Female Orgasm – How To Arouse A Woman In Romantic Ways

 

 

 

 

 

How to arouse a woman? How to make her wet? How to get women horny? What are the ways and things you can make a woman sexually aroused? Read below for answers to these questions.

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In order to arouse a woman, you have to make an effort in your foreplay for her. What I mean foreplay here is not just the things you should do in the bedroom before sex. In facts, there are lots of things or preparations you should do. In my definition, foreplay has two aspects. One is the emotional part and the other is the physical aspect.

 

What is emotional foreplay? It is a series of things outside the bedroom that you have to do as a great lover or partner in making her feel totally comfortable with you. It plays an important role in building up sexual intimacy. To be good in your emotional foreplay, you will have to make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

You will treat her as a person you are deeply in love and not just an object or outlet to vent your sex needs. You have to be romantic by giving her pleasant surprises which can be some small gifts (which she has always wants) or in the form of gestures. When you are not with her, you can romance her with sms text messaging.

 

Communication and emotional connection are both very important foundation for a strong relationship. You need to be patient and listen to her without interruptions her needs, wishes, concerns and problems.

 

You must first resolve any underlying issues outside the bedroom if you want to have a great sex life. If she is not so keen in sex, you have to find out the reasons. Sometimes, she may be troubled by certain conditions such as vaginismus (painful intercourse) or excessive and colored vaginal discharge. Besides getting her to seek medical treatment, you can search online for some self-help guides on vaginismus cure and how to treat yeast infection.

 

Once you have taken care of the emotional aspect of the foreplay, you can now work on physical aspect of the foreplay. In order to be effective in pleasing and teasing your woman, you will have to take things slowly. The longer you build anticipation, the more pleasure she feels when you reach her hot spots. You do this by deliberately leaving out her most obvious erogenous zones (nipples, clitoris) initially and instead spending more time on her less obvious ones which can be more sensitive to stimulation during the early stage of foreplay.

 

To make it sensationally intense for her, you can practice some light bondage by way of blindfolding her. As she is not going to know where you will be touching her next, this can be very arousing to her. In touching her, you can impress her with your creativity. There are many things in your house that can be used as sex tools. For example, you can use lightly stroke her with light feather that can be very ticklish and arousing. While touching her, you can either sweet talk or dirty talk to her.

 

At this point, your main aim is to give her pleasure and make it mutually enjoyable. Though it is best to give her an orgasm, you should not make having an orgasm the main goal for every intercourse session. This will put undue pressure on your woman, making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.

 

There is no one-size-fit-all way in arousing a woman. You have to customize or make special adjustments to the sexual techniques you master, in order to be effective in helping her to have the best orgasm she ever gets. You have to pay attention and observe how her body reacts to your move and touch.

 

Does she put her arms around you or caress you when you touch or penetrate her? If this happens, this means you are doing the right thing. Does she push you back or cover herself up? If this is so, you will have to make changes in your moves. Does she synchronize her movement with yours such as moving her hips in time with your thrust? If this is so, this means she is enjoying what you are doing to her. Does her breathing get more rapid? This is often a sign of she is quite close to orgasm.

 

How do you know if she is aroused enough? When she is wet down there, does this mean you can stop your foreplay? Many guys have this wrong assumption that when a woman is wet, this means she is ready for sex. Well, this is not so. When she is lubricated, it means her mind is starting to get sexual but still far away from the stage when she is about to orgasm. A clear sign of her been highly-aroused is when you see her vagina swollen or bulging due to increased blood flow to this region. You will see her clitoral hood covering her clitoris in contrast to the beginning when the clitoris is partially-exposed.

 

Though every woman is different, but for most women, the most effective way to arousing them is by way of clit stimulation, which is the easiest and best way to female orgasm. You can stimulate her clitoris by your hands, your mouth and tongue, your sex organ and sex toys. The best way is to let her have her first orgasm through clitoral stimulation before you enter her. She will then be very sensitive to your subsequent moves and will be able to achieve multiple orgasms.

 

What I suggest is 60% of your effort will be what you should do to please her when outside the bedroom. Once you do this well, you can be very sure, she will be very receptive to what you are going to do her in bed.  This is 60% emotional (laying the foundation) and 40% physical action in the bedroom.

 

For more ideas to make a woman want you, read on more to discover the Secrets of Female Orgasm and to find out What She Wants.

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For Couples – How To Better Sex

 

 

 

 

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You and your partner have a very active sex life. But you find it always the same and it is getting boring. Both of you are very open with each other and are willing to try new things. You want to make sex life more fun for both of you, but not sure how to do it.

