The Most Effective Approach In Pleasing A Girl Sexually

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Any woman is able to orgasm quickly if she is being touched in the right places properly. Some women prefer fondling of their breasts while others like passionate kissing. However the most effective way to give women a quick orgasm is clitoral stimulation. This means any position where a part of your body (or other object such as pillow or toy) is touching and rubbing on her clitoris while stimulating her G-spot.


However, this is easier said than done. Some guys find it difficult to do more than one thing at the same time. A way to solve this problem is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort from the guy.


Here are 3 main lovemaking positions that will cause her to climax frequently and quickly:


(1)   Alignment Of Her Pubic Region With Yours


This is almost the same as the normal man on top and woman at the bottom position. However, in this position, a man’s pubic region is pressed against hers. This rocking to and fro or grinding on her clitoris will trigger orgasm quickly. To get greater pleasure, you can put a pillow under her buttocks to help in better positioning.


(2)   Woman On Top


(a)    When she is on top, she can have greater control of the angle, speed and depth of penetration as well as offering her maximum stimulation by rubbing her clitoris against your pubic bone and lower abdomen. She can lean her body forward, arch her back and keep her crotch in constant contact with the base of your pubic region.

(b)   An alternative woman on top position is instead of facing you; her back faces you while she straddles over your pubic region. Besides pleasuring her clitoris, this also offers G-spot stimulation for her.

(c)    A firm chair without arm rest can also offer good support for this position. She can use her hand to stimulate her clitoris while she positions herself in a way to allow her to control the depth and angle of penetration.


(3)   Doggie Style


While penetrating her from behind, this position allows you to stimulate her clitoris with your fingers at the same time. It can be better if she can do the clitoral stimulation but this can be a bit unsteady for her because she will only have one arm to hold herself up. Ask her which she prefers: you do the stimulation or she does. it herself


Getting her to reach orgasm involves stimulating the right areas, 2-way communication, coordination and experimenting to find which works on her. If you are very keen to give your woman the best orgasm of her life, you can take a look at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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The Naked Truth About Orgasm

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What sexual intercourse positions provide the most likelihood of producing female orgasm? Is it possible for a woman to have a vaginal orgasm without stimulating her clitoris?


Yes, it is absolutely possible to give a woman orgasm during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation.


There are huge differences between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm. Most vaginal orgasms are not caused by clitoral stimulation.


Giving her an orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation is easier than giving one with clitoral stimulation.


The 3 key contributing factors to non-clitoral orgasms during intercourse are:


(1)   Position

(2)   Angle

(3)   Intensity of sexual arousal


The main “pleasure point” for giving her a non-clitoral vaginal orgasm is the G-spot. This is located about 2 inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina (towards her belly button) roughly half-way between the opening and cervix.


In order to stimulate the G-spot you have to choose a position that allows your manhood to continuously stimulate her G-spot at the proper angle.


There are a few positions that work really well for this:


(1)   You can use a modified missionary position where you prop her buttocks and hips enough with a pillow to allow you to penetrate upwards and inwards at about forty-five degree angle.


(2)   You can use the rear entry position (commonly known as the doggie style position) that has the advantage of being able to slide the length of your organ along the G-spot.


(3)   You can also consider the reverse of the modified missionary position. This means you prop her buttocks high enough with a pillow or get her lean against a dinner table to allow you to penetrate her from behind (quite similar to doggie position). This position allows you to stimulate the G-spot in an upward to downward motion.


(4)   This position allows her to control the speed and depth of penetration and is also applicable when she is in advanced stage of pregnancy. It is a sort of reverse cow girl position. You lie on your back and with her back facing you; she adopts squatting posture, positioning her opening towards your organ to allow you to penetrate her.


Though the above suggested positions can help her to achieve orgasm, but this alone is not enough. This is because the G-spot takes a much longer time to reach its boiling point than the clitoris does. It takes a much more intense and prolonged level of sexual arousal to get the G-spot ready for orgasm. If you try to give your woman a G-spot orgasm before she is ready, the bigger likelihood is you reach orgasm first and ejaculate long before she reaches climax.


What is the missing piece to a powerful orgasm?


Most men really want to give their women the nuclear-powered orgasms during intercourse that she has been dreaming about. Unfortunately a lot of men think the key to achieving that level of orgasm is simply trusting longer, stronger and harder with the end result being the man comes and the woman cannot come.


