Sex Tips For Women – How To Give A Blow Job And Hand Job

 

 

 

 

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The best way to please a man is to offer and perform oral sex on him. When you are giving a man oral stimulation, you are giving him pleasure, which is a precious gift. Like all other sexual skills, they must be learned, so communication is highly recommended.

 

Finding out what he likes will improve the chances of giving him a mind-blowing oral sex. There are other methods of communication you can use. Looking into his eyes, while sucking him. This will help you learn what works and what doesn’t. By looking at him, you can communicate your enjoyment in pleasing him. You can also use your facial expression to show how much you are enjoying yourself.

 

If he is not totally hard on, use your hands to stroke his penis until it is semi- of fully erected. Next, apply lubricant on both hands and warm your hands by rubbing them together. Form a ring using your fingers by pressing the tip of your index finger against your thumb and slide this ‘ring’ around his penis all the way down to the base. Now pull the ‘ring’ up towards the tip of the penis. It is only until you reach the tip that you give a slight twist. Immediately after the twist, cup your palm over the head of the penis, rotating your hand as though you are smoothing the glans down, before sliding down to the base. As you stroke down, remove the ‘ring’ to allow the other hand to reach the base. What you are trying to achieve is a smooth, continuous up and down movement, using your two hands in succession. You can practice this on your own first on a cucumber.

 

You can mix it up by switching between oral and hand stimulation. When you first put it into your mouth, do not suck yet. Instead, you keep your lips very moist. Make sure you do not bare your teeth as you encircle your lips around his shaft. Rotate your head so that your lips slide in a clockwise motion around the shaft. The best place to position your lips is to be just right below the head of the penis. Once you have rotated as far as you can go in one direction, change course and rotate the other way. Alternate between clockwise and anti-clockwise movement.

 

You can enrich his sensation by switching between hot and cold stimulation. As you glide your lips up and down along the shaft, you inhale through your mouth as you travel up the penis and exhaling in the same way as you travel down. What this does for him is to give him a cooling sensation as you move upwards, followed by the warm of your exhale when you are moving downwards.

 

Another way in applying this hot and cold sensation technique is to first warm your mouth with some water and then take his penis into your mouth for twenty seconds and suck. Then fill your mouth with cold water and swallow before you suck again.

 

If for certain unknown reasons, his penis goes limp, you can make it hard again by placing your lips just at the area after the tip of the penis. Now, suck quickly and intensely just on the tip of the penis. Within a minute or so, it should start to get hard again.

 

It will be better if you can get your whole body involved in the action. You can squeeze your breasts against the shaft of the penis, and let it slide slowly down between the breasts. This position will be perfect if you sense that he is quite close to orgasm and you do not want to swallow his sperms.

 

Fellatio is not just putting a penis in your mouth. You can either suck or lick gently on his scrotum (balls). It is also very pleasing for him if you can run your tongue around the anal opening (where there are many nerve-endings) in circular motions, using the tip of your tongue to tickle the opening and penetrating it. Sex toys can add more stimulation. Whether it is a vibrator, a vibrating cock ring, or an oral stimulator, these toys can greatly intensify the stimulation.

 

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Pussy Licking – How To Turn A Girl On

 

 

 

 

 

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Almost every woman loves oral sex. But the problem is most women do not get enough of oral sex from their lovers. A sure bet way to make a girl horny and rock her world is to give her oral sex. Giving her the most intense sensation and pleasure that correlates with oral sex will no doubt make her want you more and make her orgasm fast. Who knows this may even cause her to initiate it the next time she sees you. Read on to find out how you can make your lady’s thighs quiver with pleasure.

 

(1)   Get her to relax

 

The less insecurity there is for her, the better she will response during oral sex. If either of you are worried about unpleasant odors or tastes, take a shower together beforehand. Do reassure her that you think she is sexy. When you are down between her legs, she may feel uneasy about the way she looks, whether it is the size of her thighs or the appearance of her vagina. Say and do things that compliment the way she looks, smells and tastes, while rubbing and kissing the pubic region.

