How To Get A Woman To Act Wild




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Does your woman behave like a cold fish in bed? Have you ever wished she could have been a little naughtier like talking dirty or saying things like ‘fuck me hard’, ‘I want to fuck you right now’, or you like her to grab your dick out of the blue when out somewhere or just anywhere? If you do, here are some ways you can bring out her hidden wild side and mold her into the lower scale nymph which you want her to be.


(1)   Tell her it is okay to be dirty, naughty and bad


All girls have a naughty side to them, especially the good girls who have been suppressed throughout their life. They are the ones that usually want very much to release their bad girl side if given the chance, even though they are the most innocent on the outside. Women are conditioned to fulfill the role of ‘good girl’. Therefore you have to give your woman the permission to break out of that mold, to change from being daddy’s and mummy’s good daughter to being your ‘hot girlfriend’.


(2)   Overcome her fear of rejection


One of the reasons she may wants to pretend to be a good girl is because of her fear of rejection. The best way to overcome her fear of rejection is to give her the power to pleasure you and herself. If she jokes about being blindfolded, or making out in the wilderness, do something like that. Let her overcome her fears and you will see how uninhibited she will be when both of you are in it.


Another way to overcome her fear of rejection is to show her you are up for it by sending out subtle signals. This can be as simple as lounging around in a bathrobe after a shower, or dimming the lights and playing her favorite sexy music. This will create a relaxed but suggestive atmosphere where she is pretty sure she will not be rejected.


(3)   Make her feel sexy


Compliment the way she looks when both of you go out. Tell her how much she turns you on. Place your hand on her lower back, and tell her how badly you want to run your hands all over her. Plant a long kiss on her in the morning and tell her you cannot wait to ravage her later. Make her feel seductive when she is out and she will reciprocate in bed.


(4)   Boost her confidence


If she does not like to reveal flesh, hiding her body under sheets and pillows when you are with her, it is probably because she is not comfortable showing it off to you. To keep her at peace with her body, go for general compliments like – ‘Your body is incredible’. The reason is women can be weird in certain ways; if you say something nice about her breasts, she will wonder why you do not like her buttocks.


If she is squeamish about giving you oral sex, you guide her. When she starts giving you mouth-to-south resuscitation, you take her hands off your thighs and hold them with yours. Then you guide her hands to your penis so they form a tube around it. As her mouth goes up and down, you rotate her hands clockwise and anti-clockwise. This smooth sailing will boost her confidence with her hands acting as a comfortable bumper between the 3 inches of her mouth and the 5 inches or more of your penis.


(5)   Encourage her to act out her fantasies


The truth is that every woman has a hidden fantasy. Encouraging her to talk about it is the first most important step. If you give her permission, gain her trust, soon she will open up and tell you her real feelings, which you should respect and never joke about. Once she has your confidence she will reveal to you a very different character – you never knew existed.


The next step is to encourage her to act out her fantasies. The first fantasy many women have is to believe that they are having sex with a virgin. Let’s assume you are a virgin and that she is Miss Gaga. This turns out to be something like a power game for her, a sort of forbidden activity she is indulging in. Ask her to dress like a secretary for you with a close fitting mid length skirts and a shirt that is unbuttoned to reveal a sexy push up bra. Just asking her this will get the fun goes on.


Throughout the process, you let her take the initiative and you cheer her on. When it comes to the undressing part, do so reluctantly and take it along very slowly which can add to the enjoyment. Many women like to have a lot of foreplay before the main act, just oblige her.


So, go on prepare for a night of wild passion, which you have always dreamed of. At the same time, you can give her a squeaky-clean source of dirty ideas and ‘cheese cake recipes’ by referring her to Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm


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For Couples – 7 Ways To A Happy Sex Life





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Do you miss those sexy, curious, early days when you are newly in love? These 7 tips can sure help you to bring back and relive those good old days.


(1)   Pump up the adrenaline


Adrenaline can act as an aphrodisiac for a committed relationship. It can inject some oomp into otherwise stale and ordinary days which tend to happen in a long-term relationship. When you stimulate your body, this will have a trickle down effect of stimulating both your mind and emotions.


Do something extraordinary with your partner. This will show your partner how much you care. Give bungee jumping, roller-coaster riding or watching horror movies, a try, if you dare. If you find that this is too extreme, you may consider horseback riding, go-karting, sampling exotic cuisines, enrolling for dancing or yoga classes or travelling to some exotic places together.


(2)   Sexy talk


Whispering sweet words into his/her ears, sending sexy text messages to let your partner know he/she is on your mind when you are apart can increase the emotional connection between the both of you. Sexting is a great way for committed couples to flirt with each other and make each other smile. It is also a good way to build anticipation which is like mental foreplay that could lead to the physical kind, too.


(3)   Encourage 2-way talking


It is essential to have a real conversation at least once a week. This should go beyond the day-to-day type of topics. Couples who communicate well with one another and share activities together are often more active in sex. Before spicing things up with toys or sexy lingerie, work on your communication skills.


