How To Please A Girl With Sensual Massage

 

 

 

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Knowing how to give an erotic massage can make you the hero to some of the women in your life. The proper hand movements and basic technique will draw in women from all around. They can’t wait to let you lay your hands on them. Or, maybe they even allow your hands to explore deeper at other areas on their bodies, if you are lucky. Here is bow to give your girl a full body sensual massage.

 

(1)   Start with her face

 

Trim your fingernails and wash your hands thoroughly. You don’t want to accidentally scratch her face with your sharp nails. Make sure her face is washed clean before the massage. When you massage her face, make sure you give each spot at least 5 to 10 strokes to relieve any stress on her face muscles.

 

Position your two thumbs in the middle of her forehead with the rest of your fingers lying flat on each side of the face. Massage the center of the head with slow circular motion using the thumbs. Use your next 3 fingers beside the thumb to massage the temples of the face.

 

Next you use your index fingers to massage along the sides of the nose and nostrils. Using your thumbs on the chin as a support, you use the next 3 fingers to massage the cheek bones and the area under the eyes in circular motion. Later on, with the thumbs still under the chin, you use the next 3 fingers to massage along the jaw line starting from the ears to the chin.

 

(2)   Move on to the neck and shoulders

 

If she has long hair, you want to make sure that it is arranged in some type of clip. Gently rub the neck from the base of the skull and down to the shoulders with your thumbs in small circular motion. You can slowly increase the pressure. However it will be better to ask her if the pressure is okay. If you have a neck massager, you can rub it up and down the neck or in circles.

 

Apply some oil on your palms before you firmly grip on her shoulders with your thumbs press on her upper back. Squeeze on her shoulders and release. You do this about 5 to 10 times along the length of her shoulder to release the tension on the shoulder muscles as you move towards her upper arms. You massage each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscle. You run your thumb down the center of the forearm, gradually increasing the pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Then you squeeze each of her finger using your thumb and index finger. To relax her finger joints, you gently pull each finger towards you. You repeat the same procedure on her other hand

 

(3)   Work on her back

 

Unhook her bra so as not to allow the strap to break the flow of your hand movement as your hands glide towards the lower part of her body. With your hands straight and elbow lock, you start at the lower back and use palms to sweep up and down along both sides of her backbone about 5 times. You switch to using circular strokes to rub sideways starting from the middle of her back to the side as you work your way down to her buttocks.

 

(4)   Do not leave out the buttocks

 

This is a part of the body that tends to be overlooked making it a prime massage zone. Since the buttocks are quite fleshy, you can apply greater pressure to this area by pressing your knuckles against it in up and down motion. As you make your way down to her feet, you use your forearms or elbows to press on the thighs repeatedly before you squeeze on the ankles.

 

(5)   Give her a foot massage

 

Rub lotion on your hands so they can glide easily across the foot. Rub with your thumbs in a circular motion from the ankles all the way down to the toes. Gently rotate her ankles to relax the muscles there. Squeeze on each toe using your thumb and index finger and then pull each toe towards you to relax the joints there. Holding the foot with one hand, you press the knuckles using the other free hand to apply firm pressure against the sole. You repeat the same with the other foot.

 

(6)   Massage her breasts

 

Before you go for her breasts, get her non-piercing nipple clamps to give her both pressure and pleasure. This should be done while you are massaging other parts of her body. This can get her more aroused when you start to grope and fondle her breasts later, as she is more ready to be touched. Besides using your hands, you can suck and lick on her breasts in different directions and patterns, or you can even brush your penis against her breasts.

 

(7)   You can excite her more

 

One of the ways is to blindfold (not too tight) her as this will heighten her other senses. This will make her wonder what is coming next and how you are going to surprise her. This can really turn her on a lot as you work your hands over her body. Besides using your hands, you can create different sensation with accessories such as a single feather or any other items you can think of, or even sex toys like a vibrator.