 

(2)   Get her warm up

 

Before you tongue a girl, you need to make sure she is relaxed and ready for you. Do not skip foreplay. You stimulate all of her other erogenous zones with your mouth or hand. You take time to cuddle, kiss, suck and nibble and let her know you are so excited to be with her. When you finally get to her vagina, tease her by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling all around the area. This technique will keep her in anticipation and get blood flowing to her ‘love canal’ making her nether region more sensitive to stimulation.

 

(3)   Get wet

 

When using your hands and fingers, use your saliva to get them wet before you use your mouth on her. Once she gets turned on enough, her vagina will create lubrication of its own. Show her how much you enjoy eating her out by rubbing your cheeks against her vagina or taking some of her love juice with your fingers and spread it on your lips and face. You will turn her on with this dirty gesture. You may also use flavored lubricant, but either way, keeping her wet down there is an incredible sensation, making it one of the best oral sex techniques to use.

 

(4)   Pay attention to her signals

 

Your partner will let you know what is working for her and what she does not like. To tongue a girl you have to respond properly to her movements. If she is grinding her hips and grabbing the back of your head while arching her back, you are probably on to something. Sometimes wetting a finger or two and slipping it inside her vagina can also drive her wild. You can gauge her response by testing with one finger first and if she enjoys it, you may slip another finger in, making it to two. This will give her the dual sensation of your mouth on her clitoris and penetration at the same time.

 

Carefully watch her physical response and make adjustments accordingly. When you notice she is getting more and more aroused, you speed up your act, and increase the intensity of your stimulation. Finally, when she is reaching her peak, you keep up with a steady and firm pace until she comes.

 

(5)   Talk to her

 

If she is not very vocal in bed, or you are unable to decipher the noises she makes, ask her what she likes. It may seem like an amateur move to ask for help, but it will be of greatest pleasure to her by having her guide your hand, or your tongue to her ‘hot buttons’. By talking to your partner and finding out what she likes will help you to know how to give her the best orgasm in the shortest amount of time.

 

(6)   Gently lick and suck the clitoris

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of driving straight for her clitoris, though clitoral stimulation is an important part of oral sex. This is because the clitoris is a very highly sensitive region with lots of nerve endings (more than at the penis tip). Hard licking and sucking initially on the clitoris can make her feel uncomfortable.

 

For a start, you gently flick it with your tongue and move onto the area around the clitoris. Come back to the clitoris every once in a while, but do not concentrate all your efforts on it. It is only when you sense she is quite close to orgasm that you can suck and lick harder on her clitoris.

 

(7)   Venture to other areas

 

Not every woman is not anal stimulation, but you may be surprised what this gesture could do for your sex life. Some women like to have their anus licked, or even have a finger inserted into it. If she is into it, you can lick her anus while you are eating her out. While you are there you will be able to lick the lower part of her vagina at the same time or you can lick back and forth between the vagina and the anus. This oral sex technique can provide extra stimulation and gratifying results. Ask her if she likes it, or allow you to try it.

 

Just because you are going down on her does not mean that the rest of her body should be ignored. Use your hands to rub her breasts, stomach, neck and inner thigh. This will load up her senses and make her completely and utterly involved with what you are doing down there.

 

(8)   Vary your moves

 

Use different patterns, pressure and motions while sucking or using your tongue. For those who are a little nervous about going down on a girl, it sometimes helps to spell out each letter with your tongue. It may sound a little odd, but this helps in two ways. First, this will increase the dexterity of your tongue. Second, this will help you to get more used to licking her for a longer period of time.

 

She may be partial to certain moves such as the rapid flicking of your tongue over her clitoris, long and short licks, a flat or rigid tongue, or sucking. Take your time and pay attention to the way she responds so you will be able to know which oral sex techniques work best for her. When you figure it out, keep doing it unless she seems to get bored with it, then you can try tweaking your technique or find a new one to use. You can also take oral sex to a whole new level by trying it in different positions, like with her straddling your face, from behind, or standing up. To spice things up, you can also introduce sex toys or stimulating lubricants.

