For Couples – 7 Ways To A Happy Sex Life





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Do you miss those sexy, curious, early days when you are newly in love? These 7 tips can sure help you to bring back and relive those good old days.


(1)   Pump up the adrenaline


Adrenaline can act as an aphrodisiac for a committed relationship. It can inject some oomp into otherwise stale and ordinary days which tend to happen in a long-term relationship. When you stimulate your body, this will have a trickle down effect of stimulating both your mind and emotions.


Do something extraordinary with your partner. This will show your partner how much you care. Give bungee jumping, roller-coaster riding or watching horror movies, a try, if you dare. If you find that this is too extreme, you may consider horseback riding, go-karting, sampling exotic cuisines, enrolling for dancing or yoga classes or travelling to some exotic places together.


(2)   Sexy talk


Whispering sweet words into his/her ears, sending sexy text messages to let your partner know he/she is on your mind when you are apart can increase the emotional connection between the both of you. Sexting is a great way for committed couples to flirt with each other and make each other smile. It is also a good way to build anticipation which is like mental foreplay that could lead to the physical kind, too.


(3)   Encourage 2-way talking


It is essential to have a real conversation at least once a week. This should go beyond the day-to-day type of topics. Couples who communicate well with one another and share activities together are often more active in sex. Before spicing things up with toys or sexy lingerie, work on your communication skills.


Besides talking, you also need to know how to listen to keep the 2-way communication open. Pay attention to body language too. When you need your partner to do something or to make some changes, you package your requests in the form of compliment such as “I really enjoy very much when you for an evening walk to the park with me.” This will avoid the request from becoming like a complaint which can trigger defensive behavior.


Try to detach your emotions from the conversation. In times of strain these will be heightened which could lead to further conflict as you will be hypersensitive to remarks. If you are particularly upset about something, it will be better to vent out your frustration on paper rather than blurting it out. This will allow you to release any negative emotions as well as giving you the time and chance to organize your thoughts so that you can present your issue in a non-confrontational way.


(4)   Show appreciation and support


Besides saying, “I love you”, do not forget to say “thank you” to show your appreciation for the nice, little things he/she did for you. Remember to give compliments to let your partner know you still find him/her physically and emotionally attractive. Volunteer to help out if you can, when your partner is overwhelmed with too many things on hand.


Such nice, little, thoughtful daily gestures can have a cumulative effect to strengthen the foundation of your relationship, reducing the chances of breaking up when the relationship is under stress by some unexpected happenings. The wonderful thing is these acts of consideration and appreciation do not cost you any.


(5)   More kisses


Do you still remember those days when you were dating him/her, you often kissed each other when you met or when you were about to leave? Besides being an act of intimacy, the way you kiss can make or break a woman’s feelings for you. Kissing becomes a forgotten act for many couples in long-term relationships, unless this occurs during foreplay. Couples who kiss regularly tend to have sex more often. Most important, you kiss not just for the sake of initiating sex, but because you love and enjoy the feeling of kissing him/her.


(6)   Maintain eye contact when having sex


Eye contact immediately raises the intimacy level of any sexual act. Closing your eyes can sometimes send the wrong message that you are only present physically, but not emotionally or spiritually. Keeping your eyes open and looking directly into him/her reassures your partner that it is he/she that is turning you on in the particular moment.


(7)   Trying new things in the bedroom


Most people would love their partner to suggest something new to spice things up. Couples tend to stuck into a few things that they know and stop experimenting. But the brain is the biggest sex organ and any time you try something new, you are stimulating the brain’s natural desire for novelty.


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Female’s Most Sensitive Yet Unnoticed Erotic Organ

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It is a reality that the majority of guys apparently do not notice and if they do recognize, they just do not do something about that knowledge. If guys will to work on it, the world can be a lot better with more contented women out there.


Mind to make a guess? Which is the most sensitive and crucial erotic organ (yet completely neglected by most men) on a woman’s body, that if correctly stimulated would provide her the most overwhelming orgasm? Is it her clitoris or her G spot?


Well, it is her thoughts, her imaginations, and her feelings of chemistry with the guy that makes her sexually excited. So, here you are, it is HER BRAIN that is the most important and powerful sex organ in a woman’s body.


With this fact, the question now arises is: “How do I sexually stimulate her B Spot?”


