How To Get And Use Sex Toys For Beginners

 

 

 

If you have never used sex toys you may find them intimidating. This is especially so for people with little or no sexual experience. You can use sex toys to explore your body before choosing to become sexually active. What are the good sex toy choices for beginners or people who have little or no sexual experience?

 

Penis sleevePenis sleeve

Penis sleeve

This is a male sex toy. It is a tube made of cyber skin or other soft material that slides over the penis shaft and is supposed to mimic the feeling of a vagina or mouth. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, a penis sleeve is a good choice. Rub a little water-based lubricant on the shaft before you slip your penis through the sleeve and glide it up and down manually. You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have. Some have textured lining for extra stimulation.

 

Penis ring

Penis ring

 

 

The ring works by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis to help the user achieves a firmer or harder and longer lasting erection. For beginners, it is advisable to use adjustable and simple rings. Some rings come with buckles and snaps. If you are using them, just be careful not to let your pubic hair get caught in the snaps.

 

If you are using an adjustable ring, open it up all the way, slip it over the penis and behind the scrotum and then tighten it. Once you have gotten the ring on, you can masturbate all the way to orgasm and ejaculation. If you feel any discomfort, remove the ring. Whichever type of penis ring you choose to use, do not leave it on for more than 20 minutes. Once you are comfortable with using the penis ring on your own, you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of the sex play.

 

Clitoral vibrator

Clitoral vibrator

 

This is the best option for a girl if she does not want to have any insertion at all or does not want to stretch her vagina too much. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation. This is because the clitoris which is packed with numerous sensitive nerve endings is responsible for most female orgasms. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrator than other kinds of sex toys because it can provide some of the best orgasms.

 

Small vibrator

Small vibrator

 

This is a good choice for women who are using a vibrator for the first time to insert into themselves. This kind of vibrator is even thinner than a tampon so that it does not hurt when a woman push it into herself. A good thing about small vibrator is that it can fit in the purse so that she can take it with her wherever she goes.

 

Bullet vibrator attaches to penis ring

A more versatile type of small vibrator is the bullet style vibrator which can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina. Some bullet style vibrators can be attached on penis rings and used for couple’s pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anal plug

Anal plug

 

This is a good choice if you are new to anal sex. Whether you are enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, this toy can give you just enough stimulation without being painful. Make sure you apply water-based lubricant on this toy before inserting it into the anus.

 

 

Special toy cleaner

Toy maintenance

 

To keep your toys in proper condition, it is better to clean them with a mild soap or special sex toy cleaner before and after use. Avoid using strong detergents because they can breakdown the toy material. For battery-operated toys, take out the batteries after using them. Rinse water-proof toys with hot water. For those that are electrical or not water-proof, clean them with a soapy wet cloth. Dry them thoroughly after cleaning. Most germs cannot live on a dry surface.

 

Read this a few times before you make any decision about the usage of sex toys. When you are ready for action, you can take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Naughty Jane’s Treasure.

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For Couples – How To Increase Pleasure From Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Every now and then, your sex life may need a little spicing up to keep it exciting. If you have already tried the various sex positions, role-playing, have sex outside the bedroom, it is probably the time for you to try something else. How about sex toys? You may ask why you need to use sex toys. Adult toys are a great way to break the sexual rut. They make sexual efforts easy, while maximizing pleasure and creativity.

 

Toys can be used for masturbation or to enhance pleasure from intercourse. They can make foreplay or even post coital moments fantastic. For many women, vibrating sex toys are the easiest way to help them achieve orgasm. Couples that use sex toys tend to have a strong level of open communication, trust and unconditional love for each other.

 

There are so many ways people use toys to enhance their sexual pleasure. Because they are available in various shapes, sizes and functions for pleasuring various parts of the body, you and your partner can do many creative things with just any of them. But which toys are suitable to you and your partner? What is it like to really use these toys?

 

(1) Vibrators

 

They are designed to stimulate the nerves for a relaxing and pleasurable feeling. They can be used alone for self pleasure or intercourse. A vibrator will often bring a woman to orgasm in as little as a few minutes and is a great way to start off foreplay. There are various types of vibrators with each of them offering stimulation to a certain part of the body.

 

The clitoral vibrator is used to stimulate the clitoris. The penis-shaped vibrator is used to stimulate the g-spot or for anal penetration. The rabbit vibrator offers simultaneous stimulation to the clitoris and vagina. The vibrating cock ring which is attached to a cock ring provides clitoral stimulation during penetrative intercourse.