 

You can also use food creatively to enhance her oral sex experience. Rub strawberries covered in whipped cream or honey around her private parts. You can also insert a banana and use it to stimulate her as you pull it out with your mouth.

 

Using these oral sex tips can increase the chances of giving her the best orgasm she ever had. Most important, make sure you listen to her and try to read her body language as well. Do you need some more tips to get her wild and make her addicted to you sexually? Click on Make Her Pussy Wet and Good Head Kit For Her

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I Want Her To Get An Orgasm – What Should I Do?

 

 

 

A guy wrote in a sex forum: “After sex, I asked my girl if she had an orgasm. She said no and she never has. I want her to get an orgasm because I really like to pleasure her. What should I do?”

 

When it comes to female orgasm, most men are like this guy feeling quite helpless. With these tips and tricks, you will have her moaning in no time and keep coming back for more.

 

How to make her orgasm? There are basically 2 ways you can go about getting a woman to have orgasm: stimulating the clitoris and stimulating the g-spot. Of these 2 choices, stimulating the clitoris is the easiest and quickest way because the clitoris is very easily accessible. You can touch her clit using your fingers or your mouth. Most women masturbate themselves to orgasm by just fingering the clitoris.

 

Oral sex is one of the most exciting and intimate ways to stimulate the clitoris. The tongue can be used with expert precision, transforms from hard to soft and contains the perfect natural lubricant – saliva. The act of cunnilingus is also incredibly sexy and can make her feel like a Goddess when it is done properly. To be good at it, you have to be an excellent reader of her body, her breathing, her movements and what she may be telling you with words.

 

Here is how –

 

(1)   Get her in the mood

 

Most women need some warming up to really get into the mood. Take your time and ease into it. Go and take a hot bath or shower together, using some sweet-smelling lotion or soap which can trigger more arousal. This is also a good chance to use your hands and mouth all over her body.

 

Start with your lips and kiss your way down her body. This will ‘wake up’ her body to get ready to receive what is going to happen next and the anticipation will get her motor heating up. Spend a bit more time on her breasts because the super sensitive nerves under the nipples are connected to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris and vagina. Therefore pinching or rubbing her nipples as you go down on her will drive her wild. Tease her mercilessly by kissing and nibbling on her stomach and inner thighs till she starts arching her hips towards you.

 

(2)   Give her additional teasing

 

Start by breathing over her genitals but do not blow over this area. What is needed here is to keep her lubricated and blowing will reduce the wetness. Kiss her inner thighs at first, maybe licking on them and sucking on them in different places. Run your tongue along her vaginal opening. Lick from around the external opening of the anus and towards the area above and around her clitoris. Make sure your tongue and mouth are really wet.

 

(3)   Moving over to her clitoris

 

When you have teased her to the point when she is squirming and moaning a little, or begging you to lick on her vaginal opening, then it is time to reach for her clitoris. Because a lot of women have very sensitive clitoris, therefore most of them prefer to have their clitoris licked through the clitoral hood. Give this area a first wet and soft kiss.

 

(4)   Trying with different strokes

 

Studies have shown that many women prefer clitoral stimulation on the sides of the clitoris at the one o’ clock or eleven o’ clock positions. Gently lick her side-to-side or up-and-down over her clitoral hood at these locations. If she is comfortable with more intense stimulation, you can pull back her clitoral hood to lick on her clitoris with short and repetitive, up-and-down or diagonal licks. If you are not sure about her preferences, ask her to give you feedback.

 

(5)   Giving her suction pleasure

 

As she becomes more aroused, you can take her clitoris in your mouth and gently suck on it. Besides this, you can use your mouth to suck on or nibble on her vaginal lips. With her clitoris inside your mouth, you can gently flick your tongue over it as you apply the suction. This combination of sucking pressure sensation and tongue flicking is a great way to intensify her experience.