(1)        Feeling, Not Action


One of the reasons that couples start to think they are getting into a rut or that their sex lives rapidly become boring over time, is that they get too focused on what they are doing instead of what they are feeling. Clothes off, some kissing here, a little breast stroking there, giving a little oral sex and then proceed into the intercourse stage, the same procedure being done over a hundred times and needless to say things can get dull. It often happens that after you have had sex with your partner a dozen times, to easily start taking for granted about what she needs to be sexually aroused.


Love can never become boring if you inject the feelings of intimacy into your relationship, which is an infinite source of sexual pleasure and interest. When you are in love, it is always thrilling. Not all couples who are in love can translate that love into their sex life. It needs confidence, courage and intention to bring those intimate emotions into your sexual relationship.


Making the effort to connect with her and bringing her emotional world into the erotic world is most necessary to get her sexually crazy about you. Unfortunately, this is not the message that most guys get from the media. When men want to get turned on, they watch porn or gaze at hot girls in calendars or swimsuit magazines – there is nothing mentioned about her emotions at all.


However, women get sexually excited in a different way. You need to appreciate this truth and make an attempt to connect with her in a loving way – a ridiculously effective way to improve your sex life.


Here is how you can foster intimacy in your daily life with her:


(a) Eye contact


By looking into her eyes when she talks to you, you are showing interest in what she says and paying attention to her. This will make her feel appreciated as a woman so that when the moment comes she is less likely to resist what you want in bed.


(b) Touching


Touching in the form of kissing, massaging, stroking and caressing can help in the secretion of Oxytocin, the bonding chemical. Touching not for the purpose of foreplay or going into lovemaking creates a feeling of closeness. Try doing this for few days without sex can build up the tension that leads to stronger connection and more intense sexual encounter.


(c) Do something extraordinary


For example, if you notice that she is missing her parents or a close friend for quite some time, you can plan a small meeting for her. Call the respective person(s) and tell him/her or them your plan. Tell him/her or them that you want to surprise her and ask the person(s) involve coming over to your place not to let her know. This will show your partner how much you care. You will be surprised at how much your partner will be pleased about you for taking into consideration her needs and desires.


(d) Doing things together


Cooking a romantic dinner together provides chances for intimacy and closeness. When she is doing spring cleaning of the house, you can help to clean up certain sections of the house. Make an effort to experience and discover things together. Go and sign up for the yoga or dance class together.


(e) Buy each other sentimental gifts


This does not necessary have to be any expensive gift. It will be most effective if you can make her feel touched by choosing those gifts that show you clearly understand her needs.


(2)        Talk To Her


Whispering sweet words into her ear, sending sexy text messages can keep your partner thinking about you all the time and increasing the connection between the both of you. Talking about your feelings or emotions, asking about hers, telling her how she is making you feel, describing what her skin feels like or what she smells like, telling her what you want her to do for you are also great ways to get real connection with her brain and make the sexual experience much more intense for her.


Women will tell you that most guys are totally silent in bed. Some will make an effort at “dirty talk” but only some really make an effort at connecting in some real way.  If you are with a woman who likes to be talked to in this manner and if you do so, then you are exactly stimulating her brain and you will receive powerful results from her pleasure.


However, if you are uncomfortable with “chatting” during sex, you can communicate in other ways without words such as using touch, sigh, sounds and eye contact.


(3)        Create the atmosphere and feel


A romantic setting certainly can stimulate her “B-Spot.” The apparent way to do here is to light candles or adjust the bedroom lighting, lay out rose petals on the bed, play soft music, etc.


However, the setting does not have to be romantic. Moreover, not all men like that mushy stuff and neither do all women.


Making the choice to do it at some places can be thrilling to different couples. The risk of getting caught can make a public car park more sexually stimulating than those rose petals for some couples.


If she is an exhibitionist, all you have to do is to tell her to imagine and fantasize the place you enjoying making love with her. Yes, that is correct, can you still recall about what I mentioned earlier? Use your words again! This can take place before sex to set the scene.


Do remember that creating the setting is even more effective when it does not require a physical setting but rather an emotional one. If you can recollect about the kind of things that turn women on in the films/soap operas – forbidden love, romantic destiny, and wild passion – these are the things that you can create in her brain before entering the bedroom. This requires some imagination and effort.


Obviously, these tips are only the basic ways to turn her on. To fully understand a woman’s sexual reaction is more complicated. To actually know how to use that knowledge to turbo-charge your sex life is a different level of understanding. When you are ready for that “next level” and keen to know more, you can move onto Hot Sex and Turn Her On.

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