Problem-Solving Sex Positions For Couples

 

 

 

 

Want to have a baby? How to build confidence in bed for her? How to increase pleasure for her? How to last long? What to do if she complains of pain during intercourse? Is it due to your big size penis? If it is so, how do you overcome this? Or, if you feel you are small down there, how to make it feel big for you and her? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Sex Positions To Get Pregnant

 

(a)    The man-on-top position works well in getting her pregnant. During intercourse, deep penetration will help to minimize the amount of ejaculate leaking out. After withdrawing the penis, press her vaginal lips together to prevent further leakage. She should remain lying on her back for an additional 20 to 30 minutes preferably with her lower back supported by a small pillow so her pelvis is tilted slightly upwards. This will allow the sperms enough time to easily swim up through the cervix.

 

(b)   Lying side-by-side is a more relaxed position and is easier for a partner who is overweight or has a back problem. You can do this either face-to-face or in the spoon position with you entering her from behind.

 

(c)    Doggie position (entering her from behind) will allow you to enter with deeper thrusts and deposit the sperms close to the cervix.

 

(d)   On edge position is when she positions herself at the edge of the bed or couch and you enter her from either a standing or kneeling position.

 

(2)   Sex Position To Build Confidence For Her

 

If she is lacking confidence in bed, the best way to overcome this is to let her take control. This will mean allowing her to be on top of you. This can be done by kneeling, squatting, facing you or her back facing you.

 

(3)   Sex Positions To Increase Pleasure For Her

 

(a)    She will be squatting on top of you with her hands on your body for support. Instead of her rocking backward and forward, she will slide herself up and down with the penis inside her. This position lets her vary the pace and depth of thrusts which helps put her in control of her orgasm. Squatting will help her to feel the entire length of your shaft as she encircles it, and the muscle tension created by holding herself above you can add to the intensity of her pleasure. The friction from this up-and-down movement will give her amazing sensations all along the edge of her vaginal opening when she pumps shallow and on her g-spot when she pumps deep. If she chooses to lean backward and rest her hands on your thigh and knees the sensation will even spread to her clitoris.

 

(b)   In this lying on the side face-to-face position, she will raise her leg and allow you to slide inside her, and then drape her leg over yours. Try to arrange it in such a way that her feet are braced against a wall or footboard. In this way, she can use the strength in her legs to give her the action she wants. This side-by-side position allows her to have a firm, full-body contraction in order to reach the next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. She can choose the type and level of stimulation she wants by resting her thigh on you or lifting her thigh. She will enjoy greater stimulation on the inner walls of her entire vagina by resting her thigh on you. If she lifts her leg and opens up, she allows you a bigger range of motion, which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation while on her way to orgasm.

 

(c)    She will lie down on the table with buttocks near the edge. You will enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can either rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of table. This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris easily. To increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, get her to lift up her buttocks or slip a pillow or a love cushion which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to her genitals.

 

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(4)   Sex Positions To Last Longer

 

(a)    Penetration in standing position can help you to last longer. This is because by standing up you are drawing blood away from the genitals and into your legs which makes lasting longer easier.

 

(b)   If you let her get on top of you, you can last longer. This is because when she is on top, you can fully relax all your muscles, which can help to delay your orgasm. Put your hands on her hips to guide her in how she moves to prevent her from giving you too much sexual excitement.

 

(c)    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders. In this position, you will be on your knees and after you enter her, you spread your knees as wide apart as possible until you can feel the groin muscles stretching. This will put pressure on your groins which will cause energy and blood to flow there and away from your genitals, making lasting longer much easier.

 

(5)   Sex Positions To Avoid Painful Intercourse For Her

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position allows a woman to control the depth of penetration if deep penetration hurts. This position allows you to add more pleasure to intercourse by caressing her breasts or clitoris

 

(b)   Another good position for her to avoid painful intercourse is for both of you to lie on your sides, either with you behind her (spooning), or face-to-face

 

(6)   Sex Positions For Small Penis

 

(a)    She will sit on top of you, grinding herself forward and backward instead of up-and-down, to prevent your penis from slipping out.

 

(b)   Missionary with her ankles crossing behind your neck. This position will tighten her vaginal canal which is a great way to squeeze you and making you feel big inside her

 

(c)     She will lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Her buttocks will be raised a little allowing you to enter her from behind. You can prop yourself up with your arms for more range of motion.

 

(7)   Sex Positions For Big Penis

 

(a)    When she is on top of you, she will move her hips in circular motions as she glides up and down, only going as deep as she can handle. Or, you can sit on a chair without arms and just let her straddle on your laps either facing you or away from you, using your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

 

(b)   She will lie on her back, lifting her legs so that they are pointing at the ceiling. You will kneel in front of her with your back straight, wrapping your arms around her thighs as you enter her. This is a shallow penetration position giving a lot of chance for the tip of the penis to rub against the area around the vaginal opening. This means your most sensitive part (penis tip) will be in contact with her highly sensitive area near the vaginal entrance which has a lot of nerve endings there.

