Tried and Tested: Top 4 Sex Toys

With sex toys fast rivalling smart phones in terms of sales, we give you the lowdown on the latest and greatest pleasure toys.

The UK sex toy industry is set to rise to £400 million making a sex toy a must-have accessory.  With celebrities talking candidly about their sex lives and books like 50 Shades of Grey dominating our bestseller lists, we are beginning to view sex as a less taboo subject and are embracing our sexual prowess.

With this in mind, a designer sex toy could be just the thing you need to reignite that flame in the bedroom.  There are also pieces designed with the solo user in mind.

Dildo

Dildo

Lelo is the fashionable Swedish sex toy design house famed for their exciting bedroom accessories and upmarket, pleasure objects with slick, ergonomic, polished designs.  The Lelo Ella Dildo is a smooth, seamless, high-quality bedroom aids.  Designed to provide precise g-spot performance with the sculpted end.  Meanwhile the other end is used to instigate more soothing, conventional stimulation.  Available in variety of vibrant colours, this piece has an exquisite, organic shape.

At only £29, this hotly anticipated sex toy is a great all-rounder.  Providing mind-blowing arousal at a knockdown price, the Lelo Ella Black is an excellent stocking filler this Christmas.

Vibrators

Vibrator

These are vibrating devices, designed to stimulate the body.  With so many exciting designs available on the market, there is something for everyone.  From big pieces to more understated numbers, to internal use or just for external pleasure, there are vibrators for all your needs and preferences.

Whether you are after a curved, straight, long, short, hand-held, battery operated or rechargeable number, there are vibrators to suit all manner of tastes.  Enhance your sexual experience with the new and exciting Fresh vibrator by Leaf.  Featuring a simple leaf structure and sculpted design this waterproof and eco-friendly number is the perfect, guilt-free treat.

Perfect for the amateur sex toy user through to the most demanding pleasure seeker.  The leaf collection includes a number of exciting pieces from Life, Bloom, Vitality, Touch, Fresh and Spirit.  The names of all these pieces are all suggestive of injecting a new lease of life into the user (literally).  Durable, long-lasting and waterproof, these pieces are brightly coloured in a vibrant lime green and are made from 100% silicone.  All Leaf products come in a sophisticated, recyclable cardboard box and a canvas tote bag for storage.  They also have a lithium rechargeable power supply to reduce your carbon footprint.

Fresh is a curved heart shape, which makes it the most charming sex toy I have seen to date.  This fun, fresh and modern piece has the latest technology.  Secreted beneath the surface is the PowerBullet core which is the piece de resistance of this brand.

For such a compact piece, the Fresh has an extensive range of power.  With high intensity vibrations, Fresh will satisfy your needs in a matter of minutes.  This piece is small with a beautiful, elaborate design which is formed to the woman’s body.  Grow your own fantasies with the sensual shape and contours of this stunning piece.

Rabbit

Rabbit


A Rabbit is the ultimate sex toy that every girl should own.  Originally made famous by the ladies of Sex and the City, this intricately designed piece comes in all shapes and sizes.  However the functions which penetrate (excuse the pun!) all the rabbit designs is the clitoral stimulator and shaft which is used to induce intense orgasms.
Whether you want a rechargeable rabbit, battery operated, waterproof or maybe a super-quiet one, there are designs to suit all tastes and preferences.

Vibe Therapy are a leading sex toy brand who specialise in producing exquisite pieces, made from the finest materials with unique, modern and tantalising designs.  They produce a number of rabbit style vibrators.  The Vibe Therapy Jubilation Rabbit Vibrator is a fierce piece of arousal-inducing apparatus.  As the name suggests, this piece is designed to stimulate exaltation and happiness in its user and this is no spurious hype, it actually does exactly what it says on the tin!

Made from medical grade silicone, this is one of the most hygienic and safe materials for internal use.  With 7 massage functions to induce clitoral stimulation, choose from a slow, soothing vibration to a more powerful, faster pulsing sensation.  This piece also has 3 rotation functions to provide heightened pleasure and is celebrated for its extremely precise stimulation.  The clitoral stimulator is designed to nuzzle, probe and massage your clitoris with acute accuracy.

This piece features an understated, polished and stylish design, this piece is visually, less intimidating than other rabbits and therefore may appeal to first-time buyers and is also lightweight, even when batteries are inserted.

