Couples Sex – How To Make It Fun

 

 

 

 

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Are you happy with your current love life? Do you usually feel too tired to have sex at the end of the day? Has the idea of being romantic with your partner losing its luster? Face it; sex will not be fun if there is not much substance to it. However, when you make some changes to your normal acts in the bedroom, everything just gets a lot more interesting and exciting. Use these tips from now on to heat up the temperature in your bedroom.

 

(1)   Take your time

 

The importance and key objective of foreplay is to build anticipation. Prolonging the undressing part can heighten the pleasure. As a woman, you can tease your man by letting him sneak a peek at your good stuff – breasts, buttocks, inner thighs – and then quickly cover up again.

 

When you finally get down to removing your panties, you do it painfully slow to keep his blood pressure rising. Once you are naked, you tease him by twisting your body over him in different directions, arching your back, letting your breasts brush against his face and chest. He will be yearning for your touch when you finally press your body against his.

 

For a guy, you should avoid the tendency to go straight for the genitals and breasts. Take things slowly. Concentrate on giving your woman the best kiss she ever had. Start kissing her everywhere (forehead, nose, cheeks, and eyes) but the mouth. This will drive your woman crazy and keep her in anticipation.

 

Hug her tightly without suffocating her. Start with slow open mouth kiss and tongue-contact. Between kisses, you move your head to the other side of her face. Changing direction keeps the kissing fun. Move your hands around and explore her whole body while kissing.

 

(2)   Pamper each other’s body

 

You get your man to lie down on his back and you rub his body with oil and cream. Be careful not to push down too hard on his stomach and delay touching his genitals until the anticipating is excruciating. You mix up your sexual touches with hard massage, long nail strokes and surprise pinches all over his body to pique his pleasure.

 

From the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a nerve which is said to link to the genital area. When you touch this area, it can reflexively cause the muscles around the genital area to contract in both men and women, which is very arousing. Apply a firmer touch on this area, since it is more ticklish than other spots. Start on one side at just underneath the rib cage and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between light and heavy kissing down to the hipbone. You take turns on doing this to each other.

 

For a guy, you should treat every area of her body as an erogenous zone. Make sure you touch and kiss those usually neglected area such as the neck, throat, inner arms, stomach and eyelids before moving on to the breasts and thighs.

 

There is another area which can spark more goose pimples for both sexes. It is the little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone. The skin is thinner there which makes this area very sensitive to touch.

 

(3)   Bring him/her to climax

 

When you move down to your guy’s lower body, you draw a circle around his genital region with your lips. The whole area from his upper thigh to lower belly is sensitive and the teasing from your mouth will excite him but still allow him to hold back his climax.

 

Read his body language to determine when he is close to climax and then ease off. When his body tenses up, you know he is quite close. If you do not want him to climax, you can switch your focus to another erotic location. When you are ready to finish him off, you can go directly on his genitals and blow-job him to orgasm. You can then switch over to let your guy stimulate you.

 

For the guy, you touch and kiss the inner thighs and slowly moving to her pubic region before moving to the clitoris. You watch her body language to determine when she is close to orgasm. When her breathing gets more rapid, her body tenses up, her hand pressing your head close to her body or her body aches closer to you, and if you see one or more of these signs, this will indicate she is quite close. When this happens, you can go directly to her clitoris, steadily increasing the pressure and pace of clitoral stimulation until she orgasms.

 

There is no set formula to great sex but these above-mentioned tips will give you a good head start to a better sex life. You can read on more from Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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How To Be Better In Bed

 

 

 

 

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You know of this hot girl and both of you have chemistry for each other. What can you do to please her when the lights are off? You are happily married but sex life of late is getting monotonous. What can you do to spice up sex? Here are some tips to be better in bed.

 

(1)   Be a passionate lover

 

Real good sex is not just about the sexual techniques. It is also about making a woman feel connected to you. Women love to feel special. Go on and make her feel this way. Hold her hand a lot, put your arm around her waist and kiss her passionately on her cheeks, forehead as you hug her or when having sex. This shows affection that women love.