Besides talking, you also need to know how to listen to keep the 2-way communication open. Pay attention to body language too. When you need your partner to do something or to make some changes, you package your requests in the form of compliment such as “I really enjoy very much when you for an evening walk to the park with me.” This will avoid the request from becoming like a complaint which can trigger defensive behavior.


Try to detach your emotions from the conversation. In times of strain these will be heightened which could lead to further conflict as you will be hypersensitive to remarks. If you are particularly upset about something, it will be better to vent out your frustration on paper rather than blurting it out. This will allow you to release any negative emotions as well as giving you the time and chance to organize your thoughts so that you can present your issue in a non-confrontational way.


(4)   Show appreciation and support


Besides saying, “I love you”, do not forget to say “thank you” to show your appreciation for the nice, little things he/she did for you. Remember to give compliments to let your partner know you still find him/her physically and emotionally attractive. Volunteer to help out if you can, when your partner is overwhelmed with too many things on hand.


Such nice, little, thoughtful daily gestures can have a cumulative effect to strengthen the foundation of your relationship, reducing the chances of breaking up when the relationship is under stress by some unexpected happenings. The wonderful thing is these acts of consideration and appreciation do not cost you any.


(5)   More kisses


Do you still remember those days when you were dating him/her, you often kissed each other when you met or when you were about to leave? Besides being an act of intimacy, the way you kiss can make or break a woman’s feelings for you. Kissing becomes a forgotten act for many couples in long-term relationships, unless this occurs during foreplay. Couples who kiss regularly tend to have sex more often. Most important, you kiss not just for the sake of initiating sex, but because you love and enjoy the feeling of kissing him/her.


(6)   Maintain eye contact when having sex


Eye contact immediately raises the intimacy level of any sexual act. Closing your eyes can sometimes send the wrong message that you are only present physically, but not emotionally or spiritually. Keeping your eyes open and looking directly into him/her reassures your partner that it is he/she that is turning you on in the particular moment.


(7)   Trying new things in the bedroom


Most people would love their partner to suggest something new to spice things up. Couples tend to stuck into a few things that they know and stop experimenting. But the brain is the biggest sex organ and any time you try something new, you are stimulating the brain’s natural desire for novelty.


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How To Have Good Sex




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Ever remember those days when you and your partner make love almost every day? Even the sight and smell of him/her is enough to make you blushed and your heart beats a little faster. It was so fresh, so exciting and so new.


After a while, passion starts to ebb for the simple reason that both of you know exactly what is going to come next. This does not mean you no longer care or love him/her or he/she has become less sexually attractive. It just points to your need to break the spell of sameness and to get out of your stale sex routine.


Every relationship is bound to go through the sexual tides now and then. Fortunately, you can do something about it. The secret to a sizzling sex life is to keep it fresh, new and exciting. Here are some suggestions you can do to make sex exciting, to keep your woman on her toes and probably on her knees.


(1)   Acknowledge the need for change


This is the first step in your recovery from a boring sex routine. Once you both agree there is this need for change, you can start working together as a couple to come up with solutions and plans. All you have to do is talk. Keep your discussion fun and simple. The best tip to improve sex life is to be honest with your partner.


If you are honest and open about what you like, what works for you and if your partner does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, do tell him/her. Do not be afraid to make suggestions or even demonstrate the way that works for you. A great sex life is one that can allow you and your partner to help each other learn about what works for you and what does not.


(2)   Add variety and spontaneity into your sex routine


The downside to being in committed relationships is that sex starts to become a routine. It is most important that you should avoid this at all costs. Do not let sex become something you do because you are both awake and have nothing to do. Make time for it and make sure it is not always the same way with the same result; after all, variety is the spice of life.


Most sexual relationship problems come about because sex becomes boring and predictable. To avoid this, try introducing new positions, making love at different places and different times or investing in some sex toys if both of you are comfortable in using them. Another suggestion is not to take sex for granted. It is always a good idea to occasionally pamper your partner with some fine wining and dining and showing her some real attention. Do not just roll her over and expect to have everything you want.


(3)   More suggestions to improve sex life


(a)    Besides talking to her in the normal way, you can also dirty talk to her. Do talk about your fantasies, what you are going to do to her and how much you like it.


(b)   Fetishes, fantasies and kinky behavior such as spanking, bondage and whips can be a great deal of fun. However, before doing this, make sure your partner knows what this is all about. Permission is required and make sure there is no lasting damage.


(c)    Role playing with props and costumes can add a new dynamic to sexual relationships by allowing both of you to become another person for a few hours. For a start, avoid trying any hardcore bondage or those BDSM (bondage, discipline/domination, submission/sadism and masochism) sex. Keep it simple and use tried-and-true role-playing such as headmaster/headmistress and pupil, stripper and client and boss and secretary.


(d)   Give her a full body massage. As her arousal builds, increase the pressure in your fingers. But not too hard or rough as to cause pain and hurt. If you want to turn her on, a slow sensual foot massage is enough to make most women to orgasm.


(e)    Read each other erotic stories or watch a sexy movie together.


The secret to a consistently good sex life is to keep it interesting and appealing for both partners by trying new things and exploring the possibilities when it comes to lovemaking. Spend time and effort and you will definitely get the sex life you want.


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