Massager

Massager


The Lelo Lily provides intense pleasure at your fingertips.  With 5 sensational modes of stimulation and 10 different speeds, this small, neat design nestles into the user’s hand.  This intimate massager is great for couples.

Available in 3 sexy colours, this piece has a silky-smooth finish and is the ultimate pleasure-inducing massager.

This piece can be used for solo clitoral stimulation as well as for extra stimulation during intercourse with your partner.  The Lelo Lily is exceptionally light and comes with an in built rechargeable battery which will last up to seven hours after being fully charged.

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6 Things You Do Not Know About Cunnilingus

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If you are able to give your girl oral sex properly, there are higher chances she will be able to orgasm easily. The main reason is a lot of girls out there love oral sex. It is often the only way for some women to orgasm even before actual sex. It therefore helps your sex life a lot if you can get the facts correct about cunnilingus.

 

(1)   Can women reach orgasm when giving her oral stimulation?

 

Indeed for many women, cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the female genitals) is the fastest route to orgasm. Most women can climax when they are being licked compared to penetration. This usually occurs as a result of stimulating the clitoris as well as the surrounding area. The sensation that a woman can feel from her clitoris is equivalent to just how sensitive the tip of the male sexual organ is, as the sole function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure.

 

(2)   Should you touch the clitoris when performing oral sex on her?

 

Yes, you can do that but you must be careful in how you touch her clitoris. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she does not like is an over-achiever who heads right to her clitoris with an overly aggressive tongue. Whether in using your hands or tongue you should not apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off.

 

When you use your hands to touch her clitoris, make sure you trim your finger nails and apply some lubricant on your hand. The proper way is to either use your hands or your tongue to stimulate the area around her clitoris until she gets used to the sensation before going for the “jack pot”.

 

(3)   Does giving her oral sex mean just using your mouth or tongue?

 

Just because it is called oral sex does not mean only using your lip and tongue to arouse her. There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented and creative man. While you are French kissing her clitoris, you can use finger to rub gently on it at the same time. You can use other parts of your body on her genitals as well. Your nose, cheeks, chin and even the tip of your “little brother” can definitely create different kinds of sensations and pressures or pleasures when each of these body parts are brushed against the clitoris and the surrounding region.

 

At times, your mouth or tongue gets tired; you can replace the stroking with a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo that you can use inside her. To give her additional sensation, you can have an ice cube in your mouth and alternating between having it touches her while you are using your mouth and then hiding it in your cheek. So, you can see here that your “working tools” are not just limited to mouth and tongue.

 

(4)   Is it enough just to focus on the clitoris and the surrounding area?

 

One most important thing to remember is you should not go immediately for her clitoris. In order to prepare a woman to take in some of your oral loving, there should preferably be a lot of foreplay involved. You begin by gently nibbling her ear lobes and doing a lot of kissing on her face and neck.

 

You should pay particular attention to her breasts and nipples in order to prepare her for the main event down under. The super sensitive nerves in her nipples are linked to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris, so just by gently pinching or nibbling her nipples will drive her absolutely wild. To tease her, you can begin by stimulating her nipples with your mouth and stimulating her clitoris with your fingers. After she becomes immensely aroused, switch to stimulating her nipples with your hands and using your mouth where your hands used to be. She will certainly love the varieties of sensations on each of her body parts. If you can keep your balance, you can finger G-spot as you lick her clitoris and pinch her nipples. These multiple sensations will give her an unforgettable orgasmic experience.

 

Other areas that can enrich her sensual sensations are the perineum and anus. These two areas are very sensitive to tongue licking for both sexes especially so for the tongue penetration of the anus.

 

(5)   Do all women smell down there and how to cope if she smells?

 

Some women do smell down there and this may not be due to her low hygiene standards. Her diet and a lot of other factors affecting her chemical make-up are probably the main factors. However, most women do have a more pleasant smell down there especially if they have washed well before jumping into bed with you. But there is still certain odor that no soap or fragrance can masked. This is because most of the smell comes from the love juice that she releases as she gets progressively aroused. The best solution to cope with her smell is to take a shower with her.

 

(6)   Will you get HIV or STDs through oral sex?

 

There is a risk of STDs, including genital herpes and warts contracted through oral sex. During menstruation, there is an increased risk of transmitting HIV if the woman is HIV positive. If you do not know her well, you should protect yourself using a dental dam or square piece of latex when you perform oral sex on her.

