Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Naughty Games To Spice Up Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Are you feeling that your sex life is a bit boring? Are you looking for ideas to make a hot sex life even more scorching? It is therefore very important to add some variety to your everyday sex life to make it enjoyable and spicy. Adding sex games to your sexual repertoire can really turn the heat up in the bedroom. At the same women also like creative things to make life interesting.

 

The main aim of playing bedroom games is to keep sex fun and therefore winning is not the priority. Avoid setting very tough rules to spoil the mood. Both of you should make some common rules which are equally applicable to both partners to avoid either party being hurt physically or mentally.

 

Here are lists of the sex games ideas you can try tonight.

 

(1)   Strip dice

 

One of you will roll the dice to start the game. On each player’s turn, the one who is not rolling the dice will guess whether the roll of the dice will be higher or lower than the previous one. If the guess is incorrect, then the person will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(2)   Strip ping pong

 

Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table and grab some ping pong balls. You stand at one end of the table, with your partner at the other. Both of you will take turns to throw a ping pong ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table. The one who scores will get the right to demand the other to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

(3)   Taste, touch and guess

 

Get some honey, syrup, yogurt or other food items of similar textures. Put some of it on part of his/her body or you can use more than one kind on different parts. The other partner is blindfolded and he/she has to explore the body, to seek out the food and identify it only by taste and touch. The blindfolded party can do this with his/her hands or mouth or both.

 

(4)   Guessing game

 

Get naked, blindfold your partner and then play with his/her body. Start the touching from the shoulders, arms, legs, head and feet. Then go for the erogenous zones like chest, belly, neck, lips, back, buttocks, inner thighs and genital region. Give him/her all sorts of sensations to the skin and let him/her make a guess what items you are using to touch his/her body. You can use things like your lips, breath, tongue, hand, fingers, genitals, breasts, feather, silk scarf, ice cubes, and fruits and so on. If the guess is correct, he/she can demand certain sexual favor from the “touching” partner.

 

(5)   Bondage teasing

 

One of you will tie the other one to the bed or a chair and then take full control. You can liven up the atmosphere with some sexy background music. The one who is in control can keep some clothes on for a little while to start with, and perform a sexy striptease or lap dance for some extra fun. This will be followed by some teasing and playful touch on the submissive party, using some props such as a soft scarf, a vibrator, ice cubes, etc.

 

(6)   Kinky cards

 

Get a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treat each to the sexy move being drawn. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to perform each act. If you get the nine of diamonds, he/she has to give you a sensual massage for nine seconds. If your partner picks the five of the spades, you will have to give him/her a five-second oral pleasure.

 

(7)   Hands off

 

You can try this creative sex game immediately tonight because it is simple, fun and you do not need to get anything or use sex prop. Start with some foreplay, like giving each other oral sex and move on the real deal when you are hot, wet and ready. The trick to this sex game is that both of you can never use your hands on each other when performing any sexual acts – no hand job, no fingering her, no grasping of her hips while you enter her, etc. The first person to accidentally use his/her hands loses and the other person can demand a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

If you really love your partner, then you should try to be creative in your sex life. Besides breathing new life into boring sex, playing sexy games can help to find a lot about your partner (even his/her darkest desires) without having to prod him/her for information. Therefore, use these sex games to bring you closer to your partner.

 

If you are keen for more ideas to spice up sex, you can read on further from Fun Games To Play In The Bedroom and Creative Plus Erotic.

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How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

Use these tips for a start to spice up sex and give your wife or lover the best sex that will blow her mind. If you need more ideas to please her, check out Hot Sex and/or Make Her Cum.

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Fun Things To Do To Spice Sex Up

 

 

 

 

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Do you miss those days when it was so exciting and romantic to be together? Do you want to turn back the clock to those sexy, curious, early days when both of you started becoming a couple? Sometimes it helps to go back to the sexual basics when you need to break out of a routine or have a fresh start. If you are worried that sex is becoming stale and predictable, it is time to try something new. Here are some spicy ways to help you break out of a sex rut.

 

(1)   Explore and act out each other’s fantasies

 

You can invite your partner to slowly reveal aspects of his/her sexuality. Perhaps you can start in a less intimidating way with both of you writing down each of your secret and craziest desires on a small piece of paper and put it in a box. Think about what turns you on and what you like to have your partner do to you (or you to him). If you are not sure how to get started, you can read about some erotic stories or watch some erotic videos. After doing this, both of you will exchange your “fantasy box” with each other. Both of you will take turn to pick out a fantasy idea from the box and act it out.

 

(2)   Play with props

 

Props are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale and help you get inside an alternative reality while in the bedroom. Honey, peanut butter, whipped cream, ice-cream and hot fudge can be very sensual when eaten or licked off each other’s bodies. You can try things like massage oil or lotion, plastic sheet, blindfold, feather, furry handcuffs, vibrator, edible body paint, edible panties or tattoos, or dress up as someone from a fantasy. If you have fancy over people in uniform, you can get your partner a suit from the second hand store and tell him/her your wildest desires.