 

Look deep in her eyes when you are about to reach climax. Behave in the way that makes her feel you are more excited to get into bed with her. As much as women love sex, they do not want to have this thinking that they are hunger for sex. If you can condition her into thinking that you desire her more, she will be able to let go off her inhibitions knowing that she is not being viewed as “slutty”.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Every good sexual encounter should start with great foreplay. Do not be hasty to stick it in and climax, like the way you usually do when you masturbate. She is a person. She is not a sex object. Let her get comfortable with you first.

 

To be effective, foreplay should start outside the bedroom. There are two aspects of foreplay – the emotional foreplay and the physical foreplay. When outside the bedroom, emotional foreplay is more important and this requires you to do everything or anything to make her feel good. This should be sincere so as not to make her feel you are doing this for the sole purpose of getting her to bed. To be good in emotional foreplay requires you to be romantic.

 

Romance is something that has to be built and maintained. It cannot happen overnight. You have to find out what is particular romantic for your woman. You can often find out what a woman likes through normal conversation. Pay attention to details. Simple things often matter a lot to women. Romance often means paying attention to the things that a woman really wants and making an effort to provide these things for her. Doing these things unsolicited and often will get more appreciation from her and open her heart in ways that you can never imagine possible. If you are doing the emotional foreplay well, more than half of the “battle” will have already been won by the time you step into the bedroom.

 

When in the bedroom, you can still continue with the emotional foreplay but physical foreplay should start to play a more important role. Turn her on by teasing her. Slide your hand to any part of her body and make her think you are going to touch her specifically somewhere, like her breasts. Then when you are just only a few inches away and she is anticipating it, you pull your hand away.

 

When you are kissing her, you slowly move to her shoulders and slide her clothes back so that you can kiss her shoulder blades. You adjust her bra strap a bit so that you can reach the skin beneath it. Kiss her on areas like her face, ears and behind, back of the neck, collar bone, nape, inside her elbows, wrists, underarm, hips, back of the knees, ankle and  anywhere that is specifically sensitive to her, will make her go crazy.

 

(3)   Be unpredictable and dominant

 

The moment when you feel that things are going in your favor, you proceed into action. When you are confident enough of what you are doing, your woman will find it hard to resist your further move. Be confident but do not forget to make her feel comfortable. Showing her you have the power will make her desire you more. For a change, you can even tie her up and/or blindfold her. Demand her to give you a blowjob or be on top and straddle you. She will most certainly give in if you build up the desire properly.

 

If you want to impress and satisfy her, do not be lazy, just sticking to the same usual positions. Go for variety. Do things differently. Be unpredictable. Vary your speed. Go passionately slow and then pick up the pace. Thrust quickly and then slow down immediately. Switch from gentle to rough; soft to hard; and passionate to plain horny. This will drive her wild and gets her love juice flowing.

 

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Sex Tips – What She Wants

 

 

 

 

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As guys, we always like to assume that we know everything about our women that have been sharing the same bed with us for many years. You believe you know what she is thinking by the way she looks at you, just like the way she seems to always know what you want before you do. However, there are things like hidden fantasies, unshared longings, fetishes and other matters that she may be too shy to talk about.

 

Here is a list of some of women’s secret wishes based on the feedback from over 700 women.

 

(1)   A caring partner is more sexy

 

Women appreciate a guy who is supportive and sensitive especially when they are upset. Putting your arm around her, handing her a tissue and listening to her – these are small but powerful ways to connect to her and help a lot in deepening the relationship. At times, when a woman is distracted by certain libido-killing matters (such as stressful work or lack of sleep) it will be a big turn-on if you can be as supportive as you can in some ways such as running some small house-related errands, helping in the dish-washing.

 

(2)   She expects you to be a good lover

 

Women like a man who knows what he is doing, who can take charge and who will make an effort to find out what she likes and dislikes. A lot of women lose interest in sex because their husbands are, or become lousy lovers soon after marriage.  Women read sex advice, but men seldom. If you want to please a woman, it helps a lot if you can do some reading on your own about sexuality-related matters. Better still, if you can read this together with her so that you can at the same time share with each other the things both of you will like to do to spice up sex. These readings can give both of you ideas and get you physically and mentally excited before you enter the bedroom.

