How To Turn A Girl On With Erotic Massage






A sensual massage can create an erotic and relaxing experience for both the person giving the massage and the person receiving it. An erotic massage can relax a woman’s body, mind and spirit through intimate touch which serves to increase her libido. Knowing how to create a truly erotic experience using massage as foreplay will not only get her into the mood and make her orgasm easily, but pretty much guarantee that she will rock your world in return. Use these erotic massage tips to provide the best massage experience that can quickly and easily re-energize you and your partner’s love life.


(1)   Create a conducive atmosphere


Light some scented candles to set the mood with a soft light and switch off all other lights. Lighting candles can relax the spirit and state of mind. The scent from candles has therapeutic effect that reduces stress and anxiety. Scented candles can add to the effect you are trying to achieve especially if you burn scents like sandalwood, lavender and jasmine. Try playing some of her favorite music in the background. The air conditioner should be adjusted to a comfortable room temperature. It should not be too cold as to make your girl shiver nor too warm to make her sweat. Maintain a nice room temperature will allow your woman to feel comfortable even when she is naked.


(2)   Keep her comfortable


Make sure your girl is comfortable and the bed is suitable for you to work on. You can provide a soft pillow to have her head relax on it. Prepare for the encounter beforehand by making the bed with soft fabrics. Cover the bed with a large towel to prevent massage oil and lotions from staining the fabric beneath it.


(3)   Use some oils and lotions


A good sensual massage should involve all the senses, not just touch. Scented oils will include her sense of smell in the experience and enhance the overall massage process. Using massage oil can smooth the glide of your hand against her body and reduce any friction that may cause pain. Some common oils which you can use are sweet almond oil, sunflower oil, avocado oil and grape seed oil.


(4)   Start from the top


Apply a few drops of massage oil onto your hands and gently rub the neck from the base of the skull using your thumbs in circular motion. Slowly increase the pressure as you rub all the way out to the end of the shoulders. It should be firm, but not too much pressure that it hurts.


Then you firmly grip her shoulders right where they meet her neck on both sides. The trapezius muscle in the shoulder is usually affected first during stress. Therefore, this zone may be tenser than other areas of the body. Hence, applying more pressure to this area would be ideal. Press your thumbs onto her upper back. Squeeze her shoulders and release. She should immediately feel a slight release of tension. You continue squeezing and releasing her shoulders as well as applying pressure on her upper back with your thumbs a few times before you move to the upper arms.


Apply more oil and begin to softly massage each of her arms. Rub each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscles. Run your thumb down the center of the forearm, increasing pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Squeeze each finger and gently pull it outward to relax her finger joints. Apply firm pressure to the palms of her hands using your thumbs.


(5)   Work slowly down from her back


You can start with an up and down stroke then move on to a circular motion. Lock your elbow to straighten your arm and you lean your body forward as you press your palms on both sides of the backbone. After you press, you release and then you do this action up and down with your palms one to two times along both sides of her backbone.


Next you use larger circular strokes with your fingers near to the top of her back and switch to smaller circular strokes near the hip area. Knead on her buttocks using your fingertips. Make a switch to apply pressure using your knuckles up and down the buttocks.


When you move to the legs, you apply more oil and rub both legs one at a time. Firmly knead the calves in a circular motion. Then you use your elbow or forearm to press against the thigh as you move further down to the feet to squeeze the ankles.


Next you begin the foot massage by squeezing the sole. You use your thumb and index finger to squeeze on each toe. As you move to the tip of each toe, you gently pull on it outward to relax the toe joint. You do the same with the other foot.


You will know that you have performed a satisfactory job when your girl craves more of your massage in the future. Want to find some more ways to please her? Go to Foreplay Massager and Pleasure Kit

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Spice Up Your Sex Life with some Playful Spanking

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You probably have seen it in movies or heard some women talking about how they enjoy it. Erotic spanking is probably one of the most socially acceptable forms of sexual acts.  Playful spanking (which involves sensually smacking, hitting or slapping a person’s buttocks or thighs) gives quick shocks of stimulation and increases arousal.


Here is how to spank to make your sex life fun for you and her:


(1)   Tune yourself into the mood by reading or watching erotic stuff


(2)   There is a need to have a constant feedback between the person doing the spanking and the one receiving it. Each person has different comfort level in wanting how hard to be spanked.


(3)   You need to be careful in which areas of the body to spank. Choose only those parts of the body which is fleshy such as buttocks, thighs and backs of the calves. You should not spank those fragile body parts, bony areas, joints, organs, spine and kidneys.


(4)   You can try different positions to see which one she is comfortable with. You can get her to lie down on your lap or to bend over a bed, chair or table.


(5)   You should use what you have at your disposal or be creative in enriching the experience. You can press your tongue, lips against her body. Try running a feather on the entire back side or some light scratching in circles or straight line motion to create some ticklish sensation.


(6)   You can start with gentle patting then slowly harder and after a while switch back to softer spanking and later harder again. After a hard slap, ease up a bit by licking on the places being spanked, lightly rubbing them, kissing them before you spank again. While doing this you can also whisper sweet things in her ears or talk dirty or even masturbate her.


(7)   You can consider role playing. The “teacher” spanking his “naughty student”. The “doctor or nurse” spanking the “patient” for not taking her medicine.


End the spanking with a good rubdown using lotion or massage oil to soothe the areas that are being spanked. It will be better to cuddle her after this as most women likes to be hugged. Spanking is just one of the ways to enrich your sexual experience. If you want to know of other ways t make sex more fun, you can go to Hot Sex and Dirty Harry’s Secrets.



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