 

(3)   Be romantic

 

Make an “I love you” coupon book that each of you can use when you feel like it. Some coupon ideas include: Kiss me here. Wear my favorite ______. Call your partner in the middle of the day and explain what you want to do to him/her later that night.

 

Create an intimate mood by lighting some candles and filling the tub with bubble bath or scented oil, such as lavender oil. Take turns to rub each other all over with your hands or a sponge. Include a water-proof vibrating toy or sponge to enhance sensations.

 

Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate – just her favorite dessert will do. Or, you can pick up her favorite dessert on your way back home. Surprise her with small gifts at times.

 

Being too critical to your loved ones can hurt libido. Therefore find things to compliment each other. All of us like being praised from time to time, but more so, when the compliment comes from someone you love. However, be genuine in your appreciation, as false praise can hurt feelings.

 

Try kissing each other as often as you can. Kiss her the first thing in the morning. Women love simple displays of love and waking up your wife with a kiss, are sure to set her humming for the rest of the day. Spend at least five minutes kissing. This is the only thing that will help you to rediscover the passion and sexuality that your kisses hold.

 

(4)   Explore new activities as a couple

 

Try something different or enjoyable outside the bedroom. The chemical reaction produced by new activities is similar to the feelings you experience at the beginning of a new relationship. You could try dance lessons, tennis lessons, yoga or massage classes, or take cooking or language class together. Choose anything that engages you and teaches you something new that you can share.

 

Sex is more than just penetration. At least to a woman, it is a total engagement both emotionally and physically. Everything starts from our mind. Work on her mind is the first thing to make sex fun again.

 

For more ideas to spice up sex, read on further from Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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How To Make An Already Great Sex Exciting

 

 

 

 

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Are you looking for fun and erotic gift idea for your girl? There are many ways you can spice up your sex life and one of the ways is to offer her some or a set of sex toys. You may ask, “Why would I buy a sex toy for my girl?”

 

Well, sex toys are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale. Sex toys add variety and fun to the sex life of you and your partner. They keep an already great sex life exciting because they offer new ways to bring pleasure to yourself and your partner. Sex toys can be used during intercourse, or foreplay, or both.

 

Sex toys make a great partner substitute at times when either of you are not with each other or for some reasons such as pregnancy or menstruation when she is not comfortable to have sex. Some guys are intimidated by their girlfriends’ sex toys feeling that they may replace the guys in certain ways sexually. The fact is the experience for a woman being alone in her bedroom with a sex toy is very different from being with a man. Your girlfriend may enjoy using sex toys when you are not around because it makes self-stimulation easier and more pleasurable. There is no way that sex toys can replace a partner. To be jealous of a sex toy would be as absurd as her being jealous of your fingers.

 

Sex toys offer prolonged stimulation that may otherwise be difficult to sustain such as when your hands are tired or your tongue or lips may need to take a short break to get some water. Sex toys can help a partner to reach spots that he/she may not be able to or do not want to. An example of this is anal toys.

 

Sex toys can also promote good health.  An orgasm releases stress and tension. It is a great way to start the day or act as “tranquilizer” helping a person to relax before sleeping. Sex toys can help in coping sexual frustration that will allow a person to deal with all other issues they have to face with.

 

How To Choose A Sex Toy

 

If you are new to sex toys and sex fantasy kits, you may be overwhelmed by the wide range of choices being offered through various websites or racks at a local adult store.

 

Each toy has its own function as each one is created to give a special, erotic sensation. If you are looking for a creative gift idea to create a magical night for your partner, you should first think of what you like to accomplish. From here, you can proceed to look for the right toys to help make such a magical night happen.

 

The other thing you have to ask yourself is who will be using the toy. Is the toy meant for him/her to use alone or you want to use it with your partner? You should also consider your partner’s personality traits as well as your own. You have to check whether your partner is familiar with adult toys or are they comfortable with experimenting. If you first talk with your partner about this idea, you may be able to narrow down the choices to those that both of you are willing to try.

 

You may also want to consider how the sex toys should look like. Do you want the vibrator or dildo to look real? Of course the most important thing is to determine how much you are going to spend. If you are unsure of a particular type of toy, you may want to try out with a lower price model to see if it suits you before getting an expensive option.

 

Vibrators, dildos, cock rings, anal plugs and various massagers can prove to be creative, stimulating gifts. If you are looking for a night of erotic sex, these items should be included into a great sex kit for you and your partner.

 

When choosing toys, open and honest communication is very important. Do some research and learn about the different products. You may do so at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and/or Pleasure Kit

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