 

There you have it – the 6 basic facts about giving her oral sex. This is not a definitive oral sex guide, but it is a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques you can try to please her sexually and you can find out more by clicking on Eat Pussy and Oral Kit.

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4 Things Every Man Must Know About Clitoris

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For men, the sexually sensitive zone is quite concentrated on the area below his waist and above his thighs. For women, there is a very broad area which can be considered her pleasure zones. Her breasts, thighs, waist, back of her neck, vagina and even the curves of her body can provide her lots of sexual pleasure when stimulated.

 

However, if you want to be skilful in your bedroom techniques, there are 2 vital areas of her sexual organ that you need to be aware off: the clitoris and the G-spot. By aiming at these 2 pleasure zones, she will have higher chances of enjoying multiple orgasms. Of these 2 erogenous zones, the clitoris is the easiest to locate and stimulate to get her aroused.

 

Here are the 4 things every guy needs to know about the clitoris:

 

(1)   The clitoris is solely devoted for physical pleasure and is the physiological equivalent of the head of the male sexual organ. It is a small protrusion located at just above the opening of the vagina. It is very sensitive to touch because of the rich nerve endings surrounding it. Most women can easily get orgasm by just stimulating the clitoris even without penetration.

 

(2)   As this area is hypersensitive it is better not to apply too much direct pressure when you start to stimulate it. Focusing too much effort on the clitoris can be quite uncomfortable for some women, so you should aim at just below or just above her clitoris. You can start with a light touch on the clitoris and then move to the surrounding area.

 

(3)   Sexual stimulation is largely a mental exercise for women and turning her on requires you to stimulate her brain and not just her body. Whispering sweet things in her ear and talking dirty to her, telling her what you plan to do to her and letting her know how turned on you are can be very sexually stimulating to her. Of course, not to skip foreplay. The more she gets aroused, the easier it is for her to reach orgasm.

 

(4)   There are 4 ways for you to stimulate her clitoris:

 

(a)    Fingers

 

First cut your nails. You start by stroking her thighs and caressing the areas around her clitoris before you rub softly in circular motion on her clitoris.

 

(b)   Oral

 

Create a little bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she is about to reach orgasm and gently blowing on it to increase her sensation. You can also use your tongue to lightly lick on the clitoris just like you are licking the cone of the ice-cream.

 

(c) Sexual organ

 

You can rub the tip of your ‘little brother’ against her clitoris to get her high. Another way is to get her lay on her back with legs tightly clamp close to her stomach and you slide your ‘small brother’ between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. When you move back and forth in this position, your ‘little brother’ will brush against the vaginal outer lips as well as her clitoris.

 

(d)   Vibrator

 

Besides using a battery-powered vibrator, you can wear some kind of stretch rings around your ‘little brother’ which can offer effective stimulation on her clitoris with each thrust.

 

Now you have the basic ideas to try straight away tonight. It is always desirable if you can be as knowledgeable as possible in pleasuring her. When you are ready to find out more, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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Female Orgasm – How To Masturbate A Girl

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Do you want to make your girl happy in bed? Do you want to give her the best orgasm she ever had? If you do, read on.

 

It is estimated only around 30% of women orgasm through intercourse alone. The rest need additional stimulation, such as clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. If you want your girl to have a real good time in bed, then you need to learn how to stimulate the clitoris. You can stimulate her clitoris by your fingers, mouth/tongue, penis and sex toys.

 

How To Give Her A Hand Job

 

Get your girl to lie on her back, legs apart. If she dislikes direct rubbing of her clitoris, do it with her panties on. You use the finger tips for actual stimulation, but it is better to start with patting motions or light rubbing motions over the general area (the whole vulva area). Use two fingers to rub up and down in short strokes or in circular motion (according to her preference) right over her clitoris and then increase the pace and pressure of your rubbing as she gets aroused. When you are tired, you can change into the other hand. You can use your the other free hand to stimulate her nipples or just rest.

 

If your partner enjoys having her clitoris touched directly, you will need some movement for proper stimulation. To start, use soft, gentle motions and try using the palm of your hands, so the contact is not so direct. As your partner becomes more aroused, switch to faster, more direct movements using your fingertips. Avoid pushing on the clitoris and focus instead of motion and speed.