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Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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Does Circumcision Increase The Risk Of Erection Problems?

 

 

 

 

Could circumcision be having any significant impact on how to maintain an erection?

 

Circumcision is a very emotionally charged topic with some people feeling that this is unethical and should be outlawed. On the other hand, some are of the view that circumcision can help to lower the risks of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Yet, till now, there are no national health authorities recommending that their citizens should practice circumcision.

 

According to some research studies, circumcision does indeed cause erectile dysfunction. The main reason cited in these studies is that the foreskin which protects the head of the penis has several kinds of specialized nerves that play an important role in sexual pleasure and sensitivity.

 

Without the foreskin to protect the glans (head of the penis), the surface of the glans will thicken due to its constant rubbing against the fabrics. As time goes on, this constant brushing against the fabrics can reduce the sensitivity of the glans to stimulation thus giving rise to problems in achieving erection.

 

Yet on the other hand, there are some people who claim that circumcision can never cause erection problems; though masturbation without a foreskin is quite different in the sense that some lubrication may be needed. They are of the view that the tip of the penis is still the most sensitive part and this will remain so, with or without foreskin.

 

What is my view?

 

Though I do not have a strong religious faith, I am of the view that there is a sort of a Creator up there and everything exists for a reason. Therefore we should not try to interfere too much with the way Nature sorts things out.

 

Following this logic, I am of the view that there must be some good reasons for the foreskin to exist. If not, the foreskin could have just degenerated or withered off long time ago. The view about the surface of the glans (head of the penis) being thicker due to constant rubbing against fabrics and leading to some decrease in sensation makes a lot of common sense to me. So, I do believe that there is still a possibility that this can lead to impotence or difficulty in getting an erection.

 

How to increase sensitivity of the penis?

 

(1)   Stroking and tickling

 

What I mean here is not masturbation. The purpose of doing this is to gradually restore the penile sensitivity. Instead of masturbating and having sex in the same way you usually do, you can try to stroke your penis gently and using feathers or soft brush to tickle, contact the glans. For a start, you can do this for five to ten minutes and gradually increase the time you do it. You will be pleasantly surprised how much the sensitivity of your penis has improved after a few months.

 

(2)   Touching your other erogenous areas

 

Rather than focusing on your penis, it will be better to touch other erogenous parts of your body. You will have to find out for yourself which other parts of your body are sensitive to touch. You can use your hands to feel for yourself, or you can use a vibrator or a massager to do it.

 

Commonly-known male erogenous zones (besides the penis) are the feet, ears, the back of the knees, the area of the abdomen between the navel and pelvis, the inner thighs, back of the neck, nipples, the area between scrotum (penis balls) and anus, the anus, and the inside part of the arms. Just make sure you touch your erogenous zones consistently.

 

(3)   Wear looser type of underwear that is made of soft materials

 

To reduce the friction between the glans (penis head) and the fabrics, you should change the type of underwear you are wearing. Get those looser ones that are made of soft materials such as cotton, rayon, silk-feel nylons.

 

(4)   Applying moisturizer on the glans

 

The main reason for the decrease in sensitivity of the penis is due to constant rubbing of the glans against the fabrics which causes its surface to become dry and thicken. In order to restore the penile sensitivity, you will have to regain the glans’ moisture and PH balance. A recommended way to achieve this is to use a moisturizing product, twice a day in the morning and evening, which is rich in essential natural vitamins, nutrients and amino acids.

 

(5)   Using a penis pump

 

A penis pump is a vacuum erection device consisting of a hollow tube with a hand-powered or battery-powered pump. It is used to achieve and maintain an erection that lasts long enough for sex.

 

To use this pump, the tube is placed over the penis and air is pumped out of the tube. Once you get an erection, you slip a cock ring around the base of the penis (behind the testicles) to keep blood from flowing out of this area so as to maintain the erection. After this, you will remove the tube. You have to be careful not to wear the cock ring for more than twenty minutes.

 

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Can Circumcision Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

 

 

 

You want your girl to have the best sex. You want her to experience intense orgasm. You can last long with hand job but when it comes to actual intercourse, you ejaculate under a minute. You find this so frustrating and embarrassing. You want to consider circumcision because you think the problem is due to your too sensitive foreskin which prevents you from lasting longer in bed? Is it true that circumcision can reduce or cure premature ejaculation?

 

It is true that an uncut penis is often more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis. The main reason is that as the glans, or the head of a circumcised penis gets used to constant rubbing against the fabrics, without the protection of the foreskin, it will become less sensitive to sexual stimulation. Due to this reason, a circumcised male is likely to take a longer time to ejaculate. To a certain extent, this happens to accidentally cure premature ejaculation.

