For Couples – How To Better Sex

 

 

 

 

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You and your partner have a very active sex life. But you find it always the same and it is getting boring. Both of you are very open with each other and are willing to try new things. You want to make sex life more fun for both of you, but not sure how to do it.

 

Here are some fun ways you can do to turn the heat on in the bedroom

 

(1)   Share And Act Out Your Fantasies

 

One of the ways to spice up your sex life and have fun with it is to share with your partner in detail what you fantasize about. If you still have fond memories of one of your school teachers, you can ask your partner to dress like him or her. In order to cultivate the mood for acting out each other’s fantasies, you will have to do away with all the inhibitions and allow yourself to be crazy or even outrageous.

 

If you are not sure how to start with what character you like to act, you can get some ideas by watching erotic movies, books or black comedies. After you have chosen the character you want to play in, the next thing to do is to get the required costumes and the related accessories and props to make it look real and fun.

 

(2)   Indulge In Your Fetish

 

To spice things up, you can push the boundary of your fantasy by engaging in fetish play. It is not unusual to be a fetishist and it is not something you should be embarrassed about. Incorporating a fetish into your love life, if both of you are comfortable with it, is the best way to bring the spark back into the bedroom.

 

If the object of your fetish is foot, you can incorporate this by spending more time on touching, smelling, tasting, kissing or handling the feet, ankle or toes of your partner or have your partner do this to your feet. Or, instead of giving or receiving a hand job, you or your partner can do a ‘foot job’ by using his/her feet to stimulate the genitals to orgasm.

 

Are you sexually aroused when dress in, or seeing your partner dresses in tight fabrics, or fantasizing about such scenarios? Well, either of you can dress like an acrobat, dancer, athlete or swimmer.

 

You can also expand this further by re-enacting scenarios from comic books or movies where characters are portrayed wearing such skin-tight costumes. These scenarios usually involve a damsel in distress and a super hero (Batman, Spiderman, or Superman) that comes to the rescue.

 

If you are obsessed with high heels, get your partner to put them on during sex. If you are obsessed with armpit, you can do away with the normal procedure of taking shower before sex.

 

If you enjoy watching or being watched during lovemaking, you can have sex in public or watching your partner or letting your partner watch you masturbating or playing with a toy. You can also consider asking another couple to join you in a group lovemaking session so that you can at the same time watch and being watched.

 

(3)   Try Phone Sex

 

The best thing about phone sex is that your partner cannot see you. This will allow both of you to be more comfortable to talk about all your fantasies and tell each other all the things you wish to do.

 

You can engage in phone sex by doing sexting. If you are too shy to say out certain things or you feel silly doing it, you can send sexy photos during the workday or texting hints about what you want to do together in the evening. If you are not sure what to say, you can check out the smartphone apps which offer a wide range of ideas.

 

If you feel that talking and sexting are still not fun enough you can make use of webcam and Skype. This is especially applicable if you and your partner are in separate places. You can get her to dress sexy, do a strip tease or even masturbate together.

 

These are just some of the ways you can make your sex life interesting. There are no limits to what you can do to spice sex up as long as you understand that intercourse is not just penetration and ejaculation. You are only limited by your imaginations and inhibitions.

 

Read on further at Hot Sex and Bedroom Games for more inspiration, ideas and tools to rekindle the flame of passion.

 

 

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For Couples – 7 Ways To A Happy Sex Life

 

 

 

 

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Do you miss those sexy, curious, early days when you are newly in love? These 7 tips can sure help you to bring back and relive those good old days.

 

(1)   Pump up the adrenaline

 

Adrenaline can act as an aphrodisiac for a committed relationship. It can inject some oomp into otherwise stale and ordinary days which tend to happen in a long-term relationship. When you stimulate your body, this will have a trickle down effect of stimulating both your mind and emotions.

 

Do something extraordinary with your partner. This will show your partner how much you care. Give bungee jumping, roller-coaster riding or watching horror movies, a try, if you dare. If you find that this is too extreme, you may consider horseback riding, go-karting, sampling exotic cuisines, enrolling for dancing or yoga classes or travelling to some exotic places together.

 

(2)   Sexy talk

 

Whispering sweet words into his/her ears, sending sexy text messages to let your partner know he/she is on your mind when you are apart can increase the emotional connection between the both of you. Sexting is a great way for committed couples to flirt with each other and make each other smile. It is also a good way to build anticipation which is like mental foreplay that could lead to the physical kind, too.

 

(3)   Encourage 2-way talking

 

It is essential to have a real conversation at least once a week. This should go beyond the day-to-day type of topics. Couples who communicate well with one another and share activities together are often more active in sex. Before spicing things up with toys or sexy lingerie, work on your communication skills.

 

Besides talking, you also need to know how to listen to keep the 2-way communication open. Pay attention to body language too. When you need your partner to do something or to make some changes, you package your requests in the form of compliment such as “I really enjoy very much when you for an evening walk to the park with me.” This will avoid the request from becoming like a complaint which can trigger defensive behavior.

 

Try to detach your emotions from the conversation. In times of strain these will be heightened which could lead to further conflict as you will be hypersensitive to remarks. If you are particularly upset about something, it will be better to vent out your frustration on paper rather than blurting it out. This will allow you to release any negative emotions as well as giving you the time and chance to organize your thoughts so that you can present your issue in a non-confrontational way.

 

(4)   Show appreciation and support

 

Besides saying, “I love you”, do not forget to say “thank you” to show your appreciation for the nice, little things he/she did for you. Remember to give compliments to let your partner know you still find him/her physically and emotionally attractive. Volunteer to help out if you can, when your partner is overwhelmed with too many things on hand.