 

How To Stimulate Her Clitoris Orally

 

First, do not go straight for her clitoris, because it is very sensitive for some women. Start with slow, rhythmic tongue strokes. Try a long, easy ice-cream lick from bottom to top that covers the full span of her inner vaginal lips and ends with her clitoral head. No matter how worked up she becomes, keep it slow and easy. Tease her into delirium, and then hit her with a series of fast vertical and diagonal tongue strokes on her clitoris. Next, you return to slow, easy strokes. You repeat until she reaches orgasm.

 

During your oral stimulation of her clitoris, do pay attention to your partner’s reactions or ask questions. If you are not ready to ask questions, look for withering, moaning, and the lifting of hips to meet your mouth or trembling. As she gets aroused, you may suck her clitoris with your lips or provide gentle nibbles with your teeth. Note which of these actions derives the biggest response from your partner and repeat as necessary until you reach the intended result.

 

How To Stimulate Her Clitoris Using Sex Toys

 

Special sex toys are available with the sole intentions on stimulating the clitoris. When the clitoris receives stimulation from a vibrating object, such as a vibrator, clitoral or nipple stimulator for only a few seconds, the vaginal cavity often becomes wet. In addition to lubricating the vagina, stimulation by vibration also results in female ejaculation and orgasm.

 

Or, you can use an electric toothbrush as a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. You put a dampened washcloth over the toothbrush and lubricate her clitoris with lotion. Get her to lie on her back with her legs spread. With your left hand, you spread the vaginal lips to expose the clitoris, and you hold the vibrator with your right hand and gently press it on her clitoris. Sometimes you move it up and down; sometimes you leave it in one spot, depending on what feels good.

 

How To Stimulate Her Clitoris During Intercourse

 

When you are in the missionary position, focus on shallow trusts, barely penetrating her vagina. You press the head of your penis against her clitoral head. Or press the shaft of your penis against her clitoris and gently thrust without entering her. When you penetrate deeply, press your pelvic bone against her clitoris and hold it there. By doing this, you will be hitting her hot spots. Many of the nerve endings that contribute to orgasm are on the surface of her vulva and within the first inch or so of her vaginal entrance.

 

If you place a pillow under her lower back (not her rear end), this will tilt her pelvis down and will allow the penis to have a better chance of rubbing against her clitoris as you thrust in and out in the normal missionary position.

 

You can also get an egg (or bullet) style vibrator. They are small and work well for clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Just start with low speed, if you have a multi-speed model, and place it right against her clitoris. Now, enter her vaginally with your penis (use missionary position). Your body will hold the bullet (or egg) in place on her clitoris while you thrust in and out of her vagina. This way, she can receive the clitoral stimulation that she may need in order to orgasm during intercourse. You can use it in the woman-on-top position easily, also.

 

Another great technique to help provide clitoral stimulation during intercourse is to use a long, narrow, silky scarf, and place it at midpoint behind your penis and testicles. Bring the ends around to the front, just above the base of your penis and tie them together firmly, but not painfully, in a large knot. The larger the knot, the higher will be the chances of it to rub against her clitoris during your thrusting.  You may even want to tie several knots to maximize the size of your knotted area. Be sure to leave the free ends at least a foot long. During missionary-position intercourse, your lady can grab the free ends of the scarf with her hands and pull back and forth on them to stimulate her clitoris with the knot.

 

Learning how to stimulate a clitoris often significantly improves a dull sex life. If your sex life has been missing something lately, the above mentioned tips should come in handy for you. For more tips and ideas to give her the best sexual experience, you can take a look at Give Her Earth-Moving Orgasms and/or Secrets Of Female Orgasm

 

 

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Her Pleasure – How To Orgasm During Sex

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During sexual intercourse, your girl claimed that she never feel any sensation or tingling feelings, or feeling nothing. She can feel your penis, but that is all. She loves you, but during sex, she feels nothing.  Though you can turn her on, and she can get aroused, but when it comes to actually having sex, she just can’t reach orgasm. This is no surprise considering only 30 percent of women experience orgasms from sex alone. This is because many sex positions do not stimulate the main female hot spots, such as the clitoris and the G-spot. How to help her to reach orgasm during intercourse?