 

Men can also use vibrators to discover new ways to feel sexual pleasure. A man can use a vibrator to explore the various parts of his body to discover any new pleasure spots.

 

(2) Penis rings

 

These sex toys can help the penis to look bigger. A penis ring can also help an erection last longer. When a vibrator is attached to the penis ring, it can help to enhance clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse.

 

(3) Ben wa balls

 

These are a set of metal balls that are placed inside the vagina and vibrate when the two balls come into contact with one another. Ben wa balls can be used by women alone, or by couples together.

 

(4) Nipple toys

 

They range from anything from clamps, vibrators to pumpers and suckers. They can allow a woman to enjoy hands-free stimulation while engaging in sex with a partner or for self-stimulation.

 

(5) Novelty condoms

 

They are also known as French ticklers. These condoms can stimulate the inside of the vagina for better sensation during intercourse.

 

(6) Wedge

 

The liberator wedge is used for deeper penetration. It is placed under her pelvis region to hoist her hips up while you are in the missionary position so that you can hit her g-spot and go even deeper. When it is placed under her tummy, it can help to prop up her body for doggie position.

 

(7) Creams and oils

 

They come in different scents, flavors and textures. They can also be used as sensual aids. They can make the skin feel smooth and soft and flavor the skin for oral sex or body kissing. They may also be used as lubricants.

 

These are some of the commonly used toys which can definitely heat things up in the bedroom. Open your mind and try them and you may have a great experience. When you and your partner are ready to experiment them for a better sex life, you can click on Dirty Harry’s Secrets and/or Pleasure Kit.

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How To Pleasure A Girl

 

 

 

 

 

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Are you looking for new ways to please a girl and enrich her sensations? Have you ever thought of using sex toys? You may be wondering why you should use sex toys and if you have to use them how you should go about using them. If you have not yet used sex toys probably thinking that they can cut down your girl’s dependence on you, have no fear. This is because no matter how effective sex toys can be, they can no way replace the intimacy and love that you can offer to your woman. Rather than competitors, sex toys can also serve as good allies in helping you to improve performance in bed. For example, when your fingers or mouth is tired, sex toys can temporarily take over the job to satisfy your woman. If you have problems in doing 2 things at a time, sex toys can help you to focus on doing one task to her maximum pleasure.

 

So, if you are in need of some unique techniques to use a vibrator (which is the most common sex toy) to pleasure a woman, you can use the following tips tonight.

 

(1)   Get her feedback

 

There is nothing shameful in getting her to show or tell you how she likes a vibrator to be used on her. After all, the circumstances and stimulation under which orgasm can occur is different for every woman. Some women can easily have g-spot orgasms with sex toys while others require very specific placement, speed and pressure to orgasm. So, you should observe and learn how she uses the vibrator on herself. After all, no one knows how better to make her orgasm than she herself.

 

(2)   Tease her slowly

 

When comes to sex, it is best to take things slowly and this applies to even using a vibrator. You start from the lowest vibration and work it up to the highest speed. In using a vibrator, it is the same as when you use your hands to touch her during foreplay, you should not go right to the lower part of her body. Instead, you use a vibrator on other areas of her body to get her warmed up first.

 

You can use it on her nipples, on her inner thighs and just above and around her vagina. You take time to explore other erogenous zones she may have. Once you have found some of these areas which are especially sensitive to her (through using your tongue or fingers), try to stimulate those areas using the vibrator. This could mean a mind-blowing orgasm for her, along with the possibility of more than one orgasm, making subsequent intimate events a lot hotter.

 

(3)   Be careful when you stimulate the clitoris

 

Though most vibrators are made to focus on the clitoris, however you have to take note that under the clitoris there are numerous nerve endings which means this area is just as sensitive as the tip of the penis. Therefore putting a vibrator against the lower end of the clitoris may be too much stimulation for her. You can get a cloth or towel in between the vibrator and the clitoris to muffle the effect slightly.

 

(4)   Do not forget yourself

 

Who says you need just a vibrator to please a woman? If this is so, a woman can just marry to a vibrator. Do not forget you still have your tongue, hands or even your male-hood which you should use to give her extra pleasure. When you stimulate her clitoris with the vibrator, you can slide one or two fingers inside her to massage the g-spot. Of course, you have to make sure she is sufficiently aroused before you insert your fingers inside her. You can also alternate this action by sliding the vibrator inside her and rubbing the clitoris with your thumb.

 

Using a vibrator on her does not excuse you from giving her oral pleasure. Try alternating between your mouth and vibrator on any of her erogenous zones. When you slide the vibrator inside her, you can lick on her clitoris.