 

Here are some fun ways you can do to turn the heat on in the bedroom

 

(1)   Share And Act Out Your Fantasies

 

One of the ways to spice up your sex life and have fun with it is to share with your partner in detail what you fantasize about. If you still have fond memories of one of your school teachers, you can ask your partner to dress like him or her. In order to cultivate the mood for acting out each other’s fantasies, you will have to do away with all the inhibitions and allow yourself to be crazy or even outrageous.

 

If you are not sure how to start with what character you like to act, you can get some ideas by watching erotic movies, books or black comedies. After you have chosen the character you want to play in, the next thing to do is to get the required costumes and the related accessories and props to make it look real and fun.

 

(2)   Indulge In Your Fetish

 

To spice things up, you can push the boundary of your fantasy by engaging in fetish play. It is not unusual to be a fetishist and it is not something you should be embarrassed about. Incorporating a fetish into your love life, if both of you are comfortable with it, is the best way to bring the spark back into the bedroom.

 

If the object of your fetish is foot, you can incorporate this by spending more time on touching, smelling, tasting, kissing or handling the feet, ankle or toes of your partner or have your partner do this to your feet. Or, instead of giving or receiving a hand job, you or your partner can do a ‘foot job’ by using his/her feet to stimulate the genitals to orgasm.

 

Are you sexually aroused when dress in, or seeing your partner dresses in tight fabrics, or fantasizing about such scenarios? Well, either of you can dress like an acrobat, dancer, athlete or swimmer.

 

You can also expand this further by re-enacting scenarios from comic books or movies where characters are portrayed wearing such skin-tight costumes. These scenarios usually involve a damsel in distress and a super hero (Batman, Spiderman, or Superman) that comes to the rescue.

 

If you are obsessed with high heels, get your partner to put them on during sex. If you are obsessed with armpit, you can do away with the normal procedure of taking shower before sex.

 

If you enjoy watching or being watched during lovemaking, you can have sex in public or watching your partner or letting your partner watch you masturbating or playing with a toy. You can also consider asking another couple to join you in a group lovemaking session so that you can at the same time watch and being watched.

 

(3)   Try Phone Sex

 

The best thing about phone sex is that your partner cannot see you. This will allow both of you to be more comfortable to talk about all your fantasies and tell each other all the things you wish to do.

 

You can engage in phone sex by doing sexting. If you are too shy to say out certain things or you feel silly doing it, you can send sexy photos during the workday or texting hints about what you want to do together in the evening. If you are not sure what to say, you can check out the smartphone apps which offer a wide range of ideas.

 

If you feel that talking and sexting are still not fun enough you can make use of webcam and Skype. This is especially applicable if you and your partner are in separate places. You can get her to dress sexy, do a strip tease or even masturbate together.

 

These are just some of the ways you can make your sex life interesting. There are no limits to what you can do to spice sex up as long as you understand that intercourse is not just penetration and ejaculation. You are only limited by your imaginations and inhibitions.

 

Read on further at Hot Sex and Bedroom Games for more inspiration, ideas and tools to rekindle the flame of passion.

 

 

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How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

Use these tips for a start to spice up sex and give your wife or lover the best sex that will blow her mind. If you need more ideas to please her, check out Hot Sex and/or Make Her Cum.

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How Female Orgasm Works

 

 

 

 

 

How can I make a girl orgasm? Why she can’t orgasm when we are having intercourse? What is wrong? There is nothing wrong with you and your girl at all. Around 75% of women do not reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina intercourse alone. This does not mean that 75% of women do not experience a sexual climax. The truth is that sex is more than just intercourse and orgasm. In order to help put your woman into the 25% who enjoy sex and make her like you a lot, you have to understand the process of sexual response. Any sexual experience will involve some or all of the 5 stages which are desire, arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution.

 

(1)   Desire

 

Desire is simply the wish or urge to participate in any sexual activity or some kind of sex. This desire works in the same way as feeling hungry which makes you want to eat.In a sexual context, desire is a matter of having an appetite to have sex at a given time which is sometimes described as being “hungry” or “horny”. Without this feeling of sexual desire, sex in any form is not going to be enjoyable. This feeling of desire can happen when all or any of the 5 senses of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste are being stimulated. This can also occur when we are talking about sex with someone else. In order to get aroused, we need to have desire first.

 

(2)   Arousal

 

What happens when you or someone is aroused? When we are aroused, blood pressure will go up, making our face red hot, breathing and heartbeat gets faster. Our body becomes very sensitive and responsive to touch. There will be an increase in the flow of blood to the genital issues. Your penis will get hard. Her nipples become erect or swollen and the breasts get slightly fuller. Her clitoris and vaginal lips become puffed up. She will start to get wet (vaginal lubrication). The deeper end of the vaginal also expands and pulls back a bit, making her feel emptier inside the vagina. Though a guy can get aroused very quickly, but for a woman, this usually can happen if you are patient in giving her a good foreplay.