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be very hot at this stage and maybe grabbing the area between your legs. The rest is up to you now. Do you want your future bedroom sessions to be 100 times hotter? Click on Pleasure Of Massage and Foreplay Massager

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The Small Changes That Turn Her On

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How to increase a woman’s libido? How to get your woman in the mood for sex? How to get your wife interested in sex again? What I am going to discuss in the following paragraphs should help to answer these 3 questions.

 

(1)   Horizontal doggie

 

In this sex position, the man lies on his back with legs spread, knees bent and feet flat on the bed. The woman, who will be facing away from him, is on her hands (or elbows) with her knees between his legs. This position hits her G-spot very nicely. Stimulation can be increased with her using one hand to tickle/massage his scrotum or grab/squeeze the base of his genitals and the other hand stroking her clitoris or any other erogenous region that is highly sensitive to her. With her legs in between his legs squeezing her vaginal walls against his genitals, this can make her seem tighter than usual and he feeling his male hood bigger in size psychologically.

 

(2)   Be consistent

 

Most women reach orgasm from repetitive and continuous stimulation as opposed to hard or varying pressure. Therefore you should treat her moans and sighs as signals for continuing at the same pace and not as a request to apply more pressure. On average, a woman can take between 3 to 30 minutes to reach orgasm from oral sex. If your tongue gets tired, you switch to using your finger or penis to keep her arousal level from going down. Hen she starts to come, keep whatever lovemaking technique you are using to go at the same pace and do not stop until she tells you to.

 

(3)   Getting her feedback

 

Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they have done with other women. But women are not all the same. For example most guys know what a clitoris and where to find it. But this does not mean they can get a woman to reach clitoral orgasm. A touch on her clitoris that is enjoyable for one woman may feel like nothing special or may even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation. How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her simple yes-or-no questions such as “Does this feel good?” Do not distract her with those open-ended questions. To bring a woman to orgasm, she has to be able to relax and let go. Yes-or-no questions can ease her into providing you with more detailed and helpful information on how to pleasure her.

 

(4)   Making sex more sensual

 

If you want to make sex a more sensual experience, you need to slow down. Slow sex is not just about endurance or adopting complicated sex positions. It is about really been there in the moment and mutual pleasuring. You can create a more conducive bedroom environment for slow sex by moving the TV to another room, shutting down your computer, switching off your cell phone and installing romantic dim lighting.

 

The following is what you can do to slow down for mutual pleasuring

 

(a)    Massage

(b)    Deep, lingering kisses

(c)    Teasing her with your fingers and mouth

(d)    Give her tender and erotic touching

 

Here is a bonus tip: You touch her breasts. How? You use your thumb and index finger to gently massage her breast, first clockwise and then anti-clockwise. You then place your hand over her areola (the colored skin surrounding the nipple) and roll it with your palm. You end this by gently pulling her nipple. Why is this effective? The nipple contains receptors called Meissner’s corpuscles, cell that adjusts to varied stimuli like the friction of a shirt or the moisture of a tongue. The longer you tease around the nipple, the more intense direct stimulation will be. You repeat the process on her the other breast.

 

(5)   Giving her positive feedback

 

Women are vocal creatures and at times feel insecure. A woman needs a little extra reassurance to make sure that is still special in your eyes. You shower her with compliments about connectivity. You tell her how sexy she is when she looks into your eyes. This makes her feel good. When she feels sexy, she is most likely to act sexy.

 

To a woman, sex is an expression of love. The just-mentioned 5 ways will help to deepen your emotional, psychological and even spiritual bond with your lover. Of course, you can always do better and if you are keen to do so, you can click on Hot Sex and Turn Her On.

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Love Making – How To Make It Fun

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Want to satisfy a woman enough during sex to make her crave it? Want to make her cum more easily and preferably over and over again? Looking for tips on how to blow her mind, keep her coming back for more? These bedroom shortcuts will help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm in a jiffy. Try these tricks to get her dripping wet in bed.