 

When you penetrate her, you can continue to stimulate the clitoris using the vibrator. Or, when you enter her from behind, you can also insert the vibrator into her anus.

 

(5)   Turn her wild with more toys

 

Do not restrict yourself to only one vibrator. You can get a dual action vibrator for vaginal and anal stimulation and an egg vibe for her clitoris and use them at the same time. Get some vibrating nipple clamps. You may like to get those double-bullet vibrators with stretchy cock ring attachments which you can wear the vibrator while moving beyond foreplay.

 

So, here are the tips on how to use a vibrator properly on a girl. The basic principles in pleasing a girl still apply – paying attention to find out what she likes and do more of those things that turn her on a lot. The only difference is, you have one or more tools available to help you to pleasure her. You can find out more about these from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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Tried and Tested: Top 4 Sex Toys

With sex toys fast rivalling smart phones in terms of sales, we give you the lowdown on the latest and greatest pleasure toys.

The UK sex toy industry is set to rise to £400 million making a sex toy a must-have accessory.  With celebrities talking candidly about their sex lives and books like 50 Shades of Grey dominating our bestseller lists, we are beginning to view sex as a less taboo subject and are embracing our sexual prowess.

With this in mind, a designer sex toy could be just the thing you need to reignite that flame in the bedroom.  There are also pieces designed with the solo user in mind.

Dildo

Dildo

Lelo is the fashionable Swedish sex toy design house famed for their exciting bedroom accessories and upmarket, pleasure objects with slick, ergonomic, polished designs.  The Lelo Ella Dildo is a smooth, seamless, high-quality bedroom aids.  Designed to provide precise g-spot performance with the sculpted end.  Meanwhile the other end is used to instigate more soothing, conventional stimulation.  Available in variety of vibrant colours, this piece has an exquisite, organic shape.

At only £29, this hotly anticipated sex toy is a great all-rounder.  Providing mind-blowing arousal at a knockdown price, the Lelo Ella Black is an excellent stocking filler this Christmas.

Vibrators

Vibrator

These are vibrating devices, designed to stimulate the body.  With so many exciting designs available on the market, there is something for everyone.  From big pieces to more understated numbers, to internal use or just for external pleasure, there are vibrators for all your needs and preferences.

Whether you are after a curved, straight, long, short, hand-held, battery operated or rechargeable number, there are vibrators to suit all manner of tastes.  Enhance your sexual experience with the new and exciting Fresh vibrator by Leaf.  Featuring a simple leaf structure and sculpted design this waterproof and eco-friendly number is the perfect, guilt-free treat.

Perfect for the amateur sex toy user through to the most demanding pleasure seeker.  The leaf collection includes a number of exciting pieces from Life, Bloom, Vitality, Touch, Fresh and Spirit.  The names of all these pieces are all suggestive of injecting a new lease of life into the user (literally).  Durable, long-lasting and waterproof, these pieces are brightly coloured in a vibrant lime green and are made from 100% silicone.  All Leaf products come in a sophisticated, recyclable cardboard box and a canvas tote bag for storage.  They also have a lithium rechargeable power supply to reduce your carbon footprint.

Fresh is a curved heart shape, which makes it the most charming sex toy I have seen to date.  This fun, fresh and modern piece has the latest technology.  Secreted beneath the surface is the PowerBullet core which is the piece de resistance of this brand.

For such a compact piece, the Fresh has an extensive range of power.  With high intensity vibrations, Fresh will satisfy your needs in a matter of minutes.  This piece is small with a beautiful, elaborate design which is formed to the woman’s body.  Grow your own fantasies with the sensual shape and contours of this stunning piece.

Rabbit

Rabbit


A Rabbit is the ultimate sex toy that every girl should own.  Originally made famous by the ladies of Sex and the City, this intricately designed piece comes in all shapes and sizes.  However the functions which penetrate (excuse the pun!) all the rabbit designs is the clitoral stimulator and shaft which is used to induce intense orgasms.
Whether you want a rechargeable rabbit, battery operated, waterproof or maybe a super-quiet one, there are designs to suit all tastes and preferences.

Vibe Therapy are a leading sex toy brand who specialise in producing exquisite pieces, made from the finest materials with unique, modern and tantalising designs.  They produce a number of rabbit style vibrators.  The Vibe Therapy Jubilation Rabbit Vibrator is a fierce piece of arousal-inducing apparatus.  As the name suggests, this piece is designed to stimulate exaltation and happiness in its user and this is no spurious hype, it actually does exactly what it says on the tin!