 

(3)   Plateau

 

When sexual stimulation continues, our arousal may then progress to the plateau phase. We get this “high” feeling or a feeling of being “on the edge”. Your body will feel increasingly sensitive, face, lips or chest get flushed, or the heart beat gets even stronger. The same thing also happens to her.

 

(4)   Orgasm

 

This is the peak of sexual excitement which happens after the plateau stage. The muscles especially around the pelvis region will expand and contract and the body will secrete more good-feeling hormones such as endorphins. For a guy, he will reach the point of no return and ejaculate. For a woman, she must be stimulated all the way (without stopping) in order to reach orgasm.

 

(5)   Resolution

 

The pressure that builds up in the body to reach orgasm is finally released just like the popping of an inflated balloon. Both you and your girl will feel physically and psychologically relaxed. Blood that fills up the genitals and other sensitive body parts will drain out causing them to return to their normal state. This resolution stage can also happen without orgasm when all forms of sexual stimulation are stopped abruptly.

 

Now that you understand how orgasm can happen to you and your woman, you can start applying this knowledge in your sex life now. In order to get her to enjoy sex and experience full arousal, plateau and climax, you need to stimulate more than just her genitals. Her state of mind is of utmost importance. Her mind needs to be stimulated as well to get in the mood.

 

Do you want to be the special guy who can make orgasm easily happen to a girl? Do you want to give her the best experience she ever had? If you want to, you can read on further from Hot Sex and Make Her Cum.

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Sexy Moves To Get A Man Hard

 

 

 

 

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Are you getting less than the amount of sex you want? Are you looking for ways to get your man in the mood? Want to know what a man wants?

 

At times, your guy may need a little more than a grope to get him into action. If he is turned on in the right way, his body will become more receptive and his orgasm more intense. Follow these tips and make your man crazy for you.

 

(1)   Give him visual stimulation

 

Men are visual creatures. A man’s brain chemistry changes when he is presented with a sexy image. Therefore flaunting your body will make his desire climb. Let him see you undress. Play up to his eyes with a slow, seductive striptease and watch him go weak at the knees. It will be best if you can torture him in a good way by letting him look and not allowing him to touch. To really titillate him, let him sneak a peek at the good stuff – your breasts, buttocks and inner thighs – and then cover up again. When you are down to the last piece of cloth, removes it painfully slow to build up the sexual tension.

 

(2)   Give him pleasant surprises

 

To turn a man on, everything is in his head. While physical attraction may be important, it also takes a few mind games to surprise and seduce your guy once in a while to keep the heat on in your relationship.

 

At times, when he returns from work, you surprise him in your sexiest undies or whatever he likes. When he is taking a shower, you unexpectedly join him and slowly soap up his entire body. It is pretty obvious to the both of you that at this moment getting clean is not the top priority. Your man will be so aroused that he can barely wait to get you into bed.

 

Once in a while, send him some playful, devilish phrases by way of texting or write them down on his date planner. These phrases can be like “Thinking of you makes me wet”, “I want sex tonight”, or “Sex @ 7pm”. The key is to make him feel like what you are doing is sexy and he will always get aroused by you.

 

(3)   Show him what works

 

Showing your man what turns you on can be just as arousing for him. If he misses the mark, guide his hands with your own to any part of your body you want him to be. Gently run your fingertips around your breasts as you two enjoy foreplay to let him catch sight of the way you like to be touched.

 

When he is on top, you put your hands firmly on his buttocks, to let him know how fast or slow you want him to move. When you are ready, you pull him deeply inside you. When you reach orgasm, you put your hand over his heart. If he can see the pleasure he is giving you, it will boost his confidence and help him to relax and get hard.

 

(4)   Bring him to the edge

 

Use the start and stop trick to tease your guy mercilessly and bringing him close to climax repeatedly in order to give him an intense orgasm. When you are jerking him off, alternate attention between the tip of the penis (which is extremely sensitive) to the base (which can take more stimulation). Read his body language to determine when he is close to exploding and you ease off. If you do not want him to climax yet, move your focus to another lusty location. This will keep him at a highly aroused stage but still allow him to hold back his climax. When you are ready to finish him off, his orgasm will be more powerful later.

 

Use these tips to get your man to appreciate your body, desire you and feel lucky to have you. Be sexually unpredictable and he will awe you. Gets his horny mind working and he will always get aroused by you.

 

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