Do you know that prolonged foreplay is needed first to arouse her sexually enough to reach orgasm? That is right! You need to arouse her enough in order for her to be more sexually responsive to your stimulation.


The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire “bag of ideas” ready to pull out whenever they are needed. If you are keen in looking for ideas and are serious in wanting to experience mind-blowing pleasure in bedroom, you can check this out at Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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Oral Sex – Get Into These Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm

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Do you want to know how you can give her great oral sex? She blows me and it is awesome but you are not sure if you are pleasuring her in the right way down there. Do you want to know what you can do to make her orgasm fast when eating her out? Do you want to know any more positions you can try, besides the normal missionary when you are giving her oral? Read below.


Take Your Time


Never go straight for her clitoris. Many women prefer to be aroused before you even head to that area. Get her warm up first. Kiss her deeply, nibble her ear and her neck and make your way down to her breasts. Lick and suck her nipples gently before you head even further south. You want to get her warmed up enough that she is craving your tongue before you ever touch her with it.

Compliment Her Goods

Now move your mouth down onto her stomach. Lick and kiss her navel and run your mouth and lips all over her stomach, round and round in circles. Work down towards her vulva but, at this stage, do not touch it – either with hands or mouth.


Some studies have shown that women who are more comfortable with their genitals not only more open to receiving oral sex, but they enjoy it more, they orgasm more, and they are just more sex positive all around. So, tell her how much you love the way she looks, tastes and feels. It will benefit the both of you in the long run.


Oral Sex Positions You Can Use


Woman on top – Lie on your back, keep your feet flat on the bed with your knees bent, and position a pillow underneath your neck and head for support. Have her sit on top of you, puther feet by your head, and rest her head on your bent knees. The advantage of this position is with your mouth right near her vulva, you will have easy access to her most sensitive parts and your hands will be free to do what they please.


Side by side – Both of you will lie on your sides, facing opposite directions. Have her support herself on a bent arm, and then position yourself between her outstretched legs. As you rest your head on her thigh that is closest to the bed, place her upper thigh over the top of your head, so both of your ears are covered by her legs. This position also gives you access to the entire vulva and it’s mighty comfortable, which means it’s easy to maintain for long periods of time.


Bending forward – As your partner stands in front of you, bend her over with her legs shoulder-width apart and have her place her hands around her ankles. Kneel behind her (add a pillow under your knees if needed) and help keep her stable by placing your hands on her hips. This is a very easy position for you to hold, and it allows you to manually stimulate her clitoris.


Against The Edge of Bed – You get her to lie down with her hips on the edge of the bed, her feet flat on the floor. You position between her thighs to kiss and rub her vulva and clitoris. As she becomes more excited, she can pull her thighs back to her chest, but still keeping them apart so that you can have access to her open vulva. This is an exceptionally good position for the woman who likes her man to insert his tongue into her vagina.


Against The Wall Or Table – With her back against the wall, you will position your mouth between her legs. Or you can get her to lean against the table, which is in many ways more comfortable for you because you can bend down less.


Doggy Style – Put pillows under her hips to prop her up. In this position, it is much easier for your girl to relax and reach orgasm, and it doesn’t take much to gain access to most of her vulva if she merely tilts her hips back and puts her head right down as far as she can. This position is great for you, as you too can use the pillows to prop yourself up. Plus, it allows for a fuller range of motion for both parties. A minor variation of this position is (without pillows) you lie on your back, sliding up underneath her clitoris and you give her oral in this position.


Sitting Position   You get her to sit on a couch or chair and spread her legs wide apart.  You will have access to her entire genital area. She can further help herself by using her fingers to spread the vaginal lips. To be at the right level with her vulva, you can sit on a stool. In this position, you can have absolute flexibility in using both your mouth and hands to pleasure her.


Lying Position – You get her to lie flat on the bed and lift her butt up and throw her legs back toward her head. This enables you to look straight down to her vagina. It will give you great access to pleasure her orally.


Use these tips to blow her mind, to keep her coming back for more. To get more ideas and tips to please a girl and make her want you more, click on Make Her Cum Fast And Hard and/or Lick By Lick.