Made from medical grade silicone, this is one of the most hygienic and safe materials for internal use.  With 7 massage functions to induce clitoral stimulation, choose from a slow, soothing vibration to a more powerful, faster pulsing sensation.  This piece also has 3 rotation functions to provide heightened pleasure and is celebrated for its extremely precise stimulation.  The clitoral stimulator is designed to nuzzle, probe and massage your clitoris with acute accuracy.

This piece features an understated, polished and stylish design, this piece is visually, less intimidating than other rabbits and therefore may appeal to first-time buyers and is also lightweight, even when batteries are inserted.

Massager

Massager


The Lelo Lily provides intense pleasure at your fingertips.  With 5 sensational modes of stimulation and 10 different speeds, this small, neat design nestles into the user’s hand.  This intimate massager is great for couples.

Available in 3 sexy colours, this piece has a silky-smooth finish and is the ultimate pleasure-inducing massager.

This piece can be used for solo clitoral stimulation as well as for extra stimulation during intercourse with your partner.  The Lelo Lily is exceptionally light and comes with an in built rechargeable battery which will last up to seven hours after being fully charged.

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Do You Make These Mistakes When Having Sex With A Woman

 

 

 

 

 

Have you ever wondered why your woman is not interested in sex lately? Why is she bored with sex? For all the guys who think that women are playing mind games with them when it comes to sex, the problem may not lie with them, it could be you.

 

When you are about to have sex with a woman, the last thing you want to do is to turn her off. Many men are unaware of what they are doing wrong in bed, thinking they know everything there is needed to know about having sex with women.

 

Do you inadvertently make the following mistakes which may have prevented you from becoming a better lover?

 

(1)   Assuming you know everything about what she wants

 

When comes to women, there is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all strategy, whether it is inside or outside of the bedroom. There is no one special dating or sexual techniques manual that can be applicable to all women. This is because every woman is different, each of her personality, likes and dislikes are shaped by her individual life experiences.

 

What you can learn from those dating and lovemaking manuals is to learn and know about these ideas and when you put them into practice, you have to improvise, adjust and customize in order for these ideas to work effectively on any particular woman.

 

(2)   You are probably too dogmatic

 

Some women who have orgasm difficulty probably need a lot more vibrations or extra help in order to come. You may be too busy doing one thing to be able to have enough time to stimulate her other erogenous zones. But men tend to think something must be wrong with a woman if she needs a vibrator.

 

Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. For example, while you are busily stimulating her g-spot, the vibrator can be used to stimulate the clitoris or perineum (the area between the vaginal opening and anus).

 

(3)   You think that what feels good for you is equally pleasurable for her

 

There tends to be a “huge gulf” between men and women about how sex feels good. Some men are rather “superstitious” in believing that a big size male organ can give women a heavy dosage of pleasure when they push deeper and thrust harder, which feel good for most men.

 

The fact is, the inside of the vagina is less sensitive than the outer part for most women. Due to this reason, deep thrusting is not an effective way to make a woman orgasm. If the penis is too long, it may cause her painful sex.

 

(4)   You ignore everything but her breasts and vagina

 

Why some men seem to have a rather difficult time in pleasing a woman? This is because most of them seem to believe that penetration will give her screaming orgasms. However, the vaginal wall has very little in the way of pleasure building nerve endings. Due to this reason, about 75% of women never have an orgasm during intercourse.

 

Sexual stimulation for a woman is not an on/off switch. Just because you touch a certain spot on her body, does not necessarily mean you are going to make her come. Before you even think about making contact with her genitalia, you need to make her feel loved and relaxed.

 

How sexually satisfied she is, will depend to a great extent on her state of mind. You should focus on her entire body and pay attention to other parts of her body such as licking behind her knees, kissing her wrists, rubbing her back and caressing her stomach. This can mentally prepare her for sex and will turn her on a lot more and in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.

 

(5)   You think that she is turned on when she gets wet

 

Some guys are of the view that if she is turned on, she will get wet and if she does not, he will feel that he is doing a lousy job of not pleasing her enough. This mistake can also lead men to prematurely end the foreplay on their women.

 

The fact is some women tend to get wetter than others and how much she lubricates can change from day to day. It can vary by the phase of her menstrual cycle and is subjected to influences likes stress and medication.

 

Now that you have some ideas about what not to do to leave women frustrated and disappointed. How about clicking on Hot Sex and Great Lover to find out what you can do to satisfy women both physically and emotionally?

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