 

(1)   The right temperature

 Make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature prior to engaging in sex. Use a fan during intercourse to keep from overheating. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. A room temperature of 27 degree Celsius is good for sex.

 (2)   Start sweet

Sweet treats on her tongue will ring her brain’s reward bells, making her ripe for arousal. Seduce her by hand-feeding her fruits with unusual textures such as pomegranates.

 Chocolate may work as well. Not only can chocolate add some color to your sex lives, it is also believed that chocolate stimulates the production of endorphins, which provide a sense of pleasure or pain. Apparently, chocolate contains a natural substance that allegedly stimulates the same reaction in the body as the feeling of falling in love.

 

If your lady absolutely loves chocolate, why not dip your stick in some and let her have a taste of Mr. Dick? You’d be surprised at how enjoyable fellatio can feel when a woman has the pleasure of devouring a chocolate-covered member.

 

            (3) Stimulate her breasts

 

Women tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking.

 

Many guys do not know how to stimulate a woman’s breasts in a way that will be pleasing to her. Simply grabbing a breast as though it was cookie dough and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast.

 

Just like with anything sexual, you want to start off slowly and softly. You do not want to grab your lover’s breasts too hard, and you do not want to start pinching her nipples right away. You want to lead up to more direct and aggressive stimulation only after you have sufficiently gotten your girl turned on.

 

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms and sides of her breasts first. Gradually move towards her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, her nipples will become flushed with blood and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You can then harden your tongue and flick it back and forth and slowly take it into your mouth, at which point you will begin to suck and nibble simultaneously. If her nipples are not hard, you can usually manipulate each one by sucking it and then releasing it from your mouth whilst inhaling so that it creates an icy sensation.  In this way, you will kick-start the blood flow and lubrication down below, starting her slow build-up.

 

        (4)  Head downwards

 

Go slow during manual stimulation. If she is not wet, don’t start playing with her clitoris before you have touched, kissed and sucked her in other places such as her lips, neck, earlobes, nipples, tummy, lower back, buttocks, inner thighs and toes.

 

When she is ready, lightly brace the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now, run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer vaginal lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons – the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone – and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

 

You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her. Your main aim is you should be turning her on and you should feel the clitoris swelling and expanding. Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.

 

           (5)  Enter her deep

 

 Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your lover. Choosing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration can help her to cum faster and your sex life even better. Try these positions to go deeper inside her.

 

             (a)  Doggy style

 

This is probably the best sex position for going deeper to stimulate the g-spot. By entering her from behind as she bends over, your penis will stimulate her cervix. This sends pleasure signals to her brain through the vagus nerve. You can experiment with the way you position your pelvis to find out what feels best to you and your woman. By tilting your pelvis towards your stomach, your penetration will be shallower, or by arching your back and tilting your pelvis away from your stomach, you will be able to go deeper.

 

            (b) Ankles-on-shoulders missionary

 

You can modify the missionary position to create the deepest penetration possible, while still being able to be eye to eye with your girl. You get your girl to bring her legs back towards her stomach and hook her ankles on your shoulders. With you on top, you arch up a little so that your torso is away from her body. By adjusting the distance between your torso and her body, you will be able to experience the difference in penetration depth between this modified missionary sex position and traditional missionary.

 

            (c) Woman on top


This position allows your girl to control pretty much everything, the speed, depth and angle of thrusting. As a result, this often allows a woman to have an orgasm more easily than if the position is reversed and you are on top. To get deeper penetration when she is on top, you spread your legs with knees bend to allow her to push her pelvis down closer to yours and let her vagina to slide all the way down to the base of your penis. This is a great position for female orgasm, because the closer her pelvis is to yours, the more friction will be created during sex, offering stimulation to both the clitoris and vagina. You can experiment with different pelvic positions to find out which one feels the best to you and your woman and allows for the deepest penetration.

 

Looking for more tips to get her enjoy sex? You can read the rest of them from here and/or this place.

Source: luv2sex.info

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