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Her Pleasure – How To Orgasm During Sex

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During sexual intercourse, your girl claimed that she never feel any sensation or tingling feelings, or feeling nothing. She can feel your penis, but that is all. She loves you, but during sex, she feels nothing.  Though you can turn her on, and she can get aroused, but when it comes to actually having sex, she just can’t reach orgasm. This is no surprise considering only 30 percent of women experience orgasms from sex alone. This is because many sex positions do not stimulate the main female hot spots, such as the clitoris and the G-spot. How to help her to reach orgasm during intercourse?


(1)   Focus on emotional intimacy with her


As counterintuitive as it may seem, focus on the idea that you can have ecstatic sex even without orgasm. That means both of you! Sometimes reaching that big “O” can be frustrating, but ironically, the best way to achieve orgasm is often to simply stop trying so hard. Reaching the big finish does take some effort, but if you keep thinking “orgasm, orgasm, orgasm” throughout sex, this will just make you (and your partner) completely stressed out. You will both be left feeling inadequate and disconnected if the big moment does not pan out.


You also have to recognize that women are not all the same when it comes to what can get them aroused. Most guys think that foreplay is kissing and touching a woman’s genitals. But for some women, foreplay is having a nice intimate dinner or connecting emotionally through various situations. Instead, you enjoy the intimacy of being close to your partner, to pay more attention to your partner’s needs and try figuring out what works best for her, and most important you should not assume she wants what you want.


(2)   Experiment and try new ways to please herself


If your girl is not able to orgasm during intercourse, it could be that she has not explored enough of her body and therefore have not found her way of reaching an orgasm via intercourse or internal stimulation. In order to see what works for her, you can get her to try in her own privacy to stimulate herself internally, inside the vagina, with a dildo or vibrator, to find the most sensitive spot for her inside the vagina. This is a form of self-sexual therapy to get your girl comfortable with her genitals and sexual response which can help to increase the chances of having orgasms during intercourse.


Many women find that the most sensitive spot is located on the belly side of the vagina, which is commonly known as the g-spot. It is believed that the reason why the g-spot is sensitive is because there are little ducts hanging off the urinary tract, which have the same make-up as the prostate in males. If a man’s prostate is stimulated, he can orgasm.  It is believed that therefore if she stimulates these little ducts via the vagina she is able to orgasm internally.


In the process of self-discovery, she can also get the help of a sex toy. A battery-operated vibrator can help to “break through” an obstacle to climaxing. Once she has had the experience several times on her own, it will give her the confidence that she “works just fine”. She can then replicate that stimulation on her own or with you.


Once she has found her sensitive spot, try to stimulate it and see what happens. Afterwards both of you can explore various sexual positions and see if it is possible to be able to stimulate that area with the penis. However, if she finds that there is no specific sensitive spot for her, then she should try to masturbate while having sexual intercourse.


(3)   Focus on her pleasure


Ask your girl to guide you by placing her fingers over your fingers or hand, pressing the spots she likes and showing you the motion and frequency that makes her go wild. You cannot count on intercourse alone to provide enough stimulation. Oral sex can be highly pleasurable to many women because of its direct focus on the clitoris. Women experience intense orgasms through oral sex. Manually, orally or with a vibrator, you may need to stimulate her clitoris more directly.


(4)   Try a variety of sex positions where her clitoris and g-spot can be further stimulated.


The woman-on-top position has more potential for clitoral stimulation than the normal missionary position. When she is on top, she can have more control over the amount of stimulation, rhythm, and pacing as she rubs her clitoris against the penis. She can adjust the angle of her hips to reach your pubic bone. This position also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the g-spot and trigger an orgasm. The technique can be carried out with you lying down on your back or sitting. Either you or your partner can also press a vibrator into the clitoris for a more intense stimulation.


The rear entry position will need her to stand and bend at the waist or kneels on all fours or leaning forward on her elbows and you stand or kneel behind her. Either you or her can caress the clitoris or to press a vibrator against it. After you enter her, get her to squeeze her legs closed while you place your legs outside hers. You can then squeeze her legs further closed with your thighs. It may help if you can shift your pelvis forward to cause pressure and friction on her clitoris.