 

(1)   Focus on emotional intimacy with her

 

As counterintuitive as it may seem, focus on the idea that you can have ecstatic sex even without orgasm. That means both of you! Sometimes reaching that big “O” can be frustrating, but ironically, the best way to achieve orgasm is often to simply stop trying so hard. Reaching the big finish does take some effort, but if you keep thinking “orgasm, orgasm, orgasm” throughout sex, this will just make you (and your partner) completely stressed out. You will both be left feeling inadequate and disconnected if the big moment does not pan out.

 

You also have to recognize that women are not all the same when it comes to what can get them aroused. Most guys think that foreplay is kissing and touching a woman’s genitals. But for some women, foreplay is having a nice intimate dinner or connecting emotionally through various situations. Instead, you enjoy the intimacy of being close to your partner, to pay more attention to your partner’s needs and try figuring out what works best for her, and most important you should not assume she wants what you want.

 

(2)   Experiment and try new ways to please herself

 

If your girl is not able to orgasm during intercourse, it could be that she has not explored enough of her body and therefore have not found her way of reaching an orgasm via intercourse or internal stimulation. In order to see what works for her, you can get her to try in her own privacy to stimulate herself internally, inside the vagina, with a dildo or vibrator, to find the most sensitive spot for her inside the vagina. This is a form of self-sexual therapy to get your girl comfortable with her genitals and sexual response which can help to increase the chances of having orgasms during intercourse.

 

Many women find that the most sensitive spot is located on the belly side of the vagina, which is commonly known as the g-spot. It is believed that the reason why the g-spot is sensitive is because there are little ducts hanging off the urinary tract, which have the same make-up as the prostate in males. If a man’s prostate is stimulated, he can orgasm.  It is believed that therefore if she stimulates these little ducts via the vagina she is able to orgasm internally.

 

In the process of self-discovery, she can also get the help of a sex toy. A battery-operated vibrator can help to “break through” an obstacle to climaxing. Once she has had the experience several times on her own, it will give her the confidence that she “works just fine”. She can then replicate that stimulation on her own or with you.

 

Once she has found her sensitive spot, try to stimulate it and see what happens. Afterwards both of you can explore various sexual positions and see if it is possible to be able to stimulate that area with the penis. However, if she finds that there is no specific sensitive spot for her, then she should try to masturbate while having sexual intercourse.

 

(3)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Ask your girl to guide you by placing her fingers over your fingers or hand, pressing the spots she likes and showing you the motion and frequency that makes her go wild. You cannot count on intercourse alone to provide enough stimulation. Oral sex can be highly pleasurable to many women because of its direct focus on the clitoris. Women experience intense orgasms through oral sex. Manually, orally or with a vibrator, you may need to stimulate her clitoris more directly.

 

(4)   Try a variety of sex positions where her clitoris and g-spot can be further stimulated.

 

The woman-on-top position has more potential for clitoral stimulation than the normal missionary position. When she is on top, she can have more control over the amount of stimulation, rhythm, and pacing as she rubs her clitoris against the penis. She can adjust the angle of her hips to reach your pubic bone. This position also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the g-spot and trigger an orgasm. The technique can be carried out with you lying down on your back or sitting. Either you or your partner can also press a vibrator into the clitoris for a more intense stimulation.

 

The rear entry position will need her to stand and bend at the waist or kneels on all fours or leaning forward on her elbows and you stand or kneel behind her. Either you or her can caress the clitoris or to press a vibrator against it. After you enter her, get her to squeeze her legs closed while you place your legs outside hers. You can then squeeze her legs further closed with your thighs. It may help if you can shift your pelvis forward to cause pressure and friction on her clitoris.

 

The missionary position with a full pelvic tilt position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the part of the clitoris that extends into the vaginal wall. Get her to lie on her back, put one or more pillows beneath her buttocks to tilt her pelvis upward. To achieve a better angle for you to hit her g-spot, you raise her buttocks with your hands. For deeper penetration to hit her g-spot, you can get her to hug her knees to her chest or to rest her legs on your shoulders.

 

To increase the chances of having a female orgasm during intercourse, these tips and simple variations of the sex positions can help to allow your girl to enjoy a new erotic pleasure. Like with anything else in life, doing the same old thing can get boring and boring does not go well together with orgasm. So mix it up and try new things to increase her arousal.

 

If you need more fresh ideas and tips on how to be good in bed so that both of you can have a great sex life, you can click on Hot Sex and/or Dirty Harry’s Secrets.

 

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