 

(3)   She does not like to be hurried

 

Unless she is already highly aroused, most women prefer their lovers to be a bit more patient with them in bed. Women want to feel connected, understood and to be romanced before they can get turned on. This means spending time talking and touching her long before you reach the bedroom. Women like to be told they look nice and they like a man who notices this without being told. If she is looking particularly attractive in a sexy new dress, or in a new haircut, do let her hear about it before she mentions it. Most women also appreciate some simple romantic gestures (intimate dinner, pampering her with erotic massages, taking a bath together) and will often reciprocate these after the lights are off.

 

(4)   Simpler can be better

 

I am all for experimenting with sex positions which can be fun and in the process you discover what works for her. When you read about some of the sex guides, they may introduce you to some sex positions that seem more fitting on a gym class field day than for you. There is no need to be overly fancy during sex. Whatever position you choose, make it a point to adopt those that offer lots of opportunities to stimulate the clitoris by using your fingers or hers, with sex toys, or by pressing herself against your body. In almost all cultures and throughout time, there are 3 basic sex positions that have ruled and probably highly underrated.

 

(a)   Missionary

 

This will be a simple modification of the normal missionary position which is merely in-and-out thrusting. You place two or three pillows under her buttocks to lift her lower body off the bed at an angle. This position will allow you to rub against her clitoris and at the same time hit her g-spot when thrusting.

 

Another way is when you penetrate her, you keep as much of the base of your penis in contact with her outer vaginal lips as possible and have her grind against you in circles.

 

This modified missionary position is also quite good for her too. When she is lying on her back, you pull her knees up to her shoulders, lifting her pelvis so that her vagina points up almost to the ceiling. This position allows deeper penetration and chances to contact the g-spot.

 

(b)   Woman-on-top

 

You place two fingers so that each finger will rest on either side of your penis. When she rides on you, the area between the two knuckles will be in direct contact with her clitoris. This position will offer stimulation to her clitoris and inner vaginal lips.

 

(c) Guy-behind-girl

 

When you enter her from behind, you can use your fingers or a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. This position will also give you higher chances of hitting her g-spot.

 

The lists here are by no means exhaustive. You can read the rest of them from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm if you want to lead her to easier orgasm, higher arousal and better lubrication

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How To Keep It Hot In Bed

 

How to Keep It Hot In Bed
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Are you tired of doing the same old thing in bed? Are you getting bored with just having the normal sex and want to spice it up a bit? If you are looking for ways to reignite that spark in the bedroom, here are some tips you can consider.

(1)   Fantasize sex

 

It can be quite stressful to behave yourself in a way that everyone expects you for 365 days in a year. How about shedding your everyday self and be someone different, exciting, crazy or naughty? This is a way for you to add some excitement to any bedroom activity you undertake.

 

Role-playing or game-like fantasies are great tools to help couples to awake their creativity and imagination. The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want to be, or anyone your partner has always desired. Have a nurse and doctor story, a school girl and teacher story, or play out any fantasy you can think of. Start out with something simple and work your way into more complex role-playing as you and your partner become more comfortable.

 

As your comfort level increases, you can experiment with some light bondage or S&M (sadomasochism).It is a fantasy-based type of role-play in which leather and restraints are often used. The idea of leather, bondage and control can be erotic for many people. However, it is important to make sure both parties enjoy these type of sex games and that each person in the relationship is comfortable with bondage or S&M role-playing.

 

(2)   Do something different

 

There are many things you can explore in the bedroom. One of which is romantic body painting. Lay out some plastic sheets on the floor or bed and get a variety of colors of washable paints. Crayola makes the best washable paints. Then you treat each other’s body like a canvas.

 

Another way to stretch the body paint idea is to fill each cup with the flavors of the pudding both of you like. Then you use the pudding to finger-paint each other’s body. When both of you are finished with the painting, you take turns to lick off his/her artwork.

 

You can also play with some strip games or poker games. You get your partner to pick a number between one and ten. Just ask him or her to do it without any explanation. When he or she picks a number, you just tell him or her that he/she loses and orders him/her to take off the clothes. Another way is to play strip dice game. One of you will roll the dice to start the game. When comes to each player’s turn to roll the die, he or she will guess whether the outcome or score is higher or lower than the previous one. If he/she guesses wrongly, then he/she will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(3)   Add in some sex props

 

Variety is the spice of life. How about adding in some sex toys into your bedroom so that sex is no longer boring and mundane, but exciting and something you want more often? Toys are a great way to focus on your partner and prolong the foreplay time, which is something that may be missing in your bedroom time.