 

(6)   Maintaining your stimulation at steady pace and try not to stop

 

Most women like you to just keep doing what you are doing until they are done coming. You will know that she is going to orgasm when she moans, her thighs pressing close to your head, her hands tightening and her body aching towards you. She will tell you to stop when she is satisfied.

 

(7)   A helping hand is always better

 

At times you may get exhausted using your mouth and need to come up for air; you can then use your hand to continue with the stimulation effort. If she ever masturbates in front of you, you should have some idea how she likes her clitoris to be touched. If you are not sure, ask her to show you or you can offer her your hand to let her guide you about the kind of stroking she prefers by placing hers on top of yours.

 

The above are some general pointers you can use to make her orgasm. The key is to be receptive and attentive to her body language and get her feedback when in doubt so that you can tailor-made your moves that work best for her. Then and only when she asks you for more tricks to please her, that you can click on Hot Sex and Lick By Lick

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The Mistakes To Avoid When Giving Oral Sex To Men

 

 

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As a guy, I enjoy a great blowjob. It is an amazing form of foreplay for me. It helps me a lot to get an erection quickly, especially at times when my sexual desire is hurt by stress. However, I also have my fair share of unhappy experiences due to some half-hearted and lousy blow jobs. Read on to see if you are committing any of these classic blowjob mistakes and learn the tips to please your man by giving him a blowjob in the right way.

 

(1)   You use your teeth

 

Unless you really hate your guy so much that you want to bite him off, do not use your teeth to grip tightly on his manhood. Though it looks hard and stiff as a rod when erected, it is actually as fragile as glass, which needs your tender loving care. Instead, you hide your teeth behind your lips and use your lips to hold and glide along the length of your guy’s sexual organ.

 

(2)   You give a boring blowjob and treat it like a chore

 

You can add more fun and pleasure for your guy when giving him blowjob by changing the sensation using your mouth rim, tongue, lips, fingers, hands and breasts – individually or in combinations. Go for the extra mile to pleasure your man, means you should not neglect the rest of his body.

 

The scrotum (the skin enclosing the testicles) and testicles are particularly sensitive and most men like them to be stimulated. During oral sex, you can gently lick his testicles or hold them in one of your hands. You can also apply pressure to the perineum (the spot between anus and penis) with one or two fingers, as this can also feel good. I particularly find it a great turn on when my girl keeps licking on my anus, which is a commonly neglected erotic spot.

 

If your man is not circumcised, you can insert your tongue into the foreskin and circle around the tip with it. You can use your fingers to gently massage the tip through the foreskin, alternating with deep tongue licks.

 

Men can get easily aroused by what they see. To drive him wild, you can touch yourself as you play with him, change the position so that he can get a different viewing angle, or look at him seductively as you glide your mouth and tongue over his penis and testicles.

 

When giving blowjob, you should adjust the tempo and intensity such as hard and fast, slow and hard or fast and light. When your mouth feels cramped, you can switch to using your lips to rub against the shaft while holding his testicles in your hand.

 

(3)   You do not find out what he particularly likes

 

Some women assume that a guy will automatically feel satisfied after receiving a blowjob. They do not ask for feedback to find out their guy’s preferences. You can learn where and what his hot buttons are by asking him to masturbate in front of you or to let him guide your movement and show the rhythm and motion that will drive him crazy with desire.

 

(4)   You only use your mouth

 

Giving oral sex does not mean you limit your action to the mouth only. You can use your hands to help in your stimulation effort. Teasing the rest of his body will create major anticipation and appreciation. Use your hands to caress his nipples, inner thighs, buttocks and pubic area as you lick and suck his penis.

 

Combining oral with manual stimulation is a great way to enhance intensity and increase variety. Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down along the top half of his penis. Try coordinating your movements so that your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison. Or, you can do the same action by using only 2 fingers, the thumb and the middle finger to wrap around the shaft of his penis. These 2 fingers will help to create extra stimulation as they slide further down to the lower end of his penis where your mouth is not able to reach.