The missionary position with a full pelvic tilt position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the part of the clitoris that extends into the vaginal wall. Get her to lie on her back, put one or more pillows beneath her buttocks to tilt her pelvis upward. To achieve a better angle for you to hit her g-spot, you raise her buttocks with your hands. For deeper penetration to hit her g-spot, you can get her to hug her knees to her chest or to rest her legs on your shoulders.


To increase the chances of having a female orgasm during intercourse, these tips and simple variations of the sex positions can help to allow your girl to enjoy a new erotic pleasure. Like with anything else in life, doing the same old thing can get boring and boring does not go well together with orgasm. So mix it up and try new things to increase her arousal.


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The Things That A Woman Does Not Normally Tell You

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A lot of guys get most of their knowledge of sex from watching porn. The problem is most of what you see in porn is not a close reflection of the reality, giving you misleading ideas about sex. Here is a list of things that porn does not tell you about sex. Read below if you want to have a greater understanding of female sexuality and learn how to please a woman.


(1)   Do women have certain vagina size?


You often hear about penis size, but what about vagina size? Just like each guy has different penis size, the same applies to women too. If a woman is a virgin, her vagina is definitely smaller than other women who have sexual experience. A virgin has a flap of skin inside the vaginal canal called the hymen which will break when enough force is exerted during penetration, causing light to moderate bleeding. Sometimes the hymen can break unexpectedly when young girls engage in quite vigorous sport activities such as cycling or horseback riding.


Under normal condition, the vagina lays flat and expands when a penis or a vibrator is inserted inside. When she is not aroused, the average vagina size is about three to four inches long. But when she is highly aroused, her vagina may even double in size to accommodate you. If you want to have deeper penetration, make sure you give her about ten to fifteen minutes of foreplay to get her aroused and ready for intercourse.


(2)   How to relieve painful sex?


When a woman is giving birth, her vaginal muscles will be stretched to accommodate the baby during natural delivery. This means her vaginal muscles are very flexible. For a woman who has a partner with above average penis size of six inches, causing her painful sex, she can work on her vaginal muscles to stretch them out and make it more comfortable to accommodate a larger penis. This can be done by experimenting with inserting herself sex toys of different sizes, starting from small and gradually increasing the size of toy. This can be made easier and more comfortable if lubricant is used to prevent accidentally tearing the vaginal muscles.


(3)   How does sex help women?


If something is not used, it will lay waste. If this drags on for too long, it may lose its normal function. You have already known that exercises can strengthen your muscles. The same logic applies to sex. The vaginal muscles need to be regularly exercised or they will become weak. If a woman does not have sex for a very long time, the delicate tissues inside will get thin and can begin to break down. Regular sex can help to keep a woman’s genitals in peak form.


Besides regular sex, she can keep her vagina in good ‘working condition’ by means of Kegel exercises. These are aimed to strengthen her vaginal muscles. She can do this on her own for about ten seconds and two or three times a day by clenching her vaginal muscles, the same way she does when she holds back her urine.


Another option she can consider is to use Ben Wa balls. These are small weighted balls that are inserted into the vagina to strengthen its muscles. She will need all of her vaginal, anal and pelvic floor muscles to keep them inside the vaginal canal. In the beginning, you can get for your woman lighter weight ones that have a strong attached to them. To give her more pleasure, you can get for her those silicone or vibrating ones. As she slowly gets used to them, she can use heavier balls such as metal or glass balls, which will exercise her muscles more and more. Another option is vaginal tightening cream which works in the same way that anti-wrinkel cream does on your face.


(4)   Is it normal that she smells down there?


A normal vagina has an odor, but is usually not very pungent. A yeast or bacterial infection can make it smell more pungent. Her diet can also affect the way she smells down there. It is unnecessary to do anything about this. This is because a woman’s genitals are designed to be self-cleaning. Therefore douching is not needed and can actually do more harm than good. At normal times, a woman has natural vaginal secretions to protect herself against yeast or bacterial infections. Besides this, her once-in-a-month menstruation is another natural cleansing process. If in doubt, get her to see a doctor. It is only after being confirmed by a doctor that this is not life threatening, she can then go to a pharmacy outlet to get some over the counter creams.


Compared to men, a woman’s body is more biologically complicated. It serves your interests and hers to equip yourself with more knowledge if you want to have a better sex life. If you are keen to find out more, click here. For ways to derive more pleasure from sex, you can also visit this place.


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