 

You can also improvise by using things you can find in your house. Stack up the pillows in a way to provide support as well as better access or entry. Another way to use a pillow or a specially-designed love cushion is to support her pelvis for rear entry positions. To enhance the sensation, you can use a vibrating pillow in this position which gives the added bonus of stimulating her clitoral area.

 

How about standing on a stair, a stool or a couch to get into the perfect position? Get creative with what you have! This kind of variety in your sex life is a healthy and fun way to keep things hot in your relationship.

 

So, if nothing interesting is happening any more in the bedroom, take matters in your hands. Rekindle the spark that first brought the two of you together by finding or exploring the things that both of you can try and do. Just be careful if the new activity may lead to injuries. Therefore you need to have a pre-agreed code word to stop any action when the receiving partner feels uncomfortable with it.

 

Communication with your partner is the sure way to make sex more exciting. You can find more ideas at Hot Sex and Eternal Flame 

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How To Get High In Bed For As Long As You Want

 

 

 

 

Are you having difficulties in trying to get an erection or to stay high? A limp erection can destroy a relationship or complicate it if it is a repetitive occurrence. Your girl friend may assume you have lost interest in her. This can leave you frustrated and both of you may start getting annoyed with each other for no particular reason.

 

But have no worries because this can happen once in a while to even normal and healthy guys. You are probably getting bored of the routine after a few years, even if you have a very attractive partner. Or, you may have performance anxiety issues and feeling very stressful in trying to give your girl a good time. The brain is your main sexual organ. Almost all the time, an erection is all in your head.

 

If you are not suffering from any medical conditions and still have difficulties in keeping it hard, the following ways can help you to keep it up and get you high all the time.

 

(1)   Indulge in your fantasies and talk about them

 

As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to spice up sex. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy. You can bring your wildest fantasies alive by talking about them with your partner and acting them together.

 

The way to do is to distract yourself from your little head and use your big head in bed. You can start by talking to her seductively and enticingly by inventing a fantasy in your mind or you can whisper dirty nothings into her ears. Indulging in dirty talk and fantasies can help reignite the pleasure of sex for both of you.

 

(2)   Think and get kinky

 

Sometimes, all you need to bring your little brother up is a whole new sexual experience. Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. You can talk about your secret fantasies and fetishes with each other and indulge in them.

 

You can have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed. You can take turns applying edible body paint on each other. This can make eating in bed so much more tasty. You can role-play with each other by dressing in character or as other person.

 

Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and light bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think. The world can get dark with blindfolds, but this will open up your sexy imaginative mind. You can mix it all up with some spanking and nibbling or even a handcuff which is a great turn on for bondage sex. Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right place and right time, even pain can be a huge turn on.

 

You can make out or have sex while someone may be around or watching, like on the rooftop or under the stars on a beach or in public places such as restroom, dark corner of a club, changing room in a clothing store, on a flight, a train or a bus that is making the last trip of the day. You can make out on someone else’s bed when you are attending a house party or when a wedding celebration is going on. You can finger her under a restaurant. But just make sure that the table-cloth is big enough to cover your indecent public act.

 

(3)   Do not get too focus on your little head

 

What you should do is to concentrate on satisfying and pleasuring your partner. When you spend too much time pondering over how erect you are, you can kill the fun which will in turn kill your erection. Talk with your partner to explore ways she likes best to please her. During foreplay when you touch her, observe closely her reactions and her body signals which can help you to identify her highly sensitive spots.

 

Take your time and do not rush. This is because foreplay always helps a guy to hold on longer. You may think there is no point in doing this but by spending 15 minutes on foreplay before penetration, your little brother will have more time to warm up for the act. Also do not masturbate too often. Though this can be good to control premature ejaculation, but this will not be good if you want to keep it hard for a long time.

 

These are the 3 tips to get you started. For further reading on sexuality matters, you can click How To Keep A Hard Erection . For more kinky sex ideas, you can visit Dirty Harry’s Secrets

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