 

However, there is still no convincing evidence to suggest that circumcision can make a significant difference to the time it takes for a man to ejaculate. A research done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicates that rates of premature ejaculation in the US (where over 70% of the males are circumcised) are similar to other parts of the world where circumcision rates are significantly lower. Though circumcision can to a certain extent reduce sensitivity (because a lot of nerve endings are removed with the foreskin), however it does not necessarily increase the time a guy takes to ejaculate.

 

How To Reduce Or Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

(1)   Choose sex positions to help you last longer

 

(a)   The woman-on-top position

 

You will lie down on the bed and she will sit on top of you. She can either face you or her back towards you. When she is on top, you can ask her to slow down to avoid stimulating you too much.

 

Instead of lying on your back, you can sit face-to-face with your partner sitting on your laps. She will adjust her lower body to facilitate penetration. This position improves intimacy with your partner because you can kiss her, rub her back and suck or fondle her breasts.

 

For a change, you can also sit with her back facing you so that you can fondle her breasts while you penetrate her.

 

(b)   The side-by-side position

 

Both of you will lie on your side facing each other. She will lift up her leg to facilitate penetration. In this position, penetration will tend to be shallower, increasing the likelihood of better clitoral stimulation. With shallower thrusting, the sensation will not become too overwhelming for you.

 

(2)   Focus on her pleasure

 

In my opinion, the best way to cope with premature ejaculation is not to think about how long you should last inside her. Instead you divert your attention to her. You focus on pleasuring her. You make sure she orgasms first before you ejaculate. For most women, the easiest and most effective way to make her orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris.

 

You can do this by using your hands to masturbate her. Since most women love oral sex, you can use your tongue to lick her clitoris. If your hand or tongue gets tired before she orgasms, you can continue to stimulate her by using a vibrator plus other fun aids.

 

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Sex Tips: How To Last Long

 

 

 

 

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It is one of those things that most men fear in bed. Before she cums, you come first. The disappointed look in her eyes is the last thing you want it to happen in her sexual experience. How to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) so that you can last long enough for her to reach orgasm before yours? Let’s find out below!

 

(1)   Pinpoint the underlying causes of your PE

 

The truth is while there are many causes of premature ejaculation which affects every guy differently, they can all be summarized by one main cause, which is the failure to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

 

The main reason that you are not lasting long enough is because you are allowing yourself to experience pleasure, or stimulation, with too high intensity. This high intensity of stimulation is what causes you to ejaculate earlier than you want.

 

To last longer in bed, you need to take control of your stimulation. You need to realize that what you are doing before and during sex can dramatically influence how long you can last. It is only when you understand that this has nothing to do with your age or penis size, it has to do with those every little action you take before and during sex which have some kind of impact on your stimulation, then it becomes easy to make a change.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can help you to last longer

 

Sex positions can have a dramatic effect on how long you last in bed. When it comes to choosing those last longer positions, it is more about having sex in those positions that will not stimulate you too soon or too strong.

 

One great position that makes this possible is the standing up. In this position, you make love either by standing in front or behind your woman and she can be standing or sitting at the edge of a table or bed. The reason this works so well is because when you are standing up, tension and pressure will be directed away from your penis. Part of this tension and pressure will be directed to your legs. This will relieve some of the pressure and stimulation on your penis, helping you to last longer.

 

Another position you can consider is the woman-on-top position. Why this position works? The main reason is because unlike most other positions, this position does not require you to move a lot other than using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones. Lesser movement will mean lesser stimulation on your part and you can get your woman to slow down her movements so that both of you will have higher chances of reaching orgasm at the same time.

 

Another way to help you last longer is when you sense you are quite close to orgasm, you switch into another less stimulating position.

 

(3)   Reduce the amount of friction to the penis tip

 

The tip of the penis (also known as the glans) is the most sensitive part. In the normal thrusting movement, it will be like pushing in as much as you can and pulling out in a way that cause the highly sensitive glans to rub against the entrance of her vagina, which offers you intense stimulation. To minimize the stimulation to your glans, after you push in, you do not pull out too much so that most of the time you are deep inside her. This will avoid getting your glans from being too strongly stimulated by your thrusting.

 

(4)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Instead of piling too much attention and pressure on yourself by trying to time yourself, you can distract from such stress by re-directing your attention on your woman. You slowly down and stimulate one by one her erogenous zones. This will increase the chances of your woman reaching orgasm faster and before you. After she have her first orgasm, her body will be highly sensitive to your stimulation. She will then reach orgasm again very soon and will be sexually satisfied. Under this circumstance, how much time you spend inside her will no longer be an issue. After all, she already gets her orgasm before yours.

 

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