 

Such nice, little, thoughtful daily gestures can have a cumulative effect to strengthen the foundation of your relationship, reducing the chances of breaking up when the relationship is under stress by some unexpected happenings. The wonderful thing is these acts of consideration and appreciation do not cost you any.

 

(5)   More kisses

 

Do you still remember those days when you were dating him/her, you often kissed each other when you met or when you were about to leave? Besides being an act of intimacy, the way you kiss can make or break a woman’s feelings for you. Kissing becomes a forgotten act for many couples in long-term relationships, unless this occurs during foreplay. Couples who kiss regularly tend to have sex more often. Most important, you kiss not just for the sake of initiating sex, but because you love and enjoy the feeling of kissing him/her.

 

(6)   Maintain eye contact when having sex

 

Eye contact immediately raises the intimacy level of any sexual act. Closing your eyes can sometimes send the wrong message that you are only present physically, but not emotionally or spiritually. Keeping your eyes open and looking directly into him/her reassures your partner that it is he/she that is turning you on in the particular moment.

 

(7)   Trying new things in the bedroom

 

Most people would love their partner to suggest something new to spice things up. Couples tend to stuck into a few things that they know and stop experimenting. But the brain is the biggest sex organ and any time you try something new, you are stimulating the brain’s natural desire for novelty.

 

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Crazy Sex Ideas To Turn A Woman On

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Are you looking for some really new crazy and sexy ideas to try on your lover? Do you want to try new things to spice up your sex life? Here are a few to get your started to turn an ordinary night into a night of incredibly hot sex.

 

(1)   Use Sexting

 

If you want to get your woman ready for a hot sexy night you should start the foreplay long before the actual action. The first thing to do is to prepare her mind by mentally warming her up. You can start with sexting. Technology is a great way to stay connected and build anticipation.

 

You can say something like, “I can’t stop thinking about how horny you make me!”, “I can’t believe just thinking of you is making me want you this much.”, “What are you wearing and what is the color of your panties?”, “I miss you so much. I need a picture.” Or, “Just a kiss isn’t going to be enough for me tonight. Start undressing now.”

 

If sex is getting routine, sending sexually explicit messages and pictures via text messages can set the tone for where you want the conversation to go. These can set off a chain of emotions including giggles as well as getting her hot, horny and wet.

 

(2)   Shower Together

 

Of course, this is more than just a shower. You can tease her by rubbing your penis against her buttocks, but do not penetrate yet. You take turns washing each other and have her give you a sensuous hand job while she applies soap on your penis. Don’t let her bring you to climax. Stop her when you are on the edge.

 

Then you reciprocate her effort by eating her pussy. You kneel down, spread her legs and lick her as if you are licking an ice cream cone. You suck her clitoris and insert your tongue into her pussy, darting in and out. At this stage, your purpose is to warm her up and not to make her orgasm yet. You stop before she comes. You will keep her in suspense and anticipation, driving her wild.

 

(3)   Give Her A Kinky Massage

 

If you really want to get a girl horny, give her a kinky massage. You can make this very visually stimulating by placing a mirror where both of you can get a view of what is going on from a different perspective. Use a little bit of massage oil and gently stroke her entire naked body. You can use food (such as whipped cream) to rub on her body or certain items such as cucumber, carrot and banana for inserting into some sexy places on her body.

 

You can bring in a variety of message-enhancing toys or sex toys such as vibrator or those improvised vibrators (back massager, electric toothbrush, and electric-powered razor) or even vibrating nipple clamps. You can take things further by blindfolding her and get her to guess the various types of objects you are using to touch her body. If she guesses it correctly, you will reward her by doing a certain sexual act she requests.

 

If you want to turn her on and pleasure her, make sure your massage covers all her sensitive areas such as her genitals, breasts and buttocks.

 

When massaging her buttock cheeks, you should also rub on the surrounding areas such as her hips, thighs and lower back. You can use your palms and fingers to vary the massage movement on the buttocks. You can slap on it once in a while to make this sexy buttock massage a little kinkier.

 

To caress her breasts, you can start by cupping your hand around her breast from underneath. Grab it and hold onto it up a little bit. You use your pointer finger and thumb to squeeze and rub the nipple. You can do this while you lick her clitoris. Or, you take turns to switch it up by sucking and licking on her nipples while you are fingering her down there. You can also encourage her to masturbate while you are working on her breasts.

 

(4)   Play Bedroom Games

 

A little bit of variety can go a long way to spice up your relationship. You can play some bedroom games to bring the erotic fun and excitement back to your relationship.

 

You can play this ‘Alphabet Game’ starting from A. You can both take turns going down the alphabet and kissing the body parts that begin with the letter you have.

 

A modified dice game will be fun with you and your partner assigning a sexual act for each number and combination of numbers on the pair of dice. You get to take turns rolling the dice and giving and receiving the sexual act as represented by the number you get.

 

You can try strip poker. Each time when someone loses, he/she has to remove an article of clothing.

 

(5)   Try Bondage

 

Bondage can be fun during sex if you use it correctly. You can add some silk scarves for gentle restraints to heighten her sexual desire. You have her hands confined or to blindfold her while you play and tease her. This will build her anticipation and have her begging for more.

 

Before playing bondage games, you have to make sure your partner is willing to give them a try. You do not want to whip out the handcuffs and all of sudden she just freaks out by this kind of rough sex. It is better to talk to each other the likes and dislikes before beginning any bondage sex.

 

Sex may become dull as a relationship matures, but it doesn’t have to be. Use these five tips to get more sexual pleasure and improve your overall sex life. When you are ready for more ideas to brush up your lovemaking skills, you can click on Kinky Sex.

 

 

 

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