 

There you have it – the fellatio mistakes to avoid and the basic to giving him oral sex. If you need more amazing ideas to spice up your sex life, you can click on Blow By Blow and Oral Kit.

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Oral Sex Tips For Woman To Drive Him Crazy

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When we hear about low libido in a relationship, normally we assume it is the problem of females. The fact is men account for about over 30% of total low libido cases. As a woman, you still can do something to overcome his lack of sex drive. Men (same as women) love oral sex. If you are looking for ways to drive him wild in bed, here are the tips on oral sex you can start with.

 

(1)     Get him clean up first

 

Whether giving or receiving oral sex, both have to be comfortable. This will not be possible if either one of you has certain strong smell. It will be good if your man cleans himself first. Better if both have a sexy bath or shower together.

 

(2)     Keep yourself comfortable

 

If you are not in a physically comfortable lovemaking position, you will not be able to give him a good blowjob. If he is standing or sitting, to give you a lot of space for movement, you can either sit on a stool or kneel on a pillow.

 

(3)     Touching the surrounding areas

 

You can either give him a cat bath (that is to use your mouth to kiss him all over) and/or use your hands to “molest” his inner thighs, testicles and perineum (the area between the base of genitals and anus) which are all sensitive spots in order to gradually get him into the mood. To increase the sensation, you can use your fingertips to tickle behind the testicles.

 

(4)     Start licking him

 

You begin by warming the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are a few sensitive areas of the male genitals for you to take note. The tip or the head of the genitals is more sensitive than the shaft, especially the rim around the head. The underside is more sensitive than the side especially at the area near to the tip (known as the frenulum). To be effective, you should focus your licking effort on these sensitive spots.

 

(5)     You take his genitals into your mouth

 

After you play with the head, you slide your mouth down the shaft while you place your hand at the base of his genitals (to form a ring around the lower end). This is to prevent you from getting choked if you accidentally take in too much of his “ice-cream stick”.  You should take in between one-third to half of the shaft. With your teeth hiding behind your lips, you squeeze your lips against his shaft as you glide up and down along his semi-erected male hood. Do this slowly at times, savoring the pleasure of your action, and then picking up the speed.

 

(6)     Alternating between mouth and tongue action

 

Once in a while, you switch back to using your tongue to lick on his tip and frenulum. You can experiment with the different types of licks on these two areas probably by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give him more intense pleasure, you can also twist your neck left and right so that it feels like your mouth is swiveling on his penis up and down.

 

(7)     Using your hands

 

If you want to stimulate him more strongly during oral sex, you can do so by using your hands. Using your hands also open the possibility of stimulating his testicles and perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus) while you continue to give him oral stimulation on his male organ.

 

(8)     Blowing hot and cold

 

Oral sex can be fun if you can spice it up by playing with temperature and sensations. You take in a mouthful of warm water. You then swill it around your mouth and swallow. Next you take his penis into your mouth for 20 seconds. After this, you take in a mouthful of cold water, swill it around your mouth and swallow. You resume the blowjob. The differences in hot and cold will feel great for him. An alternate way will be to put an ice-cube in your mouth before taking in his male organ. The heat of your mouth combined with the occasional flashes of chilliness will keep him on his toes.

 

(9)     Do not neglect other areas

 

The scrotum and testicles are highly sensitive areas that can drive him wild when you either lick on his testicles and/or gently pull his scrotum downward. Most men enjoy a lot when their women stick their tongues into the anus.

 

(10) Bringing him to climax

 

You should never feel obliged to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It is your decision and is determined by your level of comfort about it. If you do not want to swallow, ask him to give you a warning. He should not think any less of you about your choice. You can continue the hand stroking through his orgasm.

 

The above 10 tips are all that you basically need to know about how you can please your man orally. If you need more amazing ideas to spice up your sex life, you can click on Blow Him Away and Oral Kit.

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