her high. If there is too much strain on you, she can lean back using her arms to support herself.


(c)    The Empress position is quite similar to the See Saw position, except that this time you lie on your back. She sits on your lap, while leaning back and supporting herself on her hands. To maximize her chances of g-spot orgasm, have her lean back, supporting her weight on her hands.


(d)   In the Reverse Cow Girl position, you will lie on your back and your girl will sit on your lap, facing away from you. She can be leaning forward or holding her chest straight up. From here, you can give a good spanking to spice things up.


(2)   Rear Entry


The doggie position is a win-win for you and your girl. When performed at the correct angle, this position can make even the smallest penis feel quite large and at the same time allows you to stimulate the clitoris with your fingers. You rest her head on the pillow while having her buttocks raised in the air. Her thighs should be drawn together as you penetrate her. You lean forward allowing deep penetration which gives you higher chances to stimulate the g-spot, which can get her to reach orgasm as quickly as possible.


An alternative rear entry you can try is by getting her lay flat on her belly. You can then slip 1 or 2 pillows under her hips until her buttocks arches upward. You adopt the half-kneeling posture and position your genitals to facilitate penetration. You spread her thighs just enough to allow penetration. After that you hold her thighs together so that your sexual organ can feel huge inside her.


(3)   Pillow-Supported Missionary


She will be lying on her back with a pillow under her buttocks or a love cushion. You bend her legs backward so that her knees are fairly close to her chests. Once you enter her, it will feel as if you are filling her vaginal completely. This position is difficult for her to maintain so you can either let her legs rest on your shoulders or your forearms.


(4)   V-Formation


She lies on the edge of the bed and spreads her legs wide until they form a v-pattern. You grab on to her ankles or her feet and you penetrate her in a standing position.


An alternative way is she will be lying down on bed like in a normal missionary position with her legs spreading out forming a v-pattern. You then enter her in a kneeling position. Both these positions allow you to penetrate her deeply, an advantage to guys with small sexual organs.


If you are anything like me, being in the smaller size category, these sexual positions should ease your anxiety because they can effectively make a girl orgasm by stimulating either/both her clitoris or/and g-spot. She will then not be able to feel any difference between a big size and a small size penis as she will be too engrossed with all the pleasure you give her.


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What Can You Do If She Is Afraid of Your Big Penis



Find Out From Here About How To Give Her The Best Orgasm

You are one of those guys who are blessed with an above average size sexual organ. You feel flattered when other guys are awed by it when they inadvertently catch a glimpse of your well endowed male organ. You believe most women will think and feel the same way and they will prefer a bigger size penis.


In reality, this is not entirely true. For many women a larger penis is actually less pleasurable and can even bring them pain during sexual intercourse. This is bound to lead to stress for her and you may feel guilty over the hurt that you have caused her. However, there are still some appropriate sexual positions you can adopt to make female enjoyment possible. Here are some big penis positions you can try on tonight.


(1)   Shallow Penetration


The area around the vaginal entrance is usually much more sexually sensitive than elsewhere because her clitoris is just located nearby. Due to this reason, shallow penetration is a win-win position for both you and your partner. Shallow penetration positions offer higher chances of rubbing the clitoris and also reduce the likelihood of painful sexual intercourse. The positions you can try for shallow penetration are Butterfly and Spoon.


(a)    To get into the Butterfly position, your girl will lay on just about any edge big enough with the feet on the floor and you stand or kneel between her legs to enter her. A pillow each under your knees and her buttocks will be useful and comfortable to help in the proper alignment of each other’s genitals. To intensify the pleasure, added manual stimulation can be performed on the receiving partner by either you or her without much difficulty.


Butterfly Position



(b)   To get into the Spoon position, she will lie on her side with you lifting one of her legs and you enter from behind. Penetration through this position is good for g-spot stimulation and of course ideally suitable for morning sex.


Spooning Position


(2)   Standing/Kneeling Penetration


Standing positions, especially those face to face ones are best suitable for guys with above average seize sexual organ. These positions also avoid the possibility of the guy’s genitals slipping out and offer higher chances of stimulating the g-spot. 4 standing positions you can try are the Down Stroke, Chapel, Dancer and Wheel Barrow.


(a)    To get into the Down Stroke position, she will lie on her back with her legs resting on your shoulders and you will enter her from a standing position.


Down Stroke Position


(b)   The Chapel Position is relatively easy for your girl. She will lie on the edge of the bed with her legs spreading wide. You will grab  her legs while you penetrate her in a kneeling position.


Chapel Position


(c)    In the Dancer position, you will stand facing each other and your girl will lift up one of her legs. You will support her the raised leg and enter her this way.


Dancer Position


(d)   As for the Wheel Barrow position, your girl will be in doggie position with her hands resting on a chair and you will pick her up by the waist. From here, you will enter her in a standing position.


Wheel Barrow Position


For all the above sexual positions, it will be helpful to apply some water-based lubricants to help ease the entry. If you are unsure how deep you should go, start shallow and make sure you encourage her to let you know how it feels, by using words such as ‘deeper’ or ‘harder’ when she is ready for more. This will be better than asking you to back off and pull out because she cannot take it anymore and is feeling sore.


Do keep the above tips in mind. You should find that highly pleasurable and satisfying penetrative sexual intercourse can be achievable by you and her despite your penis size. For more tips to have a good sex life, you can click on  Hot